it is serious. i m 19 .he is 30 .sometime we dont understand eachother .i really love him soooooooooo much .but he always blame me and think it was my fault .
2007-03-28 10:41:14 · 8 answers · asked by hagar a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what shall i do 2 make it work
2007-03-28 10:43:07 · update #1
do not say find some 1 in ur age .i really want 2 work it out . he is agreat guy . and u know love is blind.
2007-03-28 10:59:49 · update #2
It doesn't matter what the age is - if he's blaming you for everything, and making you think that everything is your fault then you need to get out.
He sounds like a control freak...and no-one needs one of those in their lives. What's next? You're dressing too sexy, you're wearing too much make up, who are you talking to on the phone...& on & on & on. Seriously...get out, before it gets worse.
Good luck.
2007-03-28 10:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Tiilynn♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a big age gap between my girlfriend and I as well, there are times when she feels I am acting like a "dad" dont listen to the people who say, hes too old for you.. love isn't about age it is about love, but yes because of your age gap there are going to be arguements, and little things that happen, but it is OK sometimes it is good to be with someone older think of it as him being your protecter his is just wiser and has more experiance than you do, learn from eachother, you can learn his wisdom while he can try to cool off and have a little more fun like you do because you are still young. Learn from it, and talk about eachothers feelings, good luck
2007-03-28 20:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the large gap in age just isn't that great for relationships. The older thinks the younger is too mature, the younger thinks the older is too strict, they just get on each others nerves and the relationship ends up badly.
My opinion is that it's probably not going to work out. But if you are committed to him then sit down with him and talk to him about what you're worried about.
2007-03-28 17:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by sweet.catastrophek 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's your best friend and he's thirty well thats the thing hes a guy and hes way older than you theres going to be conflick as a women i'm on your side "my fault no way" but then theres the age thing your 19 don't know you so don't take this personaly but your 19 some 19yr olds are more mature than others but like I said he's a guy he's a guy it has to be all him.
2007-03-28 17:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont make it work if hes always blaming you you will never change that I have to say find someone closer to your age
2007-03-28 17:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yall from diffrent decades. hes older and has different toughts from yours. i think even though you love him a lot you should find someone your own age
2007-03-28 17:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by LiveLaughLove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a "boy" your own age. your too young to be dating sum1 that old.
2007-03-28 17:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone your own age, theyll understand you more and you will get along better
2007-03-28 17:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by luigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋