we have been dating for about a year and i still love to flirt is it wrong even though i love him dearly...
2007-06-03 07:45:52 · 32 answers · asked by cassie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone flirts, it is just natural. There was an article on yahoo that stated like 90% of poeple flirt with coworkers. But to answer your question if you feel it is ok then it is, if you feel wrong when you flirt then you shouldn't.
2007-06-03 07:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by I got 2 points for this answer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alright, you remind me of me! haha... I was always the class flirt... trust me.. it was so much fun getting those "Biggest Flirt "Certificates.. haha! So, my husband and i have been together for almost 3 years.. and i can tell you that i went through the same thing.. he knew from the beginning that i was friendly and he is European so he is more open minded to the idea.. But for the first year and a half i was confused on if i could flirt anymore or not or how much can i or with who.. etc... etc... but it was just because i wanted him to know that i would never cheat on him and i did not want for him to think any different.. soooo.. as the time passed i have noticed that i have stopped flirting.. little by little i just stopped.. and i feel better than ever... so just wait.. never change who you are for anyone.. your boyfriend met you being you.. and he should understand.. with time you will become more attatched to him that you will not need to flirt anymore.. and before you know it.. you're not flirting or anything..
Dont see it as wrong.. you are just who you are...
Best of luck!! and i hope he is the one!
2007-06-03 07:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think it's wrong.
Once you commit to someone(not neccessarily by marriage) then you have passed that stage. There's no need to flirt with anybody else b/c that's what you do when you're looking for a mate.
ASk yourself, if HE still wants to flirt with other girls, how would that make you feel?
If you are okay with him doing that also, then I can't see either of you really being serious about your relationship and in that case, go ahead and flirt w/ everybody else- the both of you.
2007-06-03 07:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by (no subject) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with him or other men?
flirting with him just adds the spice up in the relationship... so, there's nothing wrong with it... you 'll just make him wanting for more of you... =)
flirting with other men.. i don't think that's such a good idea coz if you will still flirt with other men , then you are not really in love with your bf since you're wanting for more... though it's actually normal to explore the world around you... just please don't do it coz you might just end up losing the one person that you love dearly... it's unfair to him if he's the loyal type... it's also unfair if he's been true to you ever since...
so, take it easy, enjoy your world which revolves around your bf and you... flirt with him instead.. =)
2007-06-03 07:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he minds. I know I love to flirt with everyone, and when I got a gf I asked her if it was ok. She said it was so I still do flirt. If he says it hurts him or something then respect him and hold back, if you can't you need to learn self control.
2007-06-03 07:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody flirts!!!!!!! He's doing it too whether you want to believe it or not. Keep in mind, flirting and screwing around are two totally different issues although I think everybody is doing that too. Maybe I'm the wrong one to answer this question but I've been around the block a few times and I've seen it all.
2007-06-03 07:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by booger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's fine to flirt with a couple of boys but not everyone you meet just don't go into a full oout flirt if hes around
2007-06-03 07:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it's not ok to flirt with another guy, even if your boyfriend is ok with it.
Flirting shows that you are "open to the public" and if you really love him, you should never be acting like that around other guys.
2007-06-03 07:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by raysgirl15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course It's Wrong. How Would You Feel If You Saw Him Hugged Up To Another Girl.
2007-06-03 07:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by JonJon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to continue to flirt. You may attract someone who won't take no for an answer and then "one thing will lead to another" and you may end up cheating. You are not being fair to your boyfriend at all.
2007-06-03 07:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by ..... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋