Pulling techniques in a club!?

Question

im normally pretty drunk when im in a club and nearly always get a girl but im goin out sober this weekend and wandered how i should go about things without a beer in me? dont think ill be as loud and ballsy, any ideas?

Answer 1

If you get into the habbit of being outgoing only when you're drunk then you will have no personality sober. Take your personality in the club and let that run the show.

Answer 2

I admire you! I don't think I could ever go into a club without being slightly enebriated! Just be yourself, you could actually pull even more if you're sober. Girls do NOT like guys who look like leering drunks with their eyes half closed, staggering all over the place and slopping their beer around! Try and think of something original when you talk to any girl. Hope you have fun.

Answer 3

You still want to be a bit cocky and so on, but being sober could help your game. You need to bring that 'I don't care what happens' attitude you get when you are drunk, but this time your brain will be along for the ride too, so you might be able to impress a woman who isn't as drunk as you normally are. You also don't have to worry about beergoggles, so you can go for it with confidence that you aren't going to regret it in the morning.

If sobriety doesn't make you afraid to talk to women, you'll be just fine.

Answer 4

Eye contact and a smile, and see if you get a response. If ya do, stop worrying - she obviously likes the look of you, just go over and be you. If being you doesnt appeal to her move on cos theres always another babe around the corner. Anyway being sober your more like to find Miss Right, not Miss Up For It, so be prepared if you wanna stay single.

Answer 5

Be loud and ballsy!! Its not the drink thats attracting the ladies its the confidence your portrayin!

I dnt think gettin wasted before you pull is a great idea but its obviously workin 4u & your confidence is the reason why!!

Answer 6

What I have learned from a group of men one night while closing a club, their system that never fails:

1.) Find a woman in a bar that is with friends that are quiet at first but talk louder after 1 drink
2.) Approach girl and start your greetings
3.) Observe reaction from table if one looks at you with a death stare, its her lover, move on
4.) If girl gives the ewww look, move on
5.) If she talks tough, move on, boyfriend coming later
6.) If she is between pleasant and tough, shes trying to size you up and checking you out but not lit enough to be relaxed
7.) Offer drink, again watch reactions of others. If not too hostile appearing, still good.
8.) If girl says "you buy for one, you buy for all" JACKPOT, get ready to ditch friend and get comfortable at table (because if friend joins you, its a 50/50 chance she'll change over to him. If they insist on friend to join, its ok he has still a use and may not ruin it.
9.) ask question, light topics, non intruding, after a few, you'll hear more than enough, once they flow kick back and watch the show or stay on top if they drill you... careful though, too much and this is their unmarried friend they are trying to find a mate for. A one night stand will give you a table of enemies that may have influence. Listen to the questions think but be on top with an aura of comfort around ya. If its all about the Benjamin's and this a club you frequent, you have two choices: go with the flow and just offer to pay for their cab home and send them off or say you are hoping tonight and go to another club for the night. Leaving and not socializing back at them will make you a dork in their eyes.
10) when the 2nd of your rounds is over, announce that you want to sit next to target girl. You'll get it
11) When you get the third round now its observe heavy time, whoever girl leans to and does most eye contact with, is her night out partner, this partner can be the make or break, the others will not react as bad as this one will when you are ready to leave with her. If you are with friend, go for piss and beg friend to take the shift and keep this one comfortable and occupied. The best way, dancing, she'll get trashed faster and will be harder to concentrate on you and will instead, whether she likes him or not, married or not, on him. Even if she is married, boyfriend, this is his target of concentration for your friend, if more than one friend, let him pick the prettier one so he wont diss you the following morning.
If she wants to dance, dance. Dont be the show stopper. No one cares and if you are bad at it, you'll be an embarrasment to her. Simply move and have ryhthm. Also as her consumption increases, the close you can move to her.
12.) If you are on your 4th to 5th round and its only 11pm, you are in trouble, she's lit and probably starting to waver, good chance that this is over, if she is holding her liquor, the only chance is to ask her at this point is she is interested on partying after this.
13.) if its 4-5 drink and she's drapped on you and lip locking you at the last call dances, its time to do your exit plan, everyone that I talked to had their own version, some cabs straight to their pad, some went out for coffee with group (most guys said bad idea, but ok if she seemed concerned), other said they let the girl go from there, so in other words, the rest is up to you.


Now that thats done (I just has to share that)
Here is what I see for problems:
1.) You are not drinking
Thought: I hope he has enough money to blow on drinks
2.) You get a girl every night.
Thought: Use ginger ale to at least show you are drinking and maybe they'll think its draft bear thats very flat LOL
Other thought: You are attractive enough to get some. How? Is it the WOOOOOO I'm a party animal and crazed to the booze! Or, chicks like the way I fill my clothes? I would assume the later. TRY to remember what you did the other nights to score and use your system minus YOU being trashed and you'll be fine.
Meaning in my opinion, the booze tends to make people relaxed first before going WOOOO. Is it before or after the WOOO you have a girl on your arm? If its before, you have your answer. Try to relax and enjoyable and the rest is magnetic.

Answer 7

choose a grl in the club who is with a couple of female friends (this way u can have ur pick)

make eye contact

smile

dance- if u cant dance then just start messing around dancing so they think u av a sense of humour

dont go in 4 the kiss unless she hints at it

ask 4 her phone number!!

xx

Answer 8

Well I would have thought you'd pull better if you are not all loud, leery and drunk as a skunk. A big turn off for many is seeing folk drunk.

Answer 9

Why don't you just chat to girls? Often on nights out, if my friends were off pulling boys, I'd have to spend a lot of time on my own. I met a lot of nice guys that way, because there isn't the threat of approaching a big group of girls, or 'coming on' to them on the dance floor. Sometimes I just chatted, sometimes it went further. Try that - look out for girls that don't look drunk on their own.

Answer 10

If it ain't broke, don't try to fix it. If the birds like you toasted, drink up, Mate!