Family & Relationships - 20 July 2007

Does he regret his decion of leaving me for his cousin?
about 3 months ago a guy who i was seeing for two years was cheating on me and I had no Idea of the other woman cut a long story short he broke up with me by txt msg saying he cant go out with me anymore.So he was dating his first cousin may I add then about a week ago i was walking to the train station i wasnt far from the platform and isaw diss dark guy in his car with windows up we looked at each other and he was looking pretty hard at my direction i contiuied walking ands the guy put down his windows and it was him he called my nam and then i realised who he was it was my ex lover i just ignored him and kept walking he said fine and drove of it wasnt like it was dark it was in the morning so he had no reason to call my name question is do you think he regrets his decision of breaking up with me 4 his cousin who lives 10hr drive away or was he just being nice.his age is 25 and im 20.

2007-07-20 18:33:46 · 18 answers · asked by Ashanti 3 in Singles & Dating

men and women what are yur tunoffs about the opposite sex??...i personaly cant stand men in sweatpants....YOU??....:)..<3

2007-07-20 18:32:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our 13 year old grandson wants to live with us since his parents divorced.
at what age will the court let me deside?

2007-07-20 18:31:39 · 5 answers · asked by Janey 1 in Family

I can only give examples of what I have done to make people say this.
1.Went to school full time and had a part time job, and a casual job....so that I could travel before college.
2.Got tired of being overweight, started exersising for an hour each day and watching what I eat, avoided junk food like the plauge..lost 80pounds.
3.Didn't want to be shy anymore, so I put myself out there and started showing interest in other people and the world.
4.After my little nieces favourite teddy got destroyed by the family dog, I spent a day doing nothing but finding fur to match his colour and rebuilding him.
5.When my friend said she was having a bad day,I went over to her house as fast as I could and treated her for the whole day.
..etc......
I think all of these things are valid, do I really try too hard? and is that a bad thing? What dies it mean to try to hard?

2007-07-20 18:29:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok. my mum and dad split up and now have different familys... with 2 brothers on each side. but before i fould out that this guy was my step brother i liked him and now that he is we seem to be getting closer and i am starting to like him WAY WAY more but i cant and i dont know what too do anymore.... he also likes my best friend do i tell him? or try and get on with life and find a guy to get over him? HELP ME

2007-07-20 18:28:19 · 9 answers · asked by chloe b 1 in Family

I kind of like him but my horoscope said with out zodiac signs, we will not work in a relationship. I know it might sound crazy, but I believe this stuff. With his sign I really don't get along with his signs, friends or relationships. What should I do?

2007-07-20 18:27:58 · 4 answers · asked by armoni_18 2 in Singles & Dating

I wouldn't even know what working on a marriage is. My husband and I love eachother, making it work comes naturally. Although, I wouldn't call compromise, communication or spending time together work or even difficult 'cause even though sometimes I may not like the guy I still love him, so what do you people mean?

2007-07-20 18:26:38 · 18 answers · asked by qwertatious 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, im 14, and my best friends are planning on going to warped tour on august 5th and they really want me to go, and obviously i want to go as well. how can i convince my parents into letting me go?
PLEASE HELP ME YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW BADLY I REALLY WANT TO GO TO WARPED TOUR!!!!!!!

2007-07-20 18:26:09 · 3 answers · asked by romina 1 in Family

My friend told me that as we get older into adulthood, it's harder for men and women to become just strictly close friends. It's not so much of the physical stuff but it's a "way of life" because you want to life your life, enjoy your same-sex friends, have fun and eventually you'll want to settle down with just one person that hopefully will "complete" you and you'll have everything in that person - a lover and a best friend. All your other guy friends won't matter because as you get older, the only person of the opposite sex that matters is your boyfriend/girlfriend. It's hard to be friends with people of the opposite sex when you're in a relationship. You can still have casual friends and have an "aquintance" relationship but for the most part, it becomes more difficult for guys and girls to be CLOSE friends as you get more into adulthood


Is this true??

2007-07-20 18:25:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it makes me feel so weird when i go out and have guys in there 20's checking me out when i am only 15 but i have been told i look like im 18 which i know i do. I do not wear any tight fitting or slutty clothes. When i go out with my family they are always telling me that some one has just checked me out....and the guys r cute and all but are over 20! Any Advice?!

2007-07-20 18:23:13 · 13 answers · asked by marina_703 1 in Family

It's not like your spouse has a low body count. In fact most people have tons of lovers before marrige.

So why does one more notch make a difference?

2007-07-20 18:18:43 · 31 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK so im a 16 year old boy and basically i kinda think i need some new clothes cuz ive had all these for a while, and its definitely times for some new shirts, pants, shoes....

my moms kinda annoying about this though, idk its not even like i buy a bunch of clothes, but i do like to look nice and clean, and the last time we bought some clothes was like last september, so almost a year now...

my shirts are kinda starting to look old/ jeans are getting wierd/ my shoes are pretty old...

my moms just super annoying about spending money, even though were pretty well-off....

how do i convince her that its time to get some new freakin clothes!?!?

2007-07-20 18:17:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm finding it hard to balance my time for work, my teenage kids, household chores. I'm studying at the same time (masteral), and chuch obligations (bible sharing group, church service). My husband isn't living with us anymore.

2007-07-20 18:14:41 · 8 answers · asked by T'cher D 2 in Family

2007-07-20 18:14:36 · 6 answers · asked by leyenda_asturias 3 in Family

How do you deal with a teen who's lying, driving too far away and too late, yelling, being sarcastic, disrespectful, and cussing at his parents?
Ways besides counseling(already doing) and spankings(too old for that)
mature answers please - preferably parents/adults

2007-07-20 18:14:17 · 5 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Family

Lately I have been struck in the head quite hard. So hard that I be seeing white flashes, followed by an extreme headache. Can someone kill you like this?

2007-07-20 18:13:25 · 12 answers · asked by cantseepastthis 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

His company moved a young lady into his office. There are people in and out of his office several times a day so its not like its private. He is worried that rumors may start or that I may get jealous. I'm not concerned because I know his character and he wouldn't cheat. What should I tell him?

2007-07-20 18:13:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if they keep staring at you and if you look back at him, he turned away

2007-07-20 18:10:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-20 18:09:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My dad and mom got divorced a year ago. THe worst part of the divorce is that it happened on my birthday. My mom got re-married to Charlie.My dad is dating again and he has a girlfriend named Della. She keeps on trying to step in and be my mom. I have no idea what to do. I hate her to she is the fakest thing on the planet. We even had to change churchs so we could go to hers. WHatever Della wants she gets at a blink of an eye. I just can't take it anymore and neither can my siblings (13,11,). I need advice. Please help me.

2007-07-20 18:04:25 · 7 answers · asked by mnm16685 2 in Family

2007-07-20 18:04:06 · 1 answers · asked by Candii Rainbow 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive known this guy for 10 years,im 16 years old.hes 19 years old. well we were hanging out last night after not seeing eachother for 3 months because his girlfriend doesnt like me. well one thing led to another and we had sex, he was going to break up with his girlfriend for me since weve been so close for 10 years. what should i do?

2007-07-20 18:01:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why would it hurt them? What makes somebody think that they'll be enough to satisfy the other for an entire lifetime?

2007-07-20 18:01:13 · 35 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-20 18:00:35 · 15 answers · asked by Spanglish 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister and i normally get along great(we're identical twins)and even when we dont we can normally agree to disagree and get over it soon...........but its been 3days and its like shes still mad and she tries to get me in trouble with mom.Im over it,but will she ever be???

2007-07-20 17:55:42 · 5 answers · asked by Susanna 4 in Family

She just preached to me about the Gospel and stuff. And nagged me some more on my attitude. She's a 24/7 chatterbox, I say!

How would YOU feel if you were in my shoes???

2007-07-20 17:49:29 · 5 answers · asked by Ms Ghost 6 in Family

I really need some help. I need to know who I would contact about a 7 year old that is being "home schooled". Her parents are divorced and she says her older sister teaches her. (older sister is 9). This little girl does not even know her birthday.
Let me be clear that I have NO problems with kids that are home schooled. I just know these 2 little girls are not being taught.
Can you locate a number that I contact to report this? They live part of the time in KY (with their Dad) and part of the time in IN (with their Mom).

2007-07-20 17:48:10 · 7 answers · asked by 2rugrats 3 in Family

2007-07-20 17:45:31 · 10 answers · asked by sky girl 615 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 and i love my grandma very much. i see her a lot. so when i saw her today, i gave her a story that i typed up. four pages long. its said how much i loved her and how much she meaned to me. my grandma always puffs her hair. i wrote that in the story and she was laughing really hard when she read it. she was laughing through the whole story. why was she laughing? after the story, she kept hugging me and kissing me on the cheek. does she like the story? why was she laughing?

2007-07-20 17:43:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We met a 4-5 weeks ago but only recently started talking. We had really good conversation and she is really nice, which worries me because it might mean she thinks we are just going to be friends.
We had lunch a couple of times and I told her that we should hang out for real. She agreed and gave me her number, we had only used email before that.
So what should I expect when we hang out? friends? or is she inviting me to make a move?

2007-07-20 17:38:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating