ok listen up...my husband says im too much of a freak... he says all the wips and the handcuffs and all the wip cream and the nurse outfits e.t.c are not necessary but when i use them on him he dosent complain.....does this seem weird to u ?
2007-04-27 03:16:01 · 26 answers · asked by Video Phone 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
mrs racermom ..... i do it all!!!!
2007-04-27 03:21:23 · update #1
i mean i dont lose passion and love for him without these things but its fun!!
2007-04-27 03:34:02 · update #2
HELL NO it aint Weird,Maybe the Wips...... But no the Wip Cream my husband LOVES that! But yea Women are more Freaky then men, my husband complains i want sex to much.... I think We Like to have sex A LOT more and We like to Experiment With new things and they are more original layed back guys....... BUT about the whole Kinky Thing I LIKE that kinda things TOO!
HELL YEAH GIRL
2007-04-27 03:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Nissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of she needs you to offer her an answer on what day. i think of shes insisting you will desire to comprehend whilst earlier you ask. She needs you to offer a date and time. I been instructed this many circumstances . whilst she says i do no longer care. It potential she needs you to choose and tell her. She needs you to have the solutions. Its no longer that shes does not care, its purely she needs you to make your individual determination without you asking her . She would of been pissed off via you asking whilst and additionally if she has a boyfriend,simply by fact to three women this makes you sound needy. no longer which you probably did something incorrect,yet she needs you to have self belief in what you assert. call her lower back up and say purely as an occasion "i'm going to %. you up on friday at 8". No concerns I even have carried out this alot in my time. once you suggested she made you a cake thats a sturdy sign she likes you. So rather all you will desire to do is once you consult from her get good to the factor and he or she would be chuffed you probably did. desire all is going nicely with you and your lady.
2016-10-03 23:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him sometime you're not having sex.
He doesn't complain, so I don't think you need to abandon it all the time, if you like it.
But he might like some vanilla sex sometimes too. Hey, he might even like romantic candles and soft looking into each other's eyes for a change!
It doesn't always have to be the same, and its okay if sometimes you cater more to one person then the other, as long as its not all the time.
2007-04-27 03:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we(wives) need the excitement of it all and they just need to feel loved instead of being a pleasure device. He probably is scared you'd leave him for someone who can match your inventiveness. (Because there are tons of guys willing.) Do you lose your passion without these items? If the answer is yes, you may just be filling a void.
2007-04-27 03:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about him saying that, it just sounds more like someone saying something like "I can't take you anywhere" kind of statement, and laughing, you know what I mean? If he doesn't complain, then go for it!! If he does start complaining, then maybe tune things down a little, you know? My significant other LOVES outfits and things =) he calls me respectfully his sex kitten =)
2007-04-27 03:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he says your being to much of a freak, does he say it in a sincere manner or is he joking? If he's serious then he's being a bit to faced about the issue. As long as he enjoys it, I would'nt worry to much about it. If it bothers you, then ask him why he doesn't complain in the bedroom. Sounds like fun to me, lol.
2007-04-27 03:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he's trying to tell you that enjoys the intimate activity more that the roll play. Maybe you you find different role play scripts or have him take the lead to arrange a night of seduction and intimacy.
2007-04-27 03:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are "into" many different things but sometimes it is nice just to have two people and some good old fashioned romance.
He may not complain but do you provide what he needs as well as doing what you need?
2007-04-27 03:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird but not compatiable, he's more conservative in your love life and you know if this keeps up you're going to end up with problems. Try flipping the script and use your imagination to wake up the freak in him without jamming it down his throat. (no punt intended)
2007-04-27 03:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is normal. People's sexual taste varies alot. My ex and I were totally different in bed. His tastes were very kinky, and mine were more mainstream, we just weren't sexually compatible. We usually found a common middle ground that would satisfy us, but in the end, the things he wanted would haunt me, and eventually drove me away from his sexually. I felt disgusted at the thing he wanted me to do, which made him unatractive in my eyes..which led to our seperation.
Talk openly with him, and try to find that common middleground...you can't make someone who hates peas like them.
2007-04-27 03:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋