Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I think that I am very pretty even though I am kinda shy around guys. I feel that I will probably never get a boyfriend because I live in a small town. Would it be weird if I got my first boyfriend when I am in college since it will be in a bigger city? Sometimes I get really sad when I see 5th graders that have boyfriends and I am in 8th grade and have never had a boyfriend. What is wrong with me? Did any of you people not have a boyfriend or girlfriend in high school? Does it matter how many relationships you had in the past to determine if you are going to get married or not?

2007-03-28 10:42:10 · 27 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 10:41:57 · 27 answers · asked by Jason 4 in Singles & Dating

im a size 12 5'7 and after two kids i just cant lose the weight just wanted to know what people think

2007-03-28 10:41:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it is serious. i m 19 .he is 30 .sometime we dont understand eachother .i really love him soooooooooo much .but he always blame me and think it was my fault .

2007-03-28 10:41:14 · 8 answers · asked by hagar a 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy or years and have lived with him and 2 other dudes for a couple years. I came back early from work last night and saw a light in my bedroom. I looked on and saw him spunking on my pillow with the pillowcase off?? He did not notice me and I did not want to confront him in mid stroke. Should I bring this up? I am definately getting a new pillow. Is he gay??? Or does he really just hate me for something and getting even with me??

2007-03-28 10:40:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend has a wonderful mountain cabin I am welcome to use anytime during the off season at no charge except for the cost of the housekeeping service. I would like to use it during the summer (which is the peak season) and offered to pay her what she would collect for any regular tenant. This is a relatively new investment for her and her husband and they really need to collect at least 10 weeks of premium rent to make this work financially.

My boyfriend thinks she would be cheap to accept my offer and should be willing to discount the rate for me. I contend that we would be paying that rate elsewhere, why not pay it to her vs. renting an alternative cabin.

What do you think? Is she being stingy to not offer me the use of the cabin at a reduced rate?

2007-03-28 10:40:33 · 4 answers · asked by Chick with Brains 2 in Friends

theres this one guy and i can kinda say were going out but its not official. he puts his arm around me and we talk between every class and he has asked me out once. well the big thing is he hangs out with the nerdy type, but i definetly wouldn't say hes a nerd! i know that this is not helping my reputation any but i really like him and we really have something special. i dont know if i could say yes to his offer to be my bf. WHAT SHOULD I DO??!?!?!?!?!?

2007-03-28 10:40:32 · 1 answers · asked by Heather D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 10:40:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anti Christ Superstar 1 in Singles & Dating

is it possible that a guy would :-

- brush his leg against yours,then keep it there,and really invade your personal space without realising it may seem flirty?
-if you don't really know him,he smiles often,really listens and seems to find reasons to be near and brush by you?

do guys do all these things oblivious to the fact these things appear flirty or would they do it because they are flirting on purpose?

2007-03-28 10:40:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you be obligated to pay?

Hypothetically speaking, of course.

2007-03-28 10:40:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy and 2 months ago I was going to ask him out but he asked this girl out like 5 min. before I was going to *tear* and so I t hought okay it won't be that long something will happen and they will break up. But, its been 2 months and I still love him but I'm tired of chasing him. I also know that he loved me at some point and that he was afraid that I'd dump him like my ex(I caught him one day telling someone). But this past week I relized that enoughs enough, I need to stop loving him. BUT I CAN"T!!!!!! I write his name in a heart on the shower door every time I show(I know cheesy) and I think about him 24/7. I LOVE him, but I don't want to anymore, how can I stop???? Thanks in advance!

2007-03-28 10:39:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister(19) i'm 16 is really sweet to me sometimes but when i see that she's rude to one or both of my parents my blood really boils i want her to be nice to everyone, should i enhance my relationship with my sister even though she's a jerk to my parents? i just cant put on a smile when she's nice to me and not to my family/parents, especially when she doesnt understand that she has to treat everyone with respect... what should i do.... i appreciate the love she gives me but i cant feel it back when i know that not everyone is happy because of her bad attitude!

2007-03-28 10:38:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is serious. Okay, my best girl friend in preschool moved away to Japan for Kindergarten- 2nd grade. And then she came back for 3rd grade, and we became friends again. We were best friends along with this other guy, and we were the perfect threesome. We were all loud-mouthed and outgoing and always had fun (while sometimes even getting in trouble). In 4th grade, the girl moved to a new school. In 5th grade, the guy moved away. We all changed. I used to be all weird and stuff, and now I hang out with the popular kids. The girl used to run to me and almost push me down because she was hugging me so hard. Now, whenever I call, she doesn't sound excited to talk to me. And the guy, who used to be sensitive and funny, turned into a swearing, trouble-maker. Today, as I was cleaning my closet, I found this one picture of us together. We were all smiling and happy. I started to cry and couldn't stop. What can I do to get us back together or at least talk to them? Please, no stupid answers

2007-03-28 10:38:57 · 12 answers · asked by ohemgee545 3 in Friends

ok if you were under the covers with your girlfriend talking all cute and sweet and giving eachother kisses, would you get a bonner out of nowhere..??

2007-03-28 10:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by Yhpargotohp 3 in Singles & Dating

He is about 20, im about 18 so its not anything stupid, if you look at my last question it will explain the situation. So please take the time to look cause this guy seems great and im at a loss. I have done this before and the nice guy moved away. I dont want to be to late so please help!!

2007-03-28 10:36:09 · 15 answers · asked by Cheyennes Mommy 1 in Singles & Dating

my bestfriedn talks about me alot and i was wondering if i should still be her friend?

2007-03-28 10:35:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-28 10:34:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 10:34:27 · 10 answers · asked by Fabiola M 1 in Friends

i have been with him for almost a month and it seems that everyday we get into an argument. its mostly about the fact that i am often upset for different reasons and he thinks that whenever i dont have a smile on my face, i'm mad at him. i try to tell him that im not but he doesnt believe it and when im mad, he gets mad and we just argue back and forth. the only option is to break up with him but i REALLY dont wanna do dat. what should i do?

2007-03-28 10:34:09 · 10 answers · asked by jen 1 in Singles & Dating

but all my friends say that staying for the children is wrong. this woman that i have met is more perfect for me than anyone, and i am very good for her. we have so much in common and are laughing all the time, i no this wont always be the case, but together we feel so safe in each others arms, we are both very independent and could live alone if necessary, however despite the honeymoon period, we feel like we have known each other for years and can see a future together, but the problem is how to make abreak from our existing relationships?

2007-03-28 10:34:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but I fear my technique is a little rusty, any tips?
I usually get a mouthful of hair, how do i stop that?

2007-03-28 10:34:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-28 10:33:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, i think i love this girl. She is a really good friend of mine and i love everything about her. me and her have the same things in common, like Everything, and shes christian, does not cuss, likes the same music i do, i mean perfect for me. The thing is, one of her friends came to me and asked me if i thought she was cute, and i answered yes. I know her friend told her, and now when i hear her talking with other people about me i get the feeling she doesn't like me. But the wierd thing is she still seems like she likes me, and thier is nothing akward between us, even though she might know i like her. I am so confused on what to do, do i tell her, and she say no so our friendship would be akward or just wait it out? What do you guys think?

2007-03-28 10:33:01 · 4 answers · asked by pilotman 2 in Singles & Dating

I just ended a 5 year relationship and have been single about 8 months now. Is it too soon to start dating someone new? Most of my friends tell me I should wait at least a year but I am really not sure how long before I should start dating again.

2007-03-28 10:32:20 · 11 answers · asked by jeff s 1 in Singles & Dating

I married my wife a year ago thinking that she was the one, but I am fiding out stuff just now about her that makes me upset. Stuff like the big amount of guy friends she had, her relationship with them, and hiding all this until now that we are married. I caught her ones cheating, but we were both still dating, we broke up, but then, we got back. I know she isn't cheating on me now, but it's just all the lies she has done. It makes me unsecure, makes me not trust her. I love her til death, but her past always comes and hunts me. I also have problems with her when we go out to places and she sees other guys, she like looks at them too much until she catches their attention. It's kind of like flurting. Her mother always talks about her exs, which I hate. My friend suggested me not to marry her at first, but I just fell in love like an idiot. I really feel unsecure about her if she ever cheats on me. I know that would be the end of it. I just hope that never happens?

2007-03-28 10:31:54 · 34 answers · asked by Blue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy i like and he is super cute!!!
the only thing is that i told him i liked him and he didnt say anything excpept"so watcha doin?"
does he like me??
we talk a lot and we r friends?
does it just take some guys time to tell girls?

2007-03-28 10:31:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi. I need some help finding a flower that I have been buying at Joann Fabrics for awhile for my wedding. Unfortunatly they decided to change their vendor so I cannot get them there anymore, but maybe some of you guys are better at searching that I am?? The name of the flower I have is a 32" new rubrum lily (JVL903-PK/BT), UPC 3384965752, and the vendor # is 489-6387. I can't find them anywhere! These are the best quality flowers I could find and I haven't been able to find any anywhere else that aren't plastic or cheap looking. If anyone could help, it would be much appreciated. THANKS!

2007-03-28 10:31:26 · 6 answers · asked by Beffy 2 in Weddings

I have been divorced from this woman for over 18 yrs or so when I left her, her son - stepson for me - was 3. I am currently remarried no children of my own but wonder what other peoples thoughts of contacting him. Should I even consider the idea? Or should I just let it be and hope the kid is doing good on his own?

2007-03-28 10:30:57 · 19 answers · asked by Firestorm 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 10:30:46 · 6 answers · asked by sometimes I'm too nice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends ex-Boyfriend broke up with her about 3 weeks ago and for a while I was really mad at him for flirting with other girls. Now he comes over to my house or calls me alot. I think i might like him. I do not know for sure. I like another guy my friend has not dated but not sure if he likes me. Is it wrong for me to like my friends ex ?

2007-03-28 10:30:12 · 4 answers · asked by katie 2 in Singles & Dating