I live in St george ut. There are no nice girls out there anymore. I make 2,000 a month, and I dont have any woman worth spending it on. Im lost maybe there is someone out there who can help me. Its not about the money, its about finding someone I can share the rest of my life with. Someone who does not have emotional issues. Help?
2007-04-27 05:08:17 · 41 answers · asked by Blackjack 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Broaden your horizons - go to new places. You will find them if you make an effort to. I used to feel the same way - wondering where all the nice guys were? Now, I realise that they do actually exist - I just wasn't looking hard enough or in the right place.
Good luck. Peace :)
2007-04-27 05:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by *lostdownhere* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a nice girl. Look outside the normal area of where you live maybe go on holiday with a few mates and try to find someone you never know until you try. Go to social places like pubs and clubs. Its worth a try. There's always someone out there for everyone. But i think what you'll find is that you'll find that right person when you're not looking for anyone. The key to happiness is to expect nothing. But i hope you use some of my suggestions. XX
2007-04-27 05:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL - buddy, there is NO ONE who doesn't have emotional issues. Everyone on the planet, at some point, has emotional stress and has to go through at least one period of personal growth. Don't expect to find someone who's reached a state of perfection, and that perfection will be obvious to you on a first date.
Instead, aim for someone who is fairly well-balanced, but whose particular quirks are endearing, rather than alarming. Then learn to grow WITH them, each of you adjusting to the other. If your town has a small population, and you're sure you've met EVERY eligible young woman in town, then travel a bit more. Attend activities in other cities, make friends and meet their friends, find people you never knew existed.
2007-04-27 05:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Black...they are all with me, that's why I have to keep this answer shortish!
This isn't a criticism, it is only a comment. You are perhaps trying too hard or seem too desperate to become deeply involved with someone and that can be a big turn off. You need to chill out a bit, be yourself, enjoy your own company and that of your friends. Girls will prefer someone who seems relaxed, friendly, liked. Someone they can be friends with, have a good time with, and then the romantic side can develop further. The more you search the harder it is to find the right one, you need to sit back a bit and you'll find a nice girl will come to you without you even realising.
Good luck
2007-04-27 05:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, the same goes for the guys. There are no nice ones out there. And finding anyone without emotional or other issues, good luck. I think the best thing is have fun, do stuff since you can afford it and quit looking. I've found the best stuff has come to me when I'm not looking for it at all.
2007-04-27 05:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont know what you mean by nice girls? but if u mean socially intelligent and not bitc*es. there are pretty women all around the world from every country there are beautifull girls. but personally i sugest u go to belarussia. its next to ukraine and russia. for those who went there say they have the most gorgeous women in the world. most of them are very intelligent too once they finish grade 11 it is as if they had finished college too. school is like that over there. and a lot of them would like to get out of the country too, it is hard to live there and the one that will get her out may spend the rest of her live next to him.
good luck
2007-04-27 13:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you spend all your time working, you will never meet anyone. You need to get out, and about, the more women you meet, the better your chances of finding a spark.
Love has nothing to do with money, money should not even be in the equation.
2007-04-27 05:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You attract what you project. What are you projecing...ohh poor me, I can't get a woman. And its not my fault its thiers, they are all messed up. You sound like the absolute image of emotional health. Hey I would want to date you, you sound like a fun date.
Life gives us all emotional issues and you cant do anything about anyone elses. Only your own. and it seems to me that you have a few. (feeling sorry for yourself and not taking responsiblity for things amongs them).
Work on you first, and you will attract someone worthy of you.
2007-04-27 05:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, dude i'm never getting that under the impact of alcohol, never attempting to take over the international.. so there may be a number of 'us' ignored right here. yet, we hide, and we make it complicated for you find us. we don't leap on the magnificent of the table at bars, do not leap on the pole...and so on. LOL
2016-10-30 10:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of nice girls out there... i for one think i am nice plus everyone says that about me... but maybe a lot of the nice girls are taken and you get stuck with the ones that aren't. Good luck... love will find you in due time.
2007-04-27 05:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋