My girlfriend's hairy armpits.?

Question

I really love my girlfriend, but she refuses to shave her armpits. This is such a huge turnoff for me. I have told her about it in the past, but she just doesn't seem to care. I don't want to break up with her, but our romantic life is basically nonexistent because I just can't be around those armpits. I mean, her hair is longer than mine!! Any advice?

Answer 1

You want her to shave and she doesn't want to. Therefore you have two choices:

1) Get over the hairy pits
2) Find a new girlfriend..

Answer 2

There are two sides to this story:

1) Her refusal to accommodate your need.
2) Your refusal to accept her as she is. Especially if the first time you saw her armpits, you didn't go running! lol.

I think one of you is going to have to give in. The safest bet is not to expect someone else to change, but to do the changing yourself and learn to love the pits. You might find that she will come around once you do. Keep in mind that there's got to be something about you she doesn't like too, so it's a give and take.

Good luck

Answer 3

Deal with it, or move on. There are all kinds of people in this world. It's her body, she can do what she wishes with it. Have you shaved your pits?

I've known some young ladies, from France and Germany, that had hairy pits and shaved their pubes completely bare. I loved it. Didn't bother me at all.

One alternative you can try is to playfully ask her if you could get some scissors and give her a trim. She might go for that. I keep my pits trimmed, just so I don't look like a cave man.

Answer 4

Why does she refuse to shave? Does she have very sensitive skin or some kind of allergy?
If she doesn't, then I would explain to her that this is a major issue with you; and, If she loves you she should be willing to make this minor sacrafice.


Finally, maybe you can buy her some machine or wax to make it easier on herself.

If after all this she's not willing to change, well maybe then it's time to stop dating the granola chicks.

Answer 5

Whoa,,,I thought about it and yeah,, the drunken thing seems like a good idea,,lol....Some women just don't care (respect to her) but if they smell,, well than,, that's just not cool.
Also there's hair removal cream,,, you could sneak it in under there and when she has a shower it'll all drop off.
And you can be like,, omg that's really weird!!!
Tell her the truth about why...If she cares she'll pick up her act, offer to shave something too as a trade off.

Answer 6

My ultimate suggestion is in simple terms confer together with her approximately it. Have her inform you considered one of her grimy little secrets and techniques, or ask her if she may be keen to perhaps not shave for an afternoon, or 2 a week notwithstanding. perhaps notwithstanding if she may be keen to bypass as long as conceivable in order that which you the two could have some exciting. (your ultimate wager for timing of the please do not shave for me factor is wintry climate!) reason have confidence me if my guy reported hi hunny i don't want you to shave not greater i might actually evaluate basically shaving like for particular activities. particularly some the time woman incredibly do hate to shave and basically do it to electrify somebody. good success hun, and don' t pay attention to particularly some the chicks on right here all of us have some variety of kink or something somebody might call strange. :)

Answer 7

It's time for you to move on.

If this is something you really can't get past (perfectly within your right), and she isn't willing to shave it (perfectly within her right) then I don't see how this will work out.

You could try getting an old copy of the Joy of Sex- all of the women's pictures are natural. If you spent some time in Europe, you would see that unshaved is the norm in some countries.

Answer 8

If that and public hare is the only hair she has, then she's pretty feminine. Do I take it she doesn't shave her legs and doesn't have any hair there?

If you can't take it, then get someone else. But most American girls are likely to be a lot hairier than her.

Answer 9

1. You break off since she's refusing to shave it.
2. She shave it because she's afraid to lose you.
3. You learn to deal with the hair issue.
4. You bribe her to shave it for something she wants.
5. Shave it off yourself while she's knocked off.
Take ur pick.

Answer 10

Slightly different than all the rest... Yes, shave them for her as part of foreplay; gently, lovingly...then rub your errr...manhood in there and turn her on. Make it so she wants to keep 'em clean for you so you'll do it some more. Worked for my short hairs if you know what I mean.