This is serious. Okay, my best girl friend in preschool moved away to Japan for Kindergarten- 2nd grade. And then she came back for 3rd grade, and we became friends again. We were best friends along with this other guy, and we were the perfect threesome. We were all loud-mouthed and outgoing and always had fun (while sometimes even getting in trouble). In 4th grade, the girl moved to a new school. In 5th grade, the guy moved away. We all changed. I used to be all weird and stuff, and now I hang out with the popular kids. The girl used to run to me and almost push me down because she was hugging me so hard. Now, whenever I call, she doesn't sound excited to talk to me. And the guy, who used to be sensitive and funny, turned into a swearing, trouble-maker. Today, as I was cleaning my closet, I found this one picture of us together. We were all smiling and happy. I started to cry and couldn't stop. What can I do to get us back together or at least talk to them? Please, no stupid answers
2007-03-28 10:38:57 · 12 answers · asked by ohemgee545 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe plan a trip to somewhere where they haven't been before for the three of you to take. It might make you guys have something in common again.
2007-03-28 10:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by cat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay first relax and realize that ur friends r not gone for good, that they always will be with you no matter how far away they move.
friendship is the strongest bond between people, in which time can never ravage
in my life, i've experienced many of my dearest friends moving away. dont worry too much. the world isn't as big as u think. at times u may even bump into ur friends unexpectedly...
research online, find there phone #'s....
ppl change sometimes its completely normal...
just remember that they r still the ppl u used to hangout with.
they r still the same, either way...
just tell em straight out how u wanna hang out and catch up on some old memories...
2007-03-28 17:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by TheApocalypticOrgasm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make plans with both of them and do something fun together. That way they'll remember all the good times. I've had many friends who drifted away over the years. People change over the years and they're probably not the same as who you knew before. Accept them for who they are today. I wouldn't see why they wouldn't want to spend some time together.
2007-03-28 17:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do u have ther phone numbers u can call them and say lets start talkin on this thing called yahoo messanger or skype and the X threesome can get in a privit chat and talk and i got alot of friends by odoing that or yall can get in to some thing all of like and start talking about it and then maby yall can get back to gether and i am 12 i am just trying to help so if i dont i am sorry about that .
and u can get liek thes clubs on thes thing like xbox live and there is alot of thing u just have to find what all of u and ur friends like so i am sorry if i can help and i this does not cover it all i have a emial johnadurham u can email me there and can u plz give me the best answer it took me a really long time to type this message so i hope i can help
2007-03-28 17:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People change as they grow up especially when they're young. People sometimes make drastice changes in their late teens to early 20's. It's a fact of life that people who were friends in elementary school are no longer friends by the time they reach high school. You're hanging on to your childhood memories, and it's probably best to just move on. Don't waste too much energy on those who don't give much thought to you.....instead concentrate on those around you that care about you.
2007-03-28 17:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by SlamDUNK 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU know life throws us lots of punches.Sounds like they have gone through the mill. And swearing and acting out is only a cry 4 help.WHEN i can't help people or i have no answers 4 people, I take it to the LORD in prayer. Prayer changes things. THAT'S what i do 4 my old friends. YOU know i have three friends i cant find. Every time i think of thies three i cry. BUT i know the LORD loves them more then me. And i know he is watching over them where ever they are .INCLUDING your friends too.
2007-03-28 17:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's gonna be hard, you might have to deal with the fact that most friends are not destined to be friends forever. Try hanging out with the girl sometime, and maybe the guy too. But dont get too upset if it doesnt work out, atleast you have new friends now.
2007-03-28 17:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awww...thats soo sad!! i mean...sorry i just hate it when somthing like that happens. well try to schedule a time together one day. like say all of your friends go to one house and talk and have fun like you guys did long time ago. cause thats what happend to my friends. one of them moved, the other started to swear and all that junk and the other just doesnt hang around me much. so you guys should just all get together one day and jsut have fun! nothings wrong with that cause people change. so it reall doesnt mean anything. cause i use to be this girl who NEVER talks. and now im a non-stop-talking machine!! ^^ well i hope you and your friends get together!!
2007-03-28 17:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by HoT_AzN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that must be really hard! but the same thing happend to me 2!! I had a friend and she moved when we were 8 and the last time I saw her it was really akward and we didnt have much to talk about. but then we started talking about our old inside jokes and we couldnt stop talking! so try thinking of your old inside jokes and try to remember the times you had! they might remember 2 and laugh and you will have fun!
2007-03-28 17:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to contact your friend and than keep in touch thank god for e-mail. Realize the best part in life is all the wonderful people and experiences we will have in and out of our lives.
If you don't get in touch with friend she remembers you to and that is why we need to leave a good life trail for others to find us. Good Luck
2007-03-28 17:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by styles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋