Family & Relationships - 27 April 2007

I want to hear the truth. I will not be offended.

2007-04-27 03:53:35 · 10 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's ex lover is asking for more child maintainence money.(his relationship with her was adulterous and twin boys were born)Now she is asking for more than the £600 that he sends for the kids.She gets more than £400 from tax credits and child benefit and her salary is over£2000 a month.He would not speak to me about this but it is affecting his share of bill payments for our home and our 3 kids.

2007-04-27 03:48:28 · 15 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What if they are not in the head count but they still show up?

2007-04-27 03:47:33 · 17 answers · asked by Laura S 1 in Weddings

my husband and i have separated. he's been dating and what not aand i was just waiting for it to work out...not gonna happen i guess. anyway, he told me that he was gonna go file for temp custody of the kids. he doesn't take care of them now and the only time he did, he kept my 5 year old son up till 1 am and then didn't take him to school. i don't want to make him pay a bunch of child support, but i can't let him get my kids either. any advise? where do i go to file for temp. custody? do i need a lawyer?

2007-04-27 03:46:18 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

daily contact-everynight and weekends as well for hours. he tells me he loves me and has no interest in other people-he wants to be with me forever. My concern is that he won't talk on the phone or meet me in person. I am intelligent and wonder if he's married but we spend so much time together via the internet that it's not possible for him to be married or involved with anyone.

He says that he's not ready yet emotionally to talk or meet-but then he tells me he wamts to be with me for the rest of his life.

Should I move on??? I feel I'm falling fo him...

2007-04-27 03:46:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have one maid of honor, one matron of honor, and two bridesmaids. I want to ask each of them to do something, without her feeling like a "maid." Do you have any suggestions? I know they want to help, but I don't know what goes into helping-it has been so long since I was a bridesmaid.

2007-04-27 03:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Weddings

Besides a pawn shop or having it made into something else. Where can I get good money for it??

2007-04-27 03:42:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister's kids are the worst she refuses to whip them but they won't listen to anything she says and she tries to disapline them but yet they never listen.

2007-04-27 03:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by brittany2569 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

between caring for someone as a person and caring for someone as more?? HOw can you tell.

2007-04-27 03:34:46 · 2 answers · asked by mari s 1 in Singles & Dating

At least that's what I heard.

2007-04-27 03:33:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 1 year and a half. When it is good, it is great but when it is bad, it is. He abuses me physically, mentally, emotionally, economically, and I have repeated giving him chance and chance. The last time, I actually left. Now he is in counseling, anger management and he claims to be getting better, will it? I am scared for my life.

2007-04-27 03:31:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know about Ya'll but why does it seem when a man is married either his Ex's or other female want him?? I CANT stand Home wreckers! If i ever found out my husband had another women I would Prob. do something to him and her to were i would be sent to prison!!! No this isnt just for woman, MARRIED MAN if another Man was either trying or doing your girl Tell me you wouldnt Be MAD! So Why does it seem Now days people are just Trying to find a way to split UP a marriage!!!!

2007-04-27 03:26:42 · 18 answers · asked by Nissa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am friends with this guy george. i've known him since i was little but we we're really friends. last year we hooked up. we still talk online and he always instant messages me. last year i met his friend ryan at a party we talked and we were gonna hang out but he blew me off. then i met ryan and george's friend matt. we haven't hung out yet and he just broke up with his girlfriend. can i ask him to prom evern thoguh he's friends with ryan and george?

2007-04-27 03:23:58 · 1 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-27 03:23:03 · 23 answers · asked by Giannina V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He took the bedsheets, uprooted the carpet, trashed the car, and ate all my chocolate...........what do I do ?

2007-04-27 03:22:38 · 30 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok listen up...my husband says im too much of a freak... he says all the wips and the handcuffs and all the wip cream and the nurse outfits e.t.c are not necessary but when i use them on him he dosent complain.....does this seem weird to u ?

2007-04-27 03:16:01 · 26 answers · asked by Video Phone 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife deserted from my house to her mom house about one and half years ago with my two kids after some arguments over her "boyfriend".Then she went legal aid to file for divorce and reluntant to let me see my kids when i reqested.Since then..i have been paying maintainence for the kids including their medical fees..etc . During this hard period i know a girl and we have been quite close till recently my wife's mum keep haressing my sister that i have a girlfrd.In the eye of law i am commiting adultery? What will be the conseqences be? Will i go jail for that?

2007-04-27 03:11:41 · 12 answers · asked by troy- 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to get him flowers, b/c that would embarrass him. Does anyone know what the norm is for boys? Balloons? Nothing? I want to acknowledge his hard work in some way.

2007-04-27 03:06:26 · 2 answers · asked by Jaime 1 in Family

U R 48, 26 yr marriage ended and your 2yr long wait to have your divorce is here. U have no job as u were fired after u hurt your back. U have 2 kids - dghtr 28w/ gndsn has a house & man u like & son 21/lives with U, but has fiancee. Your cheating ex is getting the house in the divorce and U have to be out in 1 mo. U have found love again for 7mo.strong -she owns her home & U spend 75% of your time there & know you will marry someday. Each wants U to live with them. U searched high & low & an apartment would be $ wasted that u don't have. 90% of your personal stuff is going to your girlfriends, but U could help your daughter if U lived w/her temp. & U could help your son if you got an apartment with him? The kids Mom abandoned them & U feel if U do not help them, they will feel as though U abandoned them too. Your girl is patient & sweet, but U worry she will feel used & U want to be with her, but are worried about others reactions as it seems too soon to them. U R overwhelmed?????

2007-04-27 03:03:01 · 21 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-27 03:00:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

earning girl after marrige cant support her parents if want to support chuppake chuppake why??????

2007-04-27 02:52:39 · 10 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

3 years together i really like him...?

2007-04-27 02:48:27 · 17 answers · asked by ubermenchen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And how do you imagine yours?
How would you wish for it to be?!

Ahhhh.. *_*

2007-04-27 02:46:51 · 18 answers · asked by MalaK 2 in Weddings

For me to be on here with no one knowing who I am is one thing. But to go telling other people, any body details about your marriage to friends, family, co-worker, etc. is something I think is very wrong. I am talking about good things and bad things, where is the trust if I tell my wife something I would not tell anyone else and she goes and tells someone else. Do other people feel this way or am I all alone. Do you beleive in having a commitment of honesty, trust and faithfulness in your marriage?

2007-04-27 02:43:28 · 11 answers · asked by life is good and bad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Sure, we're just kids, but we're all top of the school smart and mature. Ok so I'm 13, my love is 1 day older than me and my friends a bit older. Since 7th Grade (junior high) I have really liked this girl. in 8th Grade I realized I really, really liked her. I flirted with her and talked to her in 7th grade but as you can imagine it was all kiddy stuff. She turned me away and said she liked my best mate. That day when I got home I cried for an hour. I tried to be around her but it was just so disappointing knowing that she was going out with my mate. He was really shy about and still never talks about their relationship. This year at an all boys high school I realize I love her. Every time I think of her I feel this pleasant tingle and I feel contented. I don't often think of her sexually. The other day i saw her in town with him and she looked absolutely incredibly. I seem to dwell on this thought whenever I'm idle. I'm so sad... thoughts? Anyone in the same boat? Thankyou

2007-04-27 02:41:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't you see something wrong with that line of thinking? Suppose you marry an ax murdering, child molestering, bank robbing, transvestite sex-a-holic and only learn all this after the wedding? Are you still suppose to stay "happily married; honor & cherrish" this person "until death do you part"?

2007-04-27 02:34:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. So im 23 and am getting a divorce (i know... go figure right). Anyway, i was wondering if i should change my name back. My husband and I dont have kids.... but I have 2 college degrees under my married last name. How will all of that work if I change my name back... or should i just leave it?

Ashley

2007-04-27 02:24:06 · 10 answers · asked by Ashes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have actually been married for 4 years but we never really had a wedding. I want to renew next year and I want it to be special and intimate for our families but we are trying to save money for a house. Any suggestions? He also does not want to do it just yet because he just got a new job and does not want to spend anything! How do I talk to him and tell him my ideas without him just shutting me down before I even open my mouth (which has already happened)? Thanks for the help.

2007-04-27 02:14:47 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda A 2 in Weddings

Who got married really young? And luuurvs it?

I wanna hear some sweet love stories about young marriages! I am gonna be married young and need some motivation :)

2007-04-27 02:14:25 · 12 answers · asked by Smartie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okayi like this guy named joe and he doesn't know me we have no same classes alright and i wrote him i love you note he knew i liked him but didn't know me then i was talking to my friend and this other guy showed him to me so they both were starring at me and my frind and so i was like sh*t and i got really nervous then at lunch he showed joe wherei was on purpose. and i like him alot what should i do?

2007-04-27 02:10:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating