My ex left me some months ago but we have finally started to get our act together. She left and went on a re bound but now seems keen to come back. I am sure we will be fine as the split was daft really and way premature. Anyway, she is with the rebound and I don't know what to do.. Whether I should wait patiently ( or is going quiet bad?) or tell her and remind her of my feelings or what?? She hasn't said in those words she will come back. More in her actions and information I got from her family . She is the type to surprise and I think is concerned for the re bounds feelings, understandibly. Can I get some advice? Thanks.
2007-03-28 10:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by jason e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GET YOUR SWERVE ON UNTIL SHES READY OTHERWISE YOU COULD BE WAITING FOR NO REASON
IF YOU LET IT BE KNOWN TO HER THAT YOU ARE WAITING ON HER, THEN YOUR SCREWED
MAKE IT SEEM THAT YOU ARE JUST FINE WITHOUT HER & THAT YOU ARE NOT SO READILY AVAILABLE
IF YOU REALLY WANT HER BACK, MAKE HER THINK SHE CANT HAVE YOU, HUMAN NATURE TO WANT WHAT YOU CANT HAVE, ASK A FRIEND TO ACT AS YOUR NEW GIRLFRIEND, JEALOUSY WILL TAKE HOLD AS IT DID TO YOU
2007-03-28 10:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by jsav209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wanted to test out another before she went back to her commitment to you. **WAIT** Not in a way that you ignore her, but I hate to say this, but if I were you, she'd have to work for it moreso in actions (her own, not what her family says). At this point, I would consider the possibility that she may still be confused and just doesn't want to be alone. Sorry, but we all do it.....have one in reserve just in case.
Ultimately, please wait.....for your own heart. Take time on your own to figure out what you want. If she fufilled everyting you wanted in a woman, then it's worth the wait and taking it day by day before you make your final decision.
I would also question the rebound relationship and what it did for her or didn't do for her......she may just say it made her realize how much she missed you; use the cliche' that you don't know what you got 'till it's gone.....but take it with a grain of salt. I would feel hurt and cheated on, even though you said she left you first before the new venture.
2007-03-28 17:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by JosieJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's playing you, just in case the rebound doesnt work out....come on cant you see that, she knows your feelings alright, and she knows that no matter what happens with the rebound, you'll be there like a puppy....get some respect, and move on.
2007-03-28 17:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by natc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to wake up and face the truth. The relationship is over and it is time to move on with your life.
Good luck.
2007-03-28 17:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well why did she leave you the first time?
2007-03-28 17:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
will if she has moved on to her rebound then you need to move on too.and no i'm single!!!
2007-03-28 17:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex is an ex for a reason...
2007-03-28 17:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by allywally 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋