We met a 4-5 weeks ago but only recently started talking. We had really good conversation and she is really nice, which worries me because it might mean she thinks we are just going to be friends.
We had lunch a couple of times and I told her that we should hang out for real. She agreed and gave me her number, we had only used email before that.
So what should I expect when we hang out? friends? or is she inviting me to make a move?
2007-07-20 17:38:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be nice to her man. Just be a nice guy at first. Let her get t know you. The best relationships starts out as friendships IMO.
Just be nice for now. Don't say "friend". Dont say "boyfriend". Just be nice and eventually you'll figure out what she's going for. Patience.
2007-07-20 21:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by netbug009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she likes you and you have to treat her like a girlfriend/potential lover or it will develop into a friends only relationship. Touch her some in a non-threatening way, like say her hair. If she is still smiling, brush her lower lip with your knuckle and comment how soft hey look. You'll know right then whether she wants you to kiss her or not.
Good Luck!
2007-07-21 00:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by amistere4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just waite untill you both go out and hang for a while to get a vibe from her. your going to know if shes into you. if she is shes going to giggle and laugh alot. try and get close to you alot like find little ways of touching or pushing u in a nice way. if she doesnt do these things then its probably only going to be friends then move on and just keep her a friend to lean on.
2007-07-21 00:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters you met so you both should think about taking things slow. You only met 4-5 weeks ago so she might be trying to take things slow. It is good to take things slow so no one ends up getting hurt.
She might be inviting you over as a friends. Some women try to take things slow. We like to get to know you. We like to become your friend. We like to know what you like and what you don't like. We like to know what your favorite color is, your favorite food, your favorite cologne, and etc.
Take it from me, when you've dated different types of men you like things slow so you know what your really getting yourself into.
If you want earlier than that than lay all your cards on the table and really let her know how you feel and what you're looking for. GOOD LUCK!
2007-07-21 00:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by 2010goon2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is just nervous because this is something new. Sometimes us girls try to play hard to get to see how interested in us you are. And I know this is not the past but sometimes we still wait for the man to make his moves. Just go slow, there is no need to rush.
2007-07-21 00:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by niki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO SLOW!! DO not make an akward move that will ruin the friendship. But be flirty, not creep flirty though. Good luck. Be yourself.
2007-07-21 00:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by cdani425 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go hangout with her, read her body language. You should know how shes feeling once you chill with her.
Im sure her feelings will become very noticable and then you will decide whether to make a move or not. :)
2007-07-21 00:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, "look i like you.. in that way. if you don't like me like that it's cool, i could always use more friends. i just thought I'd throw it out there and see what would happen"
you get +'s for being ballsy, open, honest, and it makes rejection easier/less awkward if she picks the latter.
2007-07-21 00:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by sebastian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a move buddy. Be a man
2007-07-21 00:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by coolguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's your definition of confusing, hold on - life gets a LOT more bumpy down the road.
2007-07-21 00:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋