Why would he say something like this to me?

Question

A former male friend of mine at work is avoiding me. We were close friends b4, but we had joked about hooking up until I got upset with him since I ended up wanting to and felt like he was disrespecting me. I ended up calling him a dog since he has a gf overseas and was talking to me about doing it. Anyway I ended up writing a letter to him apologizing to him and he told me I was too weird to be his friend since I gave him mixed signals. He emailed me telling me I needed therapy and that I should get a bf and some friends. When he emailed me this, I was hurt and had been ignoring him for a month, but I could tell he would look at me and try to make me jealous by talking to other girls. I think he realized he had hurt my feelings since I could tell he looked guilty sometimes. I went up to him and said hi and he said hi. He looked at me like he wanted to talk. But the thing is I'm still hurt by him and I can't look at him since I'm so mad so I just ignore him.

Answer 1

people can be jerks sometimes. just move on and either forgive him or dont.

Answer 2

You'll drive yourself crazy asking "why" in life. The answer is "Because". Because he can, because he's a jerk, because you needed to hear it, because life is presenting you with a valuable lesson and until you wake up and accept it, you'll keep bumping up against it and huring yourself.

Answer 3

Dude stop reposting the same stupid question over and over again. Look at the answers from 2 months ago. They are still as helpful today as they were 2 months ago. But at any rate thanks for the points.

Answer 4

Because he is in love with you and doesn't know how to handle his emotions

Answer 5

Move on. You sound obsessed.