Family & Relationships - 3 June 2007

We have been married for almost 8 years and have 2 kids. I found out he was cheating on me, at the beginning he did not accept it, but later he did and agreed to go to counseling. He has told me he ended it, but I recently saw old pictures of them posted on the "other womans" webite, posted after they supposedly ended it. He has not changed his cellphone or given me his email password so that I can have some type of proof that it is really over. He promises to do whatever I want one day, and the next he takes it back. He does not make me feel loved or wanted, but he insists that he does and wants to make it work. He is very unstable emotionaly, so I told him 2 days ago that it was over, to call me only about the kids, but other than that I wasn't interested. He is on medication for his depression, but what am I supposed to do? I have given him many chances and he just won't cooperate. I feel so insecure about his feelings. Any advice? THANKS!

2007-06-03 07:53:07 · 17 answers · asked by ilovegreen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't really see the problem with the Mccanns. They were leaving them in a secure complex and checking on them every few minutes? Why are so many people making a big deal of this? You must all think you're the perfect parents (or you don't have kids)? They don't exactly strike me as the irresponsible type? It's a typical witch hunt.

2007-06-03 07:49:57 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

As ablove but I know she feels the same for me. Do you think it could ever work out?

2007-06-03 07:47:17 · 27 answers · asked by ahh_gizmo 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been dating for about a year and i still love to flirt is it wrong even though i love him dearly...

2007-06-03 07:45:52 · 32 answers · asked by cassie 1 in Singles & Dating

mine would be.

KCI & JoJo - All My Life
KCI & JoJo - Crazy
KCI & JoJo - Tell Me Its Real
Brian Mcknight - Back At One
Nu Flavor - Heaven
Nu Flavor - Three Little Words
Pachebel - Canon In D

2007-06-03 07:44:28 · 17 answers · asked by LD 3 in Weddings

Well my mom tried to choke me untill the point where i couldn't breath then she slaped me and threw me up against the wall i hit my head and fell down. I felt like I was gonna pass out but she kept hitting me then she got a belt and started whiping me. After that I was all bruised and felt bad not only physicaly but emotionaly like she didn't love me. ps. I was 13

2007-06-03 07:43:37 · 18 answers · asked by Aly=D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

... phrase for your family to shout in the background while you are on the phone with your gf/bf?

"WE HAVE NO MONEY! NO MONEY!"
"GET THE ROACH SPRAY!"
"YOU HAVE TO FLUSH IT BETTER!"
"WE HAVE TO PICK DAD UP AT REHAB!"

2007-06-03 07:42:33 · 23 answers · asked by Mike H 4 in Singles & Dating

My father caught me in my sisters bathing suit. He hit me and he said mean things.

I feel really depressed.

what can i do?

2007-06-03 07:35:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-03 07:35:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and ur looking for someone, and you see a good looking girl probably with her friend, what do u say if u migth wana hook up?

2007-06-03 07:33:34 · 5 answers · asked by mexicanimm11 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been togetther for 10 years now and recently got married about 3years ago. We have 2 beauitful boys and a pretty up and down relationship. Only because we have both Have had our fair share of bad mistakes..I would say i hurt him the worst and live with that guilt everyday!!!! Theres not one day yhat i dont hate myself or blame my self.. Right now He works 5 days out of he week and is sometime gone for 20 hrs. His job does consiste of him being gone that long (i think).I also work 4 days too and i am a bartender,I am not that big of a drinker so i hardly ever go up there when i am not working and if i do its with my man anyway!!! Well he is a drinker and loves to play pool so he is up there a lot.Our issues are that i dont ever get to see him and either do my boys and when he dose have time off then he is always gone or at the bar !!! Latley he goes up there after work and dosent call to tell me or even invite me to come with.I an begging him for time and he ignores Help!!!!

2007-06-03 07:32:37 · 5 answers · asked by hotmomma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister's wedding is coming recently. we are christian family. and we dont like to put DJ or anything on reception. what can we put for reception? give me some ideas pls... we are giving dinner.....

can i put any nice videos or comedies like that? or telll me an idea. pls

2007-06-03 07:30:35 · 7 answers · asked by Solla 1 in Weddings

back in december, my wife told me had feelings for another man..he was her boss(he is married also)..she hid talking to him on the phone at all hours of the night while i was away..she hid having lunch with him, and meeting him in a different town, until she was caught, and rumors forced her to leave me and her job...we had a rough past three yrs, i was laid off, almost lost our home, we lost a baby, and lost our friendship.....i filed for divorve in january, the custody hearing was in feb, were the judge split our two kids up...needless to say, the very next day she wanted to meet me...we spent the weekend together and talked, she wants to work things out...she is now back at home, but i have a really hard time trusting her when shes late from work, when she goes out with her friends and does not call...is she done with this guy? she tells me yes, and i need to trust her and stop bringing all that up......
what to do??? can it work...??

2007-06-03 07:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by trailblaze01 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, How long did it take so to end up the argue and yelling?
And how old are you?are you a teenager?

And PS: How do you handle neighbours thoughts after that?

And finally what can you do to avoid such situations when you know that your mother's behaviour is not right,but you just worsen the situation with continuing it?

2007-06-03 07:28:38 · 17 answers · asked by Tanya 1 in Family

for girls if u knew a guy with no cell phone would u go like wtf?

2007-06-03 07:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by mexicanimm11 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I've been totally in love this girl for the past 6 months and last night I got a lil drunk, ok more than a lil, but well enough to drive.....Excuse my grammar becasue I'm still a lil messed up right now from last night,lol..Well anyways, I asked her why she won't go with me anymore and she said she was seeing another guy and that he makes her laugh.... What the hell does that mean, I mean I make her laugh too...Well usually I don't drink a lot but last night I got realllllll depressed and just sat there looking at her and wondering what on earth can I do to be with but I couldn't think of anything.....I don't want her to be freaked out about this today because i still want us to be good friends + I'll just wait till her lil phase passes and realize that I'm right for her..... What should I do?

2007-06-03 07:25:25 · 6 answers · asked by 619 1 in Singles & Dating

Some good techniques to flirt with u guys.....

2007-06-03 07:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by Jenni 2 in Singles & Dating

My girl and I are really going through it right now and I need to know from others if I'm at fault. Last night, my girl went to a party for her stepmother which had been planned for sometime and I was cool with that. I was even babysitting her best friends kids so she could go also. At the end of the night, the plan was for her to come back to her girlfriend's house with me. At 2 thirty in the morning, her girl comes in but my girl is not with her. She tells me that my girl was to drunk to drive and went to her mothers house to crash which was cool. I call my boy at like 3 something and he tells me that she in the club. Was I wrong for blowing up

2007-06-03 07:17:45 · 31 answers · asked by donnie 1 in Singles & Dating

how to tell a boy that I really fancy him?

2007-06-03 07:14:38 · 19 answers · asked by Jenni 2 in Singles & Dating

aunt who told my grandma about my depression i didnt want anyone to know. and my grandma has a bad heart anyways i told her its not something i want to be told or talk about. she said she doesnt know but she said in front of me and her that i went to the dr and that the dr said its going to take time. dont tell me she doesnt know lieing about makes her look worst. maybe because i tell it like it is about people who distroy the family and she sticks up for people like that. if i wanted the family to know about my depression they should hear it from me not her. and she acts like iam the problem not the other people. anyways thats why i told my other aunt that she took her pictures which is true. and i have to see her today i dont have feelings about the neative anymore but iam tired of it when will it stop

2007-06-03 07:14:16 · 2 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-03 07:12:21 · 7 answers · asked by Bill L 3 in Singles & Dating

What i did wasn't really all that big just a misdeamenor. But still it got me 2 days in jail. The love of my life dropped me. She says she still loves me but she cant deal with me anymore. I need some way to prove to her that i changed. Oh and i have a bit of a jealousy problem. I kind of get upset when she hugs other guys and she is pissed about that to. She says theres no way i can win her back but i cant say goodbye to her. I need her so much and i tryed telling her this but she wont listen. What should i do.

2007-06-03 07:09:45 · 13 answers · asked by kbmisfit 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering because I'm 17 years old and never had a gf.

2007-06-03 06:58:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-03 06:55:51 · 5 answers · asked by newmommie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-03 06:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I sent out our wedding invitations about a week ago and just got a call Friday that the location where we were having it was sold, so we had to move the location. I need a web site or wording on how to write the correction invitation with the new location and new time....PLEASE HELP!!! They have to go out on Monday!!!!!

2007-06-03 06:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer 2 in Weddings

2007-06-03 06:36:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband really knows how to deliver a bouncy house, if you know what I mean ;-)

What does your spouse/SO really know how to do?

2007-06-03 06:34:30 · 3 answers · asked by Maureen 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-03 06:27:48 · 43 answers · asked by Michael W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love him, he's my classmate in language course n we're both foreigner, but i think he 'likes' my friend. 2 weeks ago we r going out together n they were both drunken...he followed her to her appartement, n i must go home all alone...I'm very sad, that was 4am, n he doesnt care bout me. then i found out, they had sex. God, my heart broken into pieces. my friend said she didnt want to meet him again...still it hurts me!!!i told her, i though she were my friend (she knows i love him so much, she's not in the same class with me n him)...n our friendship is over.
And he.....now he's very nervous around me, though he sits down beside me, we didnt talk that much. I think my face is really looks so sad. next week is the final exam, after that only God know if we can meet again. we apply in the same universitat, but who know when i can meet him again.
before that day, should i tell him that I love him, although he has already made mistake???When should i tell him?Help me people, tell me???

2007-06-03 06:26:00 · 3 answers · asked by Vivienne 4 in Singles & Dating