2007-04-27 04:56:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Firstly you can't make anyone get breast implants, they got to decide by themselves, but you can try yourself if you wish :)
Secondly, If you think it's necessary for her to loose 10 lbs, that's not very much, so she mustn't be too fat, actually she should be quite allright.
Don't forget woman vary quite a bit in their weight due to strong hormonal changes once a month ;)
Third, there is nothing you can do to persuade someone to change their appearance, and if you succeed, it is clear a case of power/control relationship, and consequently not health for both of you.
Share with your wife your feelings but do not imply that she should do anything, but if you thing it is for her health benefit than advise her about complications.
And talking about complication, breast implants comes with risks too, has she and you thought about it? Good luck.
2007-04-27 05:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by nininha 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You go see an attorney, file for divorce.
Get yourself into the gym, diet and get a penis enlargement because i'm sure your not a womans dream!! Assuming you have the finances to impress the tiny waisted big boobed girl more than the other guys looking for the same the same thing in a girl start hitting the clubs and stip joints looking for your perfect mate. When you find her live a superficially happy existence together.
The lady you have doesn't deserve the kind of mental abuse and badgering that i am sure you are giving her about doing this "too fit your dream girl personna".
Do the right thing and give this woman a chance to find someone who truly wants, loves and appreciates her for who she is.
2007-04-27 05:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by abby4u 1 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Why did you marry her? Did you love her. Her breasts must have been ok then so why are they not ok now. You may need to answer that question first! About the weight, 10 pounds isn't that bad. Don't try to MAKE her do anything if she doesn't want to. Just love her and let her know you accept her the way she is. Trying to MAKE her change will undermine her self asteem because if she loves you then your opinion will be very important to her. Be kind and it will make all the difference in the world in your relationship. Good luck!!
2007-04-27 05:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by DAS 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
do what my husband did he sat me down and asked me if i ever thought of breast implants and i said yeah so he said did i want them and i said yes so i got them i went from a c to a large d and I'm happy i lost 20 pounds all on my own and he did not even ask and now i fell better about my self, (he's happy to)but i would say just sit her down and talk to her about it but be nice and, listen to what she says, i mean attraction is a important part of being married a lot of guys cheat because they are not attracted to there partner, so i did it and I'm happy i did, and to all you women who say it's wrong you would do it to if you had the chance, there's nothing wrong about it and i told my husband he needed to work on his six pack, so you can love somebody no matter what but still be grossed out by them, so why be so harsh? are you really happy with who you are an what you look like? are you happy with your husbands looks?and if you want her to lose weight go to the gym with her an Say your both doing it to get healthy.
2007-04-27 05:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. CuTT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think that you should love you wife just they way she is but, i had my wife get implants and when i was done she was so happy, she loves then, and when she did she lost 20 pounds so she would look better, i asked her if she ever thought of breast implants and she was like yeah i did but i dunno what do you think and i told her i thought they would look good, so she did then she lost the weight all on her own i did not have to tell (ask) her to and she fells so much better about her self now, just ask if she's ever thought about it and take it from there.
2007-04-27 05:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by caMilitary_solja 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My dear, you don't MAKE someone do anything. Its just the way it is in the free world. You can ask, and you can come up with some NICE (as in polite) convincing arguments, but you cannot MAKE someone do something against their will.
How would YOU like it if she tried to MAKE you wear contacts? Or wax your chest hair? I'm sure you wouldn't be too hip to the notion.
So just LOVE your wife the way she is.... If your picture is any indication, you're not exactly a supreme catch in my book!
2007-04-27 05:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
wouldn't it be funny if your wife was thinking the exact same thing?? how can i get my husband to get breast implants, and lose enough weight to be 110, or maybe she wishes you would get some plastic surgery, or a tooth job, or a hair implant, or something to look like you did when you were 20.....seriously.....grow up and stop thinking like a perv!
2007-04-27 05:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Well I have to say you are a PIG. 110 is a walking stick! And breast implants? why did you marry her in the first place if you are not happy with her. Glad you ain't my husband I would go to jail for spousal abuse!
2007-04-27 05:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Michele F 1 · 10⤊ 2⤋
Do you realize if she loses 10 lbs, the first place she will lose it??? And have YOU considered the thought of losing 10 lbs yourself?
2007-04-27 05:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Buy yourself a shield, barricade yourself in the house and send that exact question by text message to her when she is very far away
2007-04-27 05:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by Tom B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋