How U get the GUY U WANT???

Question

I really like this guy, I have never gotten one guy I really really like, and I am getting frustrated... I think he might like me too, but he doesnt have enough guts to come tell me, do u have any idea 1. how to get a guy you want and 2. how to get someone who likes you to tell you!!!

one other thing, is that last december my friend asked him if he would ever go out with me he said no. So I did not like him any more because he upset me, then I started to like him again, then all of a sudden he starts to look at me all the time and star at me, and now his friends that I don't know are too, so could he have possibly have changed his mind, just be scared that I also changed my mind??

Answer 1

dont beat around the bush, dont play the subtle game



just walk up to em, and ask em/tell them

Answer 2

1. Get the guy you want? Simple, be the kind of girl that particular guy wants. Mentally and physically.

2. Uhhh why are you waiting on him? If you like him then show some interest by chatting him up. You, want a guy to show interest in you be open and engaging. Especially with him when you're around other people. As long as it's not in an inappropriate place like work or school, try a couple of playful /flirty compliments. Something like "nice butt" in a playful/ flirty fashion. If he responds in kind. Then you have some idea that he might actually interested in you. If he acts indifferent or annoyed then you may not be his type. Don't push it.

Answer 3

Speaking from a guy's perspective, your best bet might be to take the initiative and just tell him how you feel. He might not even realize that you like him yet. Using signals and subtlety can often be disastrous if you are trying to get a guy's attention. Usually, he wont even notice, he'll misinterpret it, or it will scare him away. So muster up some heart and be up front about it. To be honest, it's flattering when a girl shows some interest and saves you from having to guess all the time. :-)

Answer 4

Kid around with him!

Simply walking up and telling him Can work, however it can also creep people out.
What if he isn't as interested as you, right now?

If you kid around with him, it says you are fun!
You want to have fun, don't you?
So does he!

Even if he is "so so" about you now, if you kid with him, that will change, he will see you in a very different and positive light! : )

Then one day just suggest doing something together, not so much a date, just doing something having fun.
That takes the pressure off both of you two, that a "date" usually puts on you.

Have fun with it & you will most likely be very surprised and pleased by the outcome! : )

Let us know how it goes!

Answer 5

approached him, make small talk, ask him what he is doing later, invite him and his friends out with you and your friends. all ideas but you have to be willing to take a step forward. we chase women all the time and sometimes we dont feel like playing into the chase. also we are pretty simple and like thigs simple and straight forward. be that way with him and you might be surprised at the results

Answer 6

Its not how you get him or how he gets you ... its your mutual drive which attracts you both to one another without previous preperations ... so wait for both of you till the right rush of gut takes its right path.

Everything including love needs time.

Answer 7

I dont how you make him tell just go and tell him before it's too late

Answer 8

A nice set of hooters and a tight rear.

Answer 9

I think u should joke about it ... Just for laughs depending on his reaction you will see if he likes you

Answer 10

well he might b afraid of rejection and maybe U should go for him urself..dont wait on him cuz if u do he might take a while and it will be too late..so go after him yourself...jus see wat happens!