2007-07-28 19:26:12 · 11 answers · asked by Talar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone tells me I do everything rational and he's just not worth being with me. But I love him more than anything. He told me that I love him more. What does this mean? Theres more to it, but it hurts to even talk about it.
2007-07-28 19:28:17 · update #1
You all left very nice answers. Thank you so much for your time<3
2007-07-28 23:32:41 · update #2
You are not in love with him.....there is a saying that says ( you are in love with him, but not in love with him) Do you understand what I mean? If not I will explain, you love him as a man/boy/friend who pays attention to you...you are blinded by him even when you see him admit it or see him do whatever you let him get away with it...And he knows it...so he continues to do it and apologize for doing it afterwards...so he is use to getting away with it when it concerns you... because you really won't say nothing to him....it only upsets you...Kick him to the CURVE!!!!...You can do better than this....girl..!!!!! Good Luck....
2007-07-28 19:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by mizbehavingangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worth your time. He has already admitted he doesn't love you the same way you love him. Dump him and find a nice guy who feels the same way you do. You will get over him. You need someone who loves you just as much. You have to accept he doesn't feel the same way you do and move on. Your heart is tougher than you think and you don't want to be with someone who doesn't treat you right.
There are a whole lot of nice guys in the world who would love to be with you. Go out and find them. You will be miserable if you stay with this guy. You can fall in love again, for love is a choice, not a gift from others.
2007-07-28 19:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The person who loves more is the person with more to lose. The person with less to lose has the control in the relationship. Being nice is all well and good, but he's not sorry. Being sorry means not only that you regret your actions, but you intend not to repeat them. If he's doing the same stuff, he's not sorry at all, he's just operating on the assumption that since you're nice, you'll always forgive him.
Do you really like to be played like that?
2007-07-28 19:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by personal.pastor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what he's doing to you...you never said. But if "everybody" is telling you that you shouldn't be with him and it's obvious to everyone around you that you should get out of the relationship, why isn't it so obvious to you?
Whatever he's doing, you're allowing the behavior to continue by tolerating it. By staying in the relationship, you're giving consent to him, allowing him to treat you badly. You've asked him to stop in the past and he hasn't. This tells you that he has no intention of stopping whatever behavior it is that you find so offensive.
So why do you love him so much if he's demonstrated time and time again to you that he doesn't care enough about you to stop hurting you?
2007-07-28 19:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by ann81969 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to see that red flag, any guy that tells you, you love him more than he loves you, is truly wasting your time. Hey relationships are tough and you have to work at it but it takes two people to make the relationship work. If you are the only one taking the time to develop the relationship then it's best you call it off now before you really get hurt.
2007-07-28 19:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he shouldn't tell you that you love him more love is unconditional and equal, i don't know what he's apologizing for but sorry only works a few times you have to learn from your mistakes
2007-07-29 11:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by malone1423 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a victim. Move on, you deserve to be treated like a princess. He is not your prince. Good luck.
2007-07-28 19:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by pixie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like hes really hurting u. no man is worth it if they make u feel horrible. girl just dump the loser!! hes not worth it!!!!
2007-07-28 19:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by w/ejustcareaboutmyanswer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that means that he thinks he is to good for you, find a good bf that loves you as much as you love him
2007-07-28 19:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by hot stuff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like maybe he doesn't really want to be with you or love you. the truth hurts....always does when it's bad.
2007-07-28 19:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by gymclasshero 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋