What i did wasn't really all that big just a misdeamenor. But still it got me 2 days in jail. The love of my life dropped me. She says she still loves me but she cant deal with me anymore. I need some way to prove to her that i changed. Oh and i have a bit of a jealousy problem. I kind of get upset when she hugs other guys and she is pissed about that to. She says theres no way i can win her back but i cant say goodbye to her. I need her so much and i tryed telling her this but she wont listen. What should i do.
2007-06-03 07:09:45 · 13 answers · asked by kbmisfit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't move on. U dont understand how she makes me feel.
2007-06-03 07:22:34 · update #1
FYI: I went to jail because I shot some dude in the leg with a bb gun, not on purpose but he still pressed charges.
2007-06-03 07:34:10 · update #2
You got the answer to your question from your OLD gf. She said NO WAY you could win her back, take the message and move on, you would be wasting your time to do otherwise.
2007-06-03 07:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by sirmrmagic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her you mean business by getting some serious therapy. Jealousy always loses. Get over that one. What do you do that she cannot deal with anymore? Are you Irresponsible? Rude? Never show up when you say you will? Temper Tantrums? Do you question her every move? If so, she may have felt like she was in jail. Who wants that? What lesson did you learn from losing her and being in jail? Live that lesson, that is the only way she will see you have changed. If you constantly badger her, it will only push her away. Even if you do change, it does not mean she will come back. Get some help dude, and then live it. I may be totally off base with this but if anything I said here makes you mad or triggers you, then there is a problem with it. If what I said does not fit, it won't matter. Hope all works out for you. I wish you the best.
2007-06-03 07:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Show that you're an adult and that you have some disipline and respect for her.
2. DON'T GET JEALOUS!!! Just because she hugs some guy DOES NOT mean she wants to get in bed with him.
3. Your scenario sounds like the video for the song "It's Not Over" by Daughtry. Watch that music video!
2007-06-03 07:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by pnogal32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she dropped you for 2 days in jail,she has a problem. If she hugs other guys,it depends on her relationship with them-good friend,a relative,but if she hugs strangers!!!
If she says you can't win her back and you tried,you have a problem.
You need to say good bye and get on with your life and get a new g.f.
2007-06-03 07:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you need time alone to sort your life out.
Give yourself time to think about why all this happened. You might actually grow out of some serious issues like poor judgment (that's why you ended up in the can) and jealousy which is very ugly destructive.
2007-06-03 07:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her that you can't live without her and that you need her and you won't make the same mistakes again because you realized how badly you need her I hope I helped and that you get her back.
2007-06-03 07:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Aly=D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, what exactly did you do? because if she "can't deal with you anymore", it's obviously what you did and the fact that you went to jail for it. did anything happen between you guys before you did whatever you did?
2007-06-03 07:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by angelkiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wiat why did u go to jail, and so ur gf didnt like that u went to jail? i alwasy thoguht most girls woudl lvoe that
2007-06-03 07:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by mexicanimm11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone for now, Don't beg, Because if you do she really won't have any respect for you. Trust me been there done that.
2007-06-03 07:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably won't ... once they have let you go and given up on you it is extremly hard if not impossilbe to do so.
2007-06-03 07:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lil Mo' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋