My friends ex-Boyfriend broke up with her about 3 weeks ago and for a while I was really mad at him for flirting with other girls. Now he comes over to my house or calls me alot. I think i might like him. I do not know for sure. I like another guy my friend has not dated but not sure if he likes me. Is it wrong for me to like my friends ex ?
2007-03-28 10:30:12 · 4 answers · asked by katie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its ok to like him but if you are a true friend, I would advise against dating him. It just shows such a lack of respect for your friendship and for what they had. In the alternative, you should at last wait a while for things to cool down and then, discuss with her how she would feel about you dating her ex. Letting some time pass and being totally honest are the keys to not losing your friend but still getting what you want.
2007-03-28 10:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by jeff s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend are you? While your girlfriend is probably adjusting to this breakup, you are trying to plan a life with her ex. It is particularly insensitive since the break-up was just three weeks ago. Were you waiting around hoping that things would go badly for your friend? You need to consider how she is going to view this. If you were my "friend" I would be suspicious of you from now on. Of all the men in the world, you have to go after the one she just broke up with? That does not sit well in my mind. Do yourself a favor and find someone else.
2007-03-28 17:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex best friend DID go out with my last love. I tried to brush it off and we were friends for years later, but once we got into a fight over somthing else thats what I remember. Thats why I cannot trust a lot of woman. You need to do whats best for you and that also includes weiging the consequences that follow. If she dosent mean anything to you remember other girls see this and have no respect for you. Another friend will turn around do it to you. Just find somone who hasnt slept with all your friends!
2007-03-28 17:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DATE THE BEST FRIENDS EX IT WILL COME BACK AND BITE YOU IN THE *** IT IS NOT WORTH IT, AND SHE MIGHT BEAT YOU UP.
2007-03-28 17:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by da_trump_queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋