iv been talkin to her on msn for like 4weeks and see her around alot at parties an stuff and i think its time to ask her out as we r always talking everyday. i dont see her much yet but.
any help??
how can i start it off me tellin her?
give best answer!!
2007-07-28 19:09:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to say, i like you more than a friend only because then if she says no i will look like a loser infront of everyone
2007-07-28 19:14:36 · update #1
i was gona ask her out on msn
2007-07-28 19:18:30 · update #2
just ask her straight out. be all "hey, we've been talking for a while and i found out to really like you. so u wanna get together some day?" or somewhere along the lines like that. good luck! =]
2007-07-28 19:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by jenny56868 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two points:
1. In person. Women respect live confrontation. It shows you have given it thought and preparation.
2. Be honest and simple. An elaborate pick up essay isn't necessary. She either is interested or not. A lengthy pickup line isn't going to change her mind. Just walk up and say, "Hey I've been meaning to ask you, would you like to go out on a date and catch a movie sometime?"
Also, you must be CLEAR that you are asking her out on a date and not just to hang out as friends. Clarity is the key. Notice that I used the WORD date. This is essential. Good luck to you!
2007-07-29 02:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by firefingers100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it on MSN!!! Do it in person or on the phone. It shows you have confidence, even if you don't the illusion of confidence is just as important. Don't tell her you like more than just a friend, tell her want you think without freaking her out. You're just wanting to date, not have kids!
Have a plan of where to go. You should know what she likes & dislikes by know. Don't just ask her out, ask her something specific. "Hey, Meatball Joe & the Spagetties are playing Friday, would you like to go with me." Of course give her enough time, don't ask her on Thursday...Monday or Tuesday would be good. Again, it shows confidence & thoughtfulness. You know what you want to do & you've put enough thought into it to figure out how you're going to go about it. Have a plan to get her there & back & if she says you, ask if she'd like to grab something to eat prior.
Be prepared for a "no, I just want us to be friends", but don't let it scare you off. It sucks, but it's reality.
Plan it out, shake of the nerves & go for it. You can do it!
Good luck!!!
2007-07-29 02:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Big Papa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask if you can get together for coffee, lunch, or something where you can talk (movie not a good answer). Then ask her out in person, doing it thew instant messenger will not be good. You cannot hear a persons voice to get a feel for what they are saying and its just not as personable. Also if you ask in person then the first time you see each other in person it will not be as awkward. Good luck, be yourself, hopefully she says yes!
2007-07-29 02:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you really feel about her, but don't go too far. Remember, you want to ask her out, not scare her off. Just be yourself (as corny as that sounds) and if she likes you for you, then hooray! Oh and on a side note, giving her a little present wouldn't hurt either =)
2007-07-29 02:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, on the msn just tell her: "Hey, (her name), since we have been talking for a while now, how about getting together and going to (tell her what you want to do) on (day) at (time). Since you talk to her so much, you must know what days she has free and what time she can go. If you speak to her on the phone and you would rather speak to her on the phone then call her and say this.
2007-07-29 02:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by ttwobearsplusone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think you should hang out with her as just you two before you ask her out to gain more interest in the world outside the internet, and this will help gain her interest allowing the chances of it being a yes to heighten.To ask her out, i think you should wait for the right moment in a pretty scenery, and kiss her, and if she kisses you back kiss back, and then stop, stare at her right in the eye and ask her out!
2007-07-29 02:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Deviant Fish 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you waiting for Christmas? Go ahead and ask... before she goes out with some one else....
Good Luck!
2007-07-29 02:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she'd like to get together for lunch. Not as serious as a dinner date.
2007-07-29 02:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by John S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here what, it's very simple, you just come right out and ask her on a date, there is nothing to be intimidated about.
2007-07-29 02:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋