To girls and women : Have you ever yelled at your mom ? The way that neighbours hear it?

Question

If so, How long did it take so to end up the argue and yelling?
And how old are you?are you a teenager?

And PS: How do you handle neighbours thoughts after that?

And finally what can you do to avoid such situations when you know that your mother's behaviour is not right,but you just worsen the situation with continuing it?

Answer 1

I am jealous of all the women who answered "no" to this question. I love my mother with all my heart, and I don't know why I am so horrible to her! I am 26 and things have gotten a lot better since I got married and moved out 3 years ago. I think mothers and daughters don't always get along as nature's way of encouraging us to start our own family.

If you fight with your mom, you must remove yourself from the situation before things get too heated. Moms aren't always right, but we children must respect them anyway. I am a Christian, and for me, the only answer has been prayer. If I simply remove myself from her without prayer, my nasty behavior will continue. But if I pray with the intent to become more like God wants me to be, I often find a supernatural power to cope with even the worst behavior from mom.

Good luck!

Answer 2

I can just imagine how the daughter might be affected by such a scene! Much more than the mom who could almost use it as a means to further prove how badly the child needs discipline! which compounds the feeling of inadequacy the daughter might already be feeling, leading to lower self-esteem, which they accumulate in the data-base of their main drive, the best and most efficient computer ever created, between our two ears.
Thus the infamous internal dialogue: "I'm not good enough! I knew it since forever but this just proved it once more!" as where the mother might be more mature and know that the incidence was just that and didn't make her what she is... It will pass like butter in the frying pan! I hope and pray that this little anecdote will suffice to help that daughter rise above the raisin as they say and walk proudly as there is no need whatsover to brow-beat oneself over any given incident. Life is like that and all men (mankind) is created equally (in the sense that we all inherited sin and imperfection from our first parents and none of us can boast perfection, so where does that leave any room for anyone whatsover to judge another... Let them remove the "tree" from their own eye before they begin to complain about the "toothpick" in the eye of another! May the peace of the true God, who inspired the only book on earth which He claims is His Word, which excels all thought, be with you not just this day but every other day of the next of your life, and forever in the name of His son Jesus, is what I pray for you! both of you! (if you are speaking of yourself! in any way!) Agape and amen.
Terisina
P.S. Watch out for that internal dialogue... Make it look after your best interest and that of others by feeding it fresh, constructive and positive ideas. Let it be the accurate knowledge of God's Word, the Bible, which if applied daily, leads to absolute wisdom from above! (James 1: 17)

Answer 3

I am 24 I don't even live with my mom anymore and I had a yeling fight with her the other day. My husband mowed one of her plants and I bought her a new one. When I came back to plant the new plant, my husband and I had a fight and he left. I was outside trying to call him and my mom came out. She got mad that i was upset and started yelling about us not helping her anymore and not bringing our problems over. I said I was outside because I didnt want to bother her. The end result was She was screaming I was screaming and crying and I left and slammed the door. The neigbor was outside. Looking at me. Wouldnt you look?

I dont care what the neighbor thinks. If i see him again i will smile and say hi like I always do.

I do care about my mom. When I got home I caleld and apologized and told her the neighbor heard us. We made up.

That was the first reall yelling argument that we've had in years.

When I was a teenager we used to fight all the time. Even if I tried to do the right thing and talk to her instead of argue she would get mad and go off on me. There was nothing I could do but try to do things around the house that made her happy and try to stay out of her way.

If you are a teenager and you fight with your mom I would suggest that when you feel yourself start to get so mad that you are going to yell try to remove yourself from the situation. Go to your room. When you are calm and you know she is calm try to talk about it.

Don't care what the neibors think they are no angels either I bet.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Heavens no. My mom would bust me very quickly to squash anything like that. Yelling is not something that is allowed in her house. My parents used to get into arguments that were loud enough for the neighbors. But since most of the neighbors were so busy yelling in their own homes, they didn't really pay any attention. As far as your mom's behavior, I guess I'd have to know specifics before I could really advise on that situation. What "behavior" is she manifesting that isn't "right?"

Answer 5

I am 14 and last night i had a massive row with my mum! I stayed in bed for ages this morning because i was scared in case she would start it again! But she didn't! The argument lasted about half an hour and i think the neighbors heard but i don't care! It's non of their busines! If you don't want to argue with your mum jus try and ignore her if she makes a bad comment or if she wants you to do a chore just do it! I no thats hard and i find it hard but basically it will work! good luck

Answer 6

You will never be old enough to yell at your Mother. One of the Ten Commandments is "Honor your Mother and Father". I think that says it all. Learn to control yourself and have discussions not yelling matches. You will never win that one with God or me.
Please work on maturing and leave stupid for those who do not want answers and to grow and improve. You can do better than that I'm sure.

Answer 7

hi im a mom of a teenage female and she or he has yelled at me on many events, 2 events, in a wellness middle and in my sisters homestead and enable me inform you her words shrink to the bone and that i dont recognize if i will ever forgive her. i admire my daughter very very plenty, there isnt something i wouldnt do for her, yet there are cases whilst my strategies is going returned and that i will nevertheless pay attention her yelling at me and cursing truly badly. so before you flow off the mouth, take a breath and attempt and communicate because of the fact im telling you words truly do injury!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

I usually would put my hand over her mouth during an arguement, so I don't think the neighbors realized a struggle was happening.

My mother and I get along very well now that I'm older and she has been trained properly.

Answer 9

Yeah right, if I ever yelled at my mom infront of the neighbours my mom would slap that crap out of me.

Answer 10

Yes My mom started yelling at me when I came home from school with a friend who had her nose and eye brow pierced. (After she made my friend go home)