how do i put up with my?

Question

aunt who told my grandma about my depression i didnt want anyone to know. and my grandma has a bad heart anyways i told her its not something i want to be told or talk about. she said she doesnt know but she said in front of me and her that i went to the dr and that the dr said its going to take time. dont tell me she doesnt know lieing about makes her look worst. maybe because i tell it like it is about people who distroy the family and she sticks up for people like that. if i wanted the family to know about my depression they should hear it from me not her. and she acts like iam the problem not the other people. anyways thats why i told my other aunt that she took her pictures which is true. and i have to see her today i dont have feelings about the neative anymore but iam tired of it when will it stop

Answer 1

Now this should teach you not to trust that aunt any longer. Try and stay away from people who make you feel this way. I mean be friendly and everything, but keep your distance, and never ever say anything that will hurt you or one of your family members later. Believe it or not there are a lot of families like yours. As for your depression don't be ashamed of it. Depression is a disease just like cancer or diabetes. It is curable with the right treatment. You are not the problem and don't let your aunt make you feel that way, remember you own your own feelings and if you let your aunt make you feel like your the problem then you are letting her win. Last of all tell her how you feel. It works wonders.

Answer 2

ignore, say your over it they wont bother you no more ! GOD BLESS!