Family & Relationships - 27 April 2007

I hate my best freinds dad!! He ruins everything. Her mom died so she has nowhere else to live..but anyways
he is a child abuser. If she even gets a detention at school, he beats her. I swear one time, we were outside after dark, even though he told us not to be,, and he grabbed her by the hair and started calling her a b*tch and pushing her against the wall. Another time she got a referral at school and he whipped her with a belt all over her legs and face and left bruises all ove her. And if he sees that shes having fun, he makes her go home and then yells at her all night. And hes a racist, homophobic weirdo. He has porn magazines all over the place. And he slaps MY ***. He thinks i see it as playing around but i dont!! its creepy. She has a litte sister that never gets hit or anything, barely even yelled at. Shes 13 and her sisters 11
so please help how can she escape this horrble life?

2007-04-27 05:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by Andrea B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

"We'll see" what does that mean ? & the end result of whether or not we do it seems like its based by a flip of a coin and its so frustrating , nothing can ever be written in stone or promised to me . is this a bad sign from a person i've been dating for 10 months ?

2007-04-27 05:16:14 · 15 answers · asked by live in the magic of life 3 in Singles & Dating

my invitations will be mailed but should i do my save the dates by email or send magnets?

2007-04-27 05:15:42 · 14 answers · asked by Susan 2 in Weddings

This is for women to answer. Did you ever get married knowing while you were doing it that you might indeed be making a mistake? I mean, that you were doing it for the wrong reasons, but you said "what the hell, ill just do it," and went ahead and get married? Ever marry someone else even though you were in love with another man? Ever marry some guy ONLY because you were angry with an ex? How did things turn out with your marriage? Get divorced?

2007-04-27 05:14:07 · 20 answers · asked by robert7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was shocked, he took my car keys (it's actually his car) and refused to give me moneys. He already told me that if I try it again, he'll kick me to the curb.

It has been a week and he still doesn't show any sign of weakness. But I need car and moneys so badly. I don't know what to do. I'm scare if I start to have sex with him again then get mad at him again, I won't have any leverage on him.

I can't believe he react like this. This is first time I actually seriously try it. I've done it to other and it work great.

How could this not affect him at all but yet hurt me way more?

2007-04-27 05:14:05 · 32 answers · asked by Alicia K 1 in Singles & Dating

During my doctor's visit in his office,he got up to get a medical book for reference regarding one of my questions. I SUDDENLY got up, followed him & when he turned around, there i was; without thinking i kissed him.I moved closer,put my hands on his waist,pressed my body against his.He slightly opened his mouth & i slipped my tongue in.He didn't move out of shock.In seconds my hand was touching his penis & before i knew,i actually put my hand in his underwear.In that moment he pushed my tongue(with his tongue) out of his mouth.He grabbed my hand (that was stroking his penis) firmly& pulled it out of his underwear.He held my arms firmly & pulled away.He then said "Don't ever do that again".All this happened in less then 5 mins.Suddenly i came to my senses, i started crying.I was so embarassed.How could i ve lost control.I let my feelings take over me.After 5 mins of me crying, he asked me to sit & he said "I will forget this ever happened". CONTINUED AT THE BOTTOM IN DETAILS

2007-04-27 05:10:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in St george ut. There are no nice girls out there anymore. I make 2,000 a month, and I dont have any woman worth spending it on. Im lost maybe there is someone out there who can help me. Its not about the money, its about finding someone I can share the rest of my life with. Someone who does not have emotional issues. Help?

2007-04-27 05:08:17 · 41 answers · asked by Blackjack 6 in Singles & Dating

Please help Justin. LOL

2007-04-27 05:08:00 · 5 answers · asked by grjpbeatles2 2 in Singles & Dating

and what are the top three things that men want from a woman that will keep them faithful?

2007-04-27 05:07:56 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-27 05:07:50 · 8 answers · asked by etto 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys like to teach girls or do they like the well experience ones?

2007-04-27 05:07:10 · 13 answers · asked by milkchoclate1989 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-27 05:07:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is quite serious. been with my husband since '96

beginning in 1999, he has been constantly "goosing" my nips ever since. i have never liked it (outside the bedroom) and i always am waving his hands way,
and have told him on at least 3 occasions in the last 7 years that it makes me incomfortable and that i dont like it
he says when he "gooses" me he is expressing his love. but the man is 34 freakin years old

I told him about a week ago that i have never liked it. he closed down and said that if he cant goose me any more than he would just not touch me at all, period.

so i said- "This is your reaction when your wife comes to you with a valid concern?"

my question is- what is it about the boobs that has such a powerful effect on men? is it the whole freud thing about men being attached to mothers, and the boob is synonmus with the mother? what the hell?

2007-04-27 05:06:23 · 7 answers · asked by Shake-Zula 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy, I have never gotten one guy I really really like, and I am getting frustrated... I think he might like me too, but he doesnt have enough guts to come tell me, do u have any idea 1. how to get a guy you want and 2. how to get someone who likes you to tell you!!!

2007-04-27 05:05:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-27 05:05:29 · 11 answers · asked by etto 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 and am looking for easy ideas to do for Mothers Day that can be done at home. I don't have any money so I am looking for suggestions with items that can be found in most homes. My mom likes to cook, garden, and cross stitch.

2007-04-27 05:05:23 · 3 answers · asked by XoPrincessXo 3 in Singles & Dating

I really love my girlfriend, but she refuses to shave her armpits. This is such a huge turnoff for me. I have told her about it in the past, but she just doesn't seem to care. I don't want to break up with her, but our romantic life is basically nonexistent because I just can't be around those armpits. I mean, her hair is longer than mine!! Any advice?

2007-04-27 05:03:17 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One night I was out at a part and had a way to much to drink. Well, my friend said that it would be ok if I stayed at here house that night. Well, her brother is a year older than me. He told me that I could sleep on his bed and he would sleep on the couch. Well, I got up that night to go get something to drink and ended up on the couch with her brother. Things went down hill from there. Her brother really likes me and now that this has happened he want leave me alone. My friend doesn't want to talk to me any more because she thinks I was using her to get to her brother but that's not true. I do not like him that way and I feel so bad for what I have done and I know That in the end no matter what I do someone will more and likely get hurt. Please help!!

2007-04-27 05:02:32 · 2 answers · asked by Beautiful Fairy 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do they act like they are so into you and then you find out they have a girlfriend ? Do they want to end their relationship or are they trying to be a player?

2007-04-27 05:02:15 · 32 answers · asked by milkchoclate1989 2 in Singles & Dating

but you were positive that this person only saw you as a friend. Would you let them know your feelings. If you did tell them how you feel, do you think that would make things awkward and thus ruin the friendship?

2007-04-27 05:01:21 · 6 answers · asked by Z 1 in Singles & Dating

im attached to my boyfriend. Whenever im not with him i think about him and i always want to talk to him on the phone. Sometimes he feels like everything has to be my way. IF it isnt we argue and i throw things out of proportion. I just want the same amount of loving attention in return to what i give him. He still loves me but he doesnt like arguing. How do i get unattached?

2007-04-27 05:00:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long story short....

Im a female. I went to the eye doctor for an exam. The Optician (kinda like the nurse for eyes) is a total hottie (male). Totally flirts with me the entire time (initiated by him). He invites me out to watch him and his friends do an improv comedy show the following night.

I cant go, so I waited a week. (went last night). He hugs me and is super excited to see I came to his show (2nd time in my life ive seen him). Then he yells out in the middle of the room "The Versace's are CUTE!" (referring to my glasses that he helped me pick out).

Then hugs me twice before I leave. It seems he was going to ask for my number, but my friend was standing right there and he was being called back to stage immediatly.

Question... is it too soon to pay him a visit at work? I mean... to get my glasses adjusted to better fit my face? Or should I wait another day, then go talk to him.

I want him to know Im interested, but I dont want him to think Im a stalker.

2007-04-27 05:00:28 · 11 answers · asked by sweetblueyes 5 in Singles & Dating

What's the hardest thing you had to deal with and how did you get through it???? Got alot on my plate at the moment, a divorce, new life in a new city & missing my kids back home.

2007-04-27 04:58:58 · 14 answers · asked by Elevenwolves 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering if an ex spouse that you had a kid with and divorced a year later. Is the Ex considered to be family to you?

2007-04-27 04:58:08 · 19 answers · asked by jaynell 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so for some time my gf of 3years had been ackting strange toward me ,she finally came to me and told me that she needed a break ,but still loves me.
she really is my true love ,and at first thats the way she felt toward me ,who in the f understand you women?
we live together ,have been for a year now .
WHAT DO I DO I CANT LET THE PERSON I LOVE SO MUCH GO THAT EASY ,like she just did !
yeah,yeah everyone all ways say the grass is all way greener on the other side,but has any one ever been on that side?
and has any every lost there true love and been able to find it again?
there so many things i would like to know and ask ,my mind is running 1000mph ,and my stamuch it turning ...........wft

2007-04-27 04:58:01 · 7 answers · asked by celica00 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-27 04:56:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-27 04:55:28 · 26 answers · asked by i_love_my_yorkie 2 in Singles & Dating

well, i may be in love (according to the answers for the question below).
But she has no interest in me.
What should i do ???
I haven't seen her for a month, I miss her like crazy. I can't stop thinking about her.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqRYe711sPAbjHUgjOSvFtPD7BR.?qid=20070427073531AA3DE8U

2007-04-27 04:54:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a June bride. What about you?

2007-04-27 04:54:32 · 20 answers · asked by Sugar 7 in Weddings

im normally pretty drunk when im in a club and nearly always get a girl but im goin out sober this weekend and wandered how i should go about things without a beer in me? dont think ill be as loud and ballsy, any ideas?

2007-04-27 04:54:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating