Why do they act like they are so into you and then you find out they have a girlfriend ? Do they want to end their relationship or are they trying to be a player?
2007-04-27 05:02:15 · 32 answers · asked by milkchoclate1989 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not about quality its about quantity................
2007-04-27 05:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some can be insecure. If he's insecure in himself or his current girlfriend, he may be testing what else is out there, or needing attention. Maybe he can't be without a girlfriend for insecurity reasons. If so, he may be lining one up before he breaks up with his current.
Some can be players. But generally, if you and the guy are under 18 - it is acceptable. Maybe not to the current girlfriend, but generally most men and women at that age don't really know what they're looking for or want - and they shouldn't. They have a lot of living and learning yet to do about themselves, relationships and people.
The concern would be you, if you can handle that he may be flitty. If he isn't committed to her, more than likely he won't be to you either. Again, if you're under 18 - this isn't necessarily a bad thing. Girls do this all the time as well.
And maybe he really really likes you. In a perfect world, if you find that person you really connect with, you'd both be be single when in happens. We all know it's not perfect.
Just go with the flow. Don't take it all seriously right now. See what develops. In the end, it's your decision to make with the information he's giving you.
2007-04-27 05:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by deannaashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be very careful to sort out those pigs. Most aren't worth messing with.
Some of the ones with strong personalities can be the worst if they don't have a good heart to go along with it.
Just look at the other shallow responses you've gotten. That should give you a clue as to what to types are out there. Here you ask a genuine question and there they are being smart alecks.
2007-04-27 05:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, Milk, they do so for the same reason that girls play with multiple partners -to get their needs met. What needs? Depends on the person, but you can get a clue by observing other behaviors. What is more telling -and of greater interest to YOU- is that the other relationship was not DISCLOSED. So, instead of trying to figure out what's going on in his, uh, head, pay attention to what you want for yourself and if he's not it, then go elsewhere.
2007-04-27 05:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by JSGeare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey when they grow up or should I say IF they grow up they will be satisfied w/ just 1 girl. IF they had some proper upbringing they wouldn't act that way and IF women wouldn't allow men to be playaz then they wouldn't get away with it so often. Now-a-dayz women give up the goods too easy. We need to leave something to the imagination to keep the man around. Once we give it up then they get tired of it too quickly and search for the next victim. Show me a beautiful woman and I will show you a man that is tired of sleeping with her.
2007-04-27 05:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Michele F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why only guys? Even girls do the same. You ask any girl whether she has a boyfriend she will never answer you straight. It's a human nature to have more and more and better and to keep finding for the best.
2007-04-27 05:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by pushker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even give them the name "Player"! It would be too much of a compliment for them. I think a lot of guys out there are just NOT honest with themselves & their significant other, as well as a lot of ladies. I think it's more like they want the cake & eat it, too!
2007-04-27 05:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by Buggaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the guy. Some of them are probably just trying to be players...
2007-04-27 05:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u dating him? if not he is probably just out to have fun and he is interested in you most likly and he is either playing the feilds before he comes in or he is trying to see if you really like him becasue if you can watch him flirt with another chick and still accept him back then he probaly like you more. so yea or he could just be an asshole out looking for *** and if thats the case dont be one of his bitches for the night.
thats the best advice i can give you
2007-04-27 05:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by skyfallingchickenlittle37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attention.
2007-04-27 05:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTLY A LOT OF TIMES ITS NOT ABOUT BEING THE PLAYER SOMETIMES U JUST CRAVE ATTENTION AND AFFECTION , OR THEY DON'T RECEIVE IT OR ENOUGH OF IT FROM THEIR GIRL SO THEY ACCEPT IT FROM OTHERS . AND OF COURSE SOMETIMES THEIR RELATIONSHIP ISNT WORKIN OUT AAND THEIR LOOKIN FOR A NEW ONE . BUT WHEN ITS ALL SAID AND DONE IT ALL COMES DOWN TO JUS ENJOYING BEING AROUND THAT OTHER PERSON FOR ONE REASON OR ANOTHER.
2007-04-27 05:12:18 · answer #11 · answered by Tierra Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋