Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

A former male friend of mine at work is avoiding me. We were close friends b4, but we had joked about hooking up until I got upset with him since I ended up wanting to and felt like he was disrespecting me. I ended up calling him a dog since he has a gf overseas and was talking to me about doing it. Anyway I ended up writing a letter to him apologizing to him and he told me I was too weird to be his friend since I gave him mixed signals. He emailed me telling me I needed therapy and that I should get a bf and some friends. When he emailed me this, I was hurt and had been ignoring him for a month, but I could tell he would look at me and try to make me jealous by talking to other girls. I think he realized he had hurt my feelings since I could tell he looked guilty sometimes. I went up to him and said hi and he said hi. He looked at me like he wanted to talk. But the thing is I'm still hurt by him and I can't look at him since I'm so mad so I just ignore him.

2007-03-28 10:09:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant bring her cuz the school doesnt want me to go n watever, so i asked one of my good friends juan if he could bring her. he was like, "sure man" but he didnt seem like he wanted to. so i said, "if u dont wanna, then dont have to, i'll ask sumbody else." he said, "ok." so i asked my other friend, but then juan was like, "no, im bringing her." i said, "u said it was ok." then he said, "no, i wanna bring her. i really do, let me bring her." hes been actin pretty weird about it n i think he might like her. i dont want him to try to make a move on her. should i let him take her? she doesnt care, she just wants to go to prom.

2007-03-28 10:09:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Help me please... i filed a divorce and i'm currently in Florida. My ex-husband to be is in the Philippines and we have not talked for over half a year. I just spoke with the paralegal and she's asking for an address where the documents could be served (by a sherrif). She informed me that the address should be where my ex resides, but i just dont know. Can I use my sister's address instead? Any body know about this situation? HELP PLEASE.....

2007-03-28 10:08:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that I have had an interest in. We send internet messages back and forth but just can't manage to speak when we see each other at the gym. We just look at each other. I feel like I need to make some kind of move or I will be thinking "what if". The only problem is I usually go for the average looking guy and this guy is hot. He makes me nervous. What can I do?

2007-03-28 10:08:34 · 6 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

She will randomly say " I don't like you" in class to me when I haven't even looked at her or tell someone to tell me that randomly. We have never talked really or anything so I don't even get what is going on. I never even expressed a true interest in her. What is she trying to do here or what is going on!? I am so confused....

2007-03-28 10:08:29 · 10 answers · asked by x3454wd3yesdf 1 in Singles & Dating

should i spend it like only us together such as at his place or mine and just do activitys together? Or should we go on a outing some where? What is the best affective way of having a perfect first date? i really like this guy and i know he likes me i just don't wanna mess up? like if he was to come over to my house what activitys should i have planned? or if we went out what would be the ideal places to go out that would create the ultimate romantic moment. please really need suggestions!!!!

2007-03-28 10:08:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, I just got a call from my cousin. She said her mom just found out that she is dating a black guy (they are white). Her mom is now saying she either give up this guy and any black guys in the future, or lose her family. She has also threatened to hurt herself (the mom). That side of the family was raised against blacks. Some were even in the KKK. (sad I know). Anyways, the daughter is 18 and her mom has kicked her out of the house. Of course she can always stay with me and my boyfriend but I would like them to talk about but her mom says she won't budge. How would you handle this situation as I really don't know what to do or say? I'm not going to talk trash to the mom as that's her opinion but I don't want my cousin to lose a major part of her family either.

2007-03-28 10:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by Les 2 in Family

Beerholder?

Thats it I'm going for drinks, who wants to come?

2007-03-28 10:07:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex left me some months ago but we have finally started to get our act together. She left and went on a re bound but now seems keen to come back. I am sure we will be fine as the split was daft really and way premature. Anyway, she is with the rebound and I don't know what to do.. Whether I should wait patiently ( or is going quiet bad?) or tell her and remind her of my feelings or what?? She hasn't said in those words she will come back. More in her actions and information I got from her family . She is the type to surprise and I think is concerned for the re bounds feelings, understandibly. Can I get some advice? Thanks.

2007-03-28 10:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by jason e 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 10:06:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The question was in singles and dating called, "I'm not sure, but do you think he might like me?" I need help with this so please answer if you have any advice. Thanks so much!

2007-03-28 10:06:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was involved and deeply in love with a guy for a long time. He put me through alot and although we dont get along I still have a lot of feelings for him. My freind was there the entire time. I recently found out they are now dating. What should I do?

2007-03-28 10:06:08 · 9 answers · asked by ~N3VA W0ULD HAV3 MAD3 IT~ 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 4 months..my parents MADE us break up..so we technically did, but we're still talking and everything, we just cant hang out now. So I never see him now, we can just talk on the phone. There is no way my parents will change their mind. What should we do? Date and keep it a secret? DAte adn let my parents know, and them take everything away so we have no contact like they threatened? or jsut try to move on? or wait 2 years until Im 18 and they cant control what I do? I really love this guy, we were friends for 1 1/2 years before we started dating...

2007-03-28 10:06:04 · 4 answers · asked by Snowy H 1 in Singles & Dating

I sent him papers but he never returned them ,now no one knows his whereabouts.The sherriff tried to serve him but couldn't find him. we seperated April 7,2006. I have papers typed up.I am not using a lawyer,I can't afford one.

2007-03-28 10:05:13 · 6 answers · asked by jkayrn@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband will go sometimes 2 weeks or more without showering! I will ask him every morning if he wants to take a shower. I even bring him clean clothes and towels to encourage him. I have even offered certain... bedroom favors ... if he'll just take a shower daily! Or even every other day!

He goes to work like this! He's also a smoker, so it makes it worse! Please, someone help me figure him out, why won't he take a shower??

He's also not shaved or gotten a hair cut in over 6 months. Is this some sign of something I should be worried about?

2007-03-28 10:05:05 · 37 answers · asked by Sick of the Stink 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if a guy smiles at you when you say hi do they most likely like you to some exctent.

2007-03-28 10:04:16 · 5 answers · asked by Lacie 1 in Singles & Dating

i am spanish and my fiancee is white, before meeting him i had never heard the phrase "i need space," we have been dating for 4 years and very committed and monogamous about our relationship, but sometimes he tells me that guys need space and that is to rejuvinate, i respect it but i've never had to deal with this, i mean i have had american boyfriends before, but never really paid attention to it.
In my culture that phrase does not even exist, or is it just in my circle of family and friends that it doesnt???
Is it a cultural difference?????

2007-03-28 10:04:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After I met my bf, when we were just fooling around, not exclusive and "officially" a couple I went on a binge drinking episode with my best girlfriend. I ended up doing some things with another guy that I wouldn't have done had I been sober and in my right mind. I don't even remember what really happened. I am not making an excuse, but I can't explain why I did what I did nor can I justify it. He is looking for an explanation. I have apologized numerous times and told him that because I was under the influence, it was not the real me. I am ashamed and know what I did was hurtful and wrong. He doesn't think I am being honest and I don't know what else I can say. I am commited to him and our relationship. I show and tell him of my love. He is the only one I desire. Nothing like that has happened since and I am not putting myself in the position for it to ever happen again. What else can I say or do?

2007-03-28 10:03:27 · 14 answers · asked by labsims 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 10:03:18 · 1 answers · asked by dlg 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 10:02:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does a husband look/need from their wives that would help him be a better man, feel good about himself, and happy that he's married?

2007-03-28 10:01:41 · 16 answers · asked by gurlielash 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night he told me that he was going to buy some beer and he would be right back home. Well he left with 5 of his friends and didnt come back till 3 hours later drunk off his a**. He had gone out to a bar to play pool while I stayed at home frustrated with the kids. Then after he got out of work at 12 noon and I went home for lunch. I got there to find him drunk again with his friends. This is getting out of hand. I never go out anywhere. In fact I dont even have friends to go out with. I feel like doing something drastic sometimes and leave him. But sometimes I feel like we should work out our problems. What should I do? He thinks I wont leave him. He stopped drinking for a long time and now look at him. I feel like he doesnt love me. I even tried to get him to notice me the other day by dressing in a short skirt, tall boots, and a tank top. I know I have a low self esteem and I gave up my freedom for him. He's always been a jerk with me and I've had it. What would u do in my shoes

2007-03-28 10:01:07 · 12 answers · asked by cocoa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know someone who is searching for God and her spouse does drugs and alcholol.

I have noticed a decline in this spouse and he is very verbally abusive and he is in torment because of his addictions.

He has stolen money, lied about using, does not want to repent or get help, goes to counselling with his wife but feels he does not need to change.

They have 3 kids and this person does not want to get help, there marriage is badically over and it looks like the will divorce.

I feel if this person does not repent she should proceed with the divorce. How can I be a help to this person and even though God does not like divorce will God still watch over her and will God make all things better and new for her? My eyes fill up with tears as I write this because this person has gone and is still going through hell.

I dont want to be a "fundie" and bible bash her that is the last thing she needs What can I do to help and be there for her?

2007-03-28 10:00:52 · 11 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

have a 16 year old son who is very rebellious. Which i am to understand is perfectly normal. My husband keeps confronting me about it saying that its out of hand and that his attitude needs to be handled. I'm a bit more laid back about this but my husband comes from a strict family. When I got home from work a couple hours ago my son had a black eye and he wouldnt tell me what happened. My husband felt it was appropriate to whip him and punch him which i strongly disagree with. Apparently the school called about him failing his english class and my husband lost all control. I didnt find that to be a exscuse for what he did. He has never punished Corey before without discussing it with me first. What am i suppose to do about all this?

2007-03-28 10:00:31 · 11 answers · asked by Carol J 1 in Family

have a 16 year old son who is very rebellious. Which i am to understand is perfectly normal. My husband keeps confronting me about it saying that its out of hand and that his attitude needs to be handled. I'm a bit more laid back about this but my husband comes from a strict family. When I got home from work a couple hours ago my son had a black eye and he wouldnt tell me what happened. My husband felt it was appropriate to whip him and punch him which i strongly disagree with. Apparently the school called about him failing his english class and my husband lost all control. I didnt find that to be a exscuse for what he did. He has never punished Corey before without discussing it with me first. What am i suppose to do about all this?

2007-03-28 10:00:00 · 30 answers · asked by Carol J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this guy i really like but i don't know how to talk to him. Basically i wanna flirt with him but i don't want it to be ovious im flirting. I know he likes me back he always trys to talk to me and involve me in the action but i always get butterflies and get shy. I am tired of lookin stupid i wanna be able to keep conversation with him. So what exactly should i talk about i am very nervous but i want me and his bond to increase which will involve communicating with 1 another verbally.

2007-03-28 09:59:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 16 year old son who is very rebellious. Which i am to understand is perfectly normal. My husband keeps confronting me about it saying that its out of hand and that his attitude needs to be handled. I'm a bit more laid back about this but my husband comes from a strict family. When I got home from work a couple hours ago my son had a black eye and he wouldnt tell me what happened. My husband felt it was appropriate to whip him and punch him which i strongly disagree with. Apparently the school called about him failing his english class and my husband lost all control. I didnt find that to be a exscuse for what he did. He has never punished Corey before without discussing it with me first. What am i suppose to do about all this?

2007-03-28 09:59:05 · 29 answers · asked by Carol J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

about anything!
politics
abortions
religion
we might be little but we know what is going on and we have opinions!
let us debate them if you want us to learn!

2007-03-28 09:58:56 · 10 answers · asked by spazeycakes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm just 14 and haven't had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. Am i really weird??

2007-03-28 09:58:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am missing him like CRAZY! I swear I haven't slept for more than an hour in a whole week. We broke up not long ago... but I still love him... and he has said he still loves me. Well, last night, around 3 A.M. I was laying in bed...thinkning... yet again I could not fall asleep. I was wondering if missed me as much as I missed him. Then all of the sudden, my phone rang... and it was him!!! I asked why he called so late... he said he couldn't fall asleep. Then I said, me too. There was kinda an awkward silence for a minute... like we both knew why we couldn't sleep. We had agreed to stay friends... but last night it seemed like he was hinting a lot of things. Do you think maybe he misses me as much as I miss him??? Do you think he wants to get back together???

2007-03-28 09:58:23 · 2 answers · asked by Sarah Jones101 2 in Singles & Dating