well im the quiet type of guy. im not the constant chatter box kinda guy. i dont crack jokes that much either, but i do. now dont think im an introvert coz im not. i think im a normal talker. well i went out with this girl yesterday and it was like so boring. she is kinda special to me. i like her as a friend but i have not told her. but she didnt seem to bother at all. she kept yawning and spoke in a very drowsy, sleepy way and she told me that a couple of times too. that didnt go down well with me. here i am doing so much for her and she's like just not bothered.
this girl seems to likes my friend, who is broke, loud, obnoxious, hits on every girl possible, he has even hurt her,and she told me about it. but he is entertaining. he cracks jokes, some of which are dirty. she laughs for his silly jokes. she keeps praising him in front of me. yesterday she told me if we could take him with us to the amusement park. i said ok. it hurt me. wht shall i do if the same grl calls me out again
2007-07-28 19:33:32 · 16 answers · asked by drno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this same girl has told me over the phoen that it is hard to find a guy like me. i think im a nice guy. i respect girls. i look in the eyes, i open doors for them and what not. i try to be entertaining to the best of my ability.
this girl has told the same friend that she also kinda likes me. but she aint sure. then why does she keep praising him. she is the only girl who talkes to that guy. all other girls hate him.
what shoudl i do if she calls me out? shoudl i tell her that i dont like the way she behaves? should i tell her to take the other guy? it seems to me that she wants my money and the other guys jokes..im confused...
2007-07-28 19:37:18 · update #1
Well, first of all, AWW. you're so sweet. Ok, maybe this girl is like a bunch of other weird girls. She is a bad boy liker. I doubt she will change her taste and it is definitely not a good idea to change yourself for her. She is obviously not worth it if she actually did that to you on your date. I say for you to just get over her. Maybe she is just meant to be a friend and I'm sure there are plenty of girls out there who will appreciate you a hell of a lot more than her.
2007-07-28 19:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by starlitdreamer09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell he NO NO NO. She is only using you to get at your friend and doesn t care if your heart gets in the way. Tell her if she likes your friend so much to just ask him out and leave you alone. And if this is any friend at all he will tell her to get lost. I am not sure about guys but girls have a code of not dating a guy your friend has dated. SO kick her to the curb.
2007-07-29 02:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be busy if she calls again. Be busy finding someone else to lavish your attention on. Someone who might think you are entertaining, praises you, and wants you around so she can laugh at your jokes.
Be grateful that this girl has been honest about her feelings. This way, you don't have to waste your time trying to figure out what she thinks.
2007-07-29 02:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting your time buddy. She told you to take her out to the amusement park, she doesn't love you, she just wants to have fun and I am sorry to say, "use you". Find a girl that loves you, accepts you as you are, and be happy with her.
2007-07-29 02:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder she was yawning. I was reading your story and you were putting me to sleep. Holy crap you are boring as hell. Liven up- No girl likes a dud. Not at a young age at least. When you hit 30 or so, then be a dud. God after reading that story I wanted to rip my lips off and stick them in my ears. that's how boring you are. thank god i was not there- i would have slapped you for being boring. YOU BORE!!!!!
-c
2007-07-29 02:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Swift Ninja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's so messed up. the guy she likes sounds like a jerk - and she, a jerkette. seriously, let her go. it's tough but either one of two things will happen 1) she'll leave you... 2) she'll realize what an idiot she's been and come running back toyou 10 years later. how often does 2 happen? um.. yeah.
good luck =\
2007-07-29 02:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♫Chatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u dont want to sit around with her when all she does is talk about your friend, and if she likes him so much then why doesnt ask him out.
2007-07-29 02:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by hot stuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, it just doesn't sound like she is ready to be in a respectful relationship. It hurts, but you need to move on.
2007-07-29 02:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
apparently, she's not interested in you. you might want to call her and ask her why in the hell did she wasted your time. that would be a starter. seek another good girl.
2007-07-29 02:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by joyce s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how rude! dont even waste your time with someone who treats you like that. Be nice but don't let her use you.
2007-07-29 02:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by dsarkdsamned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋