ive known this guy for 10 years,im 16 years old.hes 19 years old. well we were hanging out last night after not seeing eachother for 3 months because his girlfriend doesnt like me. well one thing led to another and we had sex, he was going to break up with his girlfriend for me since weve been so close for 10 years. what should i do?
2007-07-20 18:01:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hope he doesn't break your heart or hope his X don't kick your azz?
2007-07-20 18:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by ~brigit~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all due unto others what you would want done to you.
You were wrong for sleeping with him because he was technically still in a relationship. I understand that he and you have feelings for one another but if you don't go about the right way and give him and his girlfriend the time and chance to go through the whole break up process it could come back to bite you in the behind. I think he also should have shown some restraint as far as being intimate with you because of the fact that he already had someone.
Respect yourself and the other women to whom he is still in a relationship with to give them time to deal with their break up in the long run you will be glad that you did. You do not want to be the mistress nor do you want to be the rebound girl. So hold off on being with and around him until he gets the situation rectified and then once it is all said and done with then pursue your relationship with him.
Good Luck!
Charlie
2007-07-21 01:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run far far away! I have been in the same type of situation. My best guy friend, who at the time I had known for 15 years and I became close and one thing lead to another we dated for 3 years, until he cheated on me. Now our friendship is pretty much ruined because I used to think that he was the person who I could always count on and that he would never hurt me. That was the thing that hurt the most about the whole thing.
2007-07-21 01:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by ....jaimie.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see..he cheats on his girlfriend with you and is now going to take you on as a girlfriend till he cheats again with someone else.
This is the oldest trick in the book for getting girls to have sex with them.
You made a major mistake and you need to ditch this guy for he can't be trusted. By the way next time keep your clothes on. No guy that is not married to you is going to stick around too long if he is getting sex. The mystery of you is gone now and he will soon get bored and move on if he hasn't already.
2007-07-21 01:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by Swampmoth 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your 18!
He can go to jail if your not careful!
Would you want him to register every year as a sex offender for the rest of his life?
I should know, I register sex offenders as part of my job. There are about 93 offenders where I live that I have to register year round. I would say about 60% are there because they had sex with a minor and the other 40% are there for forcible rape. If someone finds out that he had sex with you, guess who's face will be on the Internet for all to see listed as a "sex offender?" (for life) At least wait until your 18. Don't let your honey become a offender for life. I know it seems exciting to you but it is not worth the hassle he will be stuck with for his entire life. That's my advice.
2007-07-21 01:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by RC Collns 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make all your decisions based on what makes you feel good about yourself in the long run. I'm not sure trying to prove that his girlfriend is accurate in her intuition about you will make you feel very good about yourself. AND, if he is not trustworthy with her, what makes you think he's trustworthy with you? He is not a good risk.
If you know with certainty that he lies and is untrustworthy with the person is dating, then is it worth involving yourself in such a risky, complex, messy and possibly dangerous situation?
2007-07-21 01:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by CHARLES T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in the first place you know he's into a reletionship but now he's breaking it because of what happen.you said you've known him for 10yrs but your just a child then. and still young and impulsive.he's using your vulnerability your relationship with him will not last.
2007-07-21 01:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by honey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something I learned a long time ago, there are 'gf' and 'other women'.
When he leaves the 'gf' for the 'other woman', the 'other woman' becomes the 'gf'.
The position of 'other woman' is now open and I am willing to bet he is taking applications.
2007-07-21 01:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Michael H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,
if you've been close for ten years then it's ok.
have you dated at all in the past?
well, if you already had sex, won't the girlfriend find out eventually?
i say, it's fine if he breaks up with her for u. in my opinion
2007-07-21 01:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by girlfrann. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure he's going to break up with his girlfriend?Sounds like he's using you.
2007-07-21 01:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by Babylove 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋