Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

When if ever is it okay for a man to seek the company of a prostitute? If safe sex is practiced? I'm not asking about the legality of it, more the societal perception.

I'm single and have not had a sexual relationship for over 3 yrs. I recently met a lady who is in her mid 30s and has three kids. Somehow we got on the subject of sex and she is way, way out there sexually. She said she works on the side with a select few men doing dates. She claims she loves sex and does not consider it work at all and actually enjoys it very much. She stated she only picks guys she is attracted to and has sexual compatibility with. Anyhow, she offered and I'm tempted. But technically this is prostitution, something I've never done or even thought of. I am tempted, I admit. Is this completely wrong, is it ever okay to do this?

2007-03-19 07:49:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 years old and I have very controlling parents. My parents were involved in some inappropriate activities (none illegal) and people have found out about it and therefore they have lots of enemies. In the past my parents did a good job at keeping us from it but now things are starting to come out and anyone that my parents think are going to tell us anything they really don't want us around them, even though they don't come right out and say it, one of the people is now my ex-boyfriend. We broke up because neither of my parents or boyfriend (at the time) respect each other and our relationship has suffered as a result. I really love him and want to get back together but my parents are trying to turn me against him and my ex has a huge issue with parental approval and that's why we had to break up. I understand where they are both coming from. I'm so confused. What should I do?

2007-03-19 07:49:38 · 24 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our colors are burgandy/deep red with ivory and gold accents...any suggestions or pictures?

2007-03-19 07:49:30 · 12 answers · asked by FutureMrsWhitehead 1 in Weddings

I live 250 miles away from her and she rings me every day and expects to chat for an hour. I'm in my final term of uni and just haven't got time to talk every night. Plus I'm 27 years old!!
She always asks me exactly the same questions - have I got my essays back (not that there are any due back), are the locals friendly (I've now lived up here for 4 years), etc etc. And worse still she keeps nagging me about whether I'm going back down south to live, knowing full well that I bought a house up here 2 years ago, and when I'm coming to visit, although I try and get down to see her at least every month

I know she's old and I try to be tolerant - I do love her to bits, but she's driving me nuts! Any suggestions?!

2007-03-19 07:49:05 · 17 answers · asked by G*I*M*P 5 in Family

My wedding is in May 2007..Just wondering becuase some people think i am ordering things to early..

2007-03-19 07:48:53 · 4 answers · asked by heyyou 1 in Weddings

I am curious if any of you have dated a much younger man and if so, how long did it last? I am 55 but have very youthful genes and have been told I look early 40's. I am just curious about what might happen after my youthful genes aren't working for me anymore? PS: I still have my period so I am thinking that is one of the reasons why I look so young not to mention that I excercise daily and eat right.

2007-03-19 07:48:51 · 18 answers · asked by Momma K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

more commone among white folks than other ethnic groups ?

2007-03-19 07:48:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 07:48:28 · 3 answers · asked by soroush_1363_ss 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

MY MOYHER HAS A FRIEND ABOUT 77 YRS. OF AGE. SHE LOST HER HUSBAND JULY 2006.
HER SON IS TRYING TO CONTROL ALL OF HER ASSETS THROUGH A LAWYER. HE HAS GOTTEN AWAY WITH SOME OF IT. IN SO MANY WORDS..... HE HAS IT AS IF SHE CAN'T MAKE ANY DECISIONS FOR HERSELF OR ANYTHING, WHEN IN FACT SHE CAN. WHAT SHOULD SHE DO?

2007-03-19 07:48:18 · 32 answers · asked by KWILLIAMS 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering where you put your wedding registry at..

2007-03-19 07:47:44 · 21 answers · asked by heyyou 1 in Weddings

Ok I met this girl at this store, she works there, shes cute and she would kinda smile at me and I would kinda smile back and so on until we came to talking (She talked to me first) She told me that her birthday just passed so I sent her some flowers with a ? on them so they wouldn't know who they were from and I guess she liked them. Then one day we ran into her at a club and got to know each other for about an hour. When we left she said thank you for the flowers (she found out some how). and I told her to come to my family's restaurant sometime. Well she did one day before she went to work, and then also the next day as well but I wasn't there, but she text me asking what I was doing and I found out that she was there again.

The question I guess I have is would you go visit a guy (at his work, 2 days in a row) that you barely knew if you weren't interested in him? (Would you do that if you only wanted to be friends?)

2007-03-19 07:47:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You know people give those little candies or ribbons for a wedding keepsake? Well, I'm thinking of having our picture put on refrigerator magnets. Can anyone advise me where to go for this kind of thng?I'm clueless and I only have a month to get it done! Thanks!

2007-03-19 07:47:09 · 10 answers · asked by Reenie: Mom of Marine 6 in Weddings

I'm wondering if when couples decide to have children, they think about what will happen if they split and step parents come into the picture.

I am really not liked by the biological Mom. But partly, my attitude is - well - I wouldn't be around if you hadn't left your kid's Dad when she was only one year old (I came into the picture a year later).

Are you a parent who has a step parent in your child's life who you don't care for - and don't want around your children? If so - did you ever consider that this scenario could happen before you split - and how much baring did it have on your decision?

2007-03-19 07:46:42 · 1 answers · asked by liddabet 6 in Family

He's my brother, I've tried zabasearch and a yahoo profile search, I've tried searching on myspace and classmates... I've tried everything I can think of.

2007-03-19 07:46:26 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i cant really dance, how can i learn to dance fast without taking a class, is there an easy way to move without being oto complicated

2007-03-19 07:46:20 · 12 answers · asked by dts 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is in high school and she has a bf in college.they have been dating,off and on,for 3.5 years now. and she claims they used to have a really good realtionship.but now he emotionally abuses her and it kills me.and hes not afraid to grab her.he tells her who she can hang out with and stuff.she claims shes in love with him but I dont think she is.she just trys to avoid the subject. shes not a fool like this story makes her sound, shes well known, sweet,pretty and gets really good grades.when i talked to her today she showed me that she is engaged.shes probubly going to end up saying yes.maybe its all she knows but i no of so many guys who would date her and be good to her.she deserves a lot better. I tell her that and she just sticks with him.i dont want her to get mad at me. please i dont know how to help her.i love her to death.i dont know if i should just be there for her.or stop her.. real advice.

2007-03-19 07:46:19 · 15 answers · asked by ryanssdfisufd 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I met this girl at this store, she works there, shes cute and she would kinda smile at me and I would kinda smile back and so on until we came to talking (She talked to me first) She told me that her birthday just passed so I sent her some flowers with a ? on them so they wouldn't know who they were from and I guess she liked them. Then one day we ran into her at a club and got to know each other for about an hour. When we left she said thank you for the flowers (she found out some how). and I told her to come to my family's restaurant sometime. Well she did one day before she went to work, and then also the next day as well but I wasn't there, but she text me asking what I was doing and I found out that she was there again.

The question I guess I have is would you go visit a guy (at his work, 2 days in a row) that you barely knew if you weren't interested in him? (Would you do that if you only wanted to be friends?)

2007-03-19 07:46:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf for longer than 3 months now. and we r perfect together but when we r in the hall and he passes me, sometimes he tends to not talk to me.like not look at me or tap me on the shoulder sometimes. but im thinking maybe hes just nervous cuz he DOES like me alot, and sometimes he is busy talking w/ his friends.and we will b walkin to the buses and sometimes he just gets on his bus w/o saying bye but...im just wondering,, why do guys do that??

2007-03-19 07:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Singles & Dating

Who has a smoothie

2007-03-19 07:45:48 · 3 answers · asked by david s 2 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy i know we both like each other a lot...but its weird when i talk to him on the phone all the time...i get tired but still i wants to talk to him...but if he doesnt call me or reply for my text..i miss him and waited for him to call me!!

actually this is whats wrong with me ever since..if a guy show too must attention to me....i do get bored!!!

but if a guy being so challeging...trust me a fall fast!!

do you guys feel this way??

i think this is whats wrong with...thats why i'm always falling in a wrong relationship all the time...

what should i do?? i need advise..thanks

2007-03-19 07:45:16 · 2 answers · asked by tyrha69 1 in Singles & Dating

He took the photos before i came on the scene. I didn't know about them until after we were married. I know he has shown them to some of our mutual acquaintances. I have not seen the photos, but she admitted that they were very explicit. I try to act like it doesn't matter, but I know other guys are laughing at me behind my back.

2007-03-19 07:45:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just had an email experience through yahoo answers. it was my fault b/c one of the answerers of a quesion i posted said that she was a model. so of course im wondering why a model is on yahoo answers, hell with that why is a supermodel emailing me back. the girl went on to say that she was caroline trentini, who is a brazilian supermodel. facts in our email conversation showed that this girl had to be making this up. what'd you all think of that? are people just looking to act like someone else over the net. what's wrong with telling someone who you really are?

2007-03-19 07:44:40 · 3 answers · asked by maximus 2 in Singles & Dating

Please only answer if your a teen, 20, or about to be one within two years.

2007-03-19 07:44:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

All I did was ask what he did the night before since I didnt see him and he has no problem answering but he says its not normal for me to think things when I didnt hear from him all night and I shouldnt expect him just to say, " hey babe Im not coming over tonight b/c im doing this...". Dont u think it would be just as easy for him to tell me with out me always having to ask? I know this seems small but we keep arguing about it. Especially he said that me may come over to see me instead of going out then I hear nothing.

2007-03-19 07:43:23 · 10 answers · asked by bnelly05 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for almost nine monthes and he said about one year but is that long enough?

2007-03-19 07:42:21 · 34 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Weddings

2007-03-19 07:42:15 · 38 answers · asked by HRcutie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok heres the deal.... my girl says I never plan anything, and I said of course I do. So I have planned on us to hang out tonite and told her it would be something cool but of course i didnt plan anything, I dont have much cash on me to do anything, and we always go to movies or out to diner, we are both over 21 but we do that a lot also, so basically any suggestions so she doesnt think im worthles

2007-03-19 07:41:57 · 4 answers · asked by smalltd28 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it rude to enter the number of people invited to a wedding on an RSVP instead of the guest filling in this part themselves?

2007-03-19 07:41:57 · 19 answers · asked by soon2bmrs 2 in Weddings

i am bored so i thot i would ask a random question.

2007-03-19 07:41:53 · 22 answers · asked by milk_and_oreo_4life 1 in Singles & Dating

cheating is sleeping with another person, and it could be some vidioes and chatrooms because it is not the person you are dating and love, i mean when you do something like that you take part of yourself away that should be with your wife or husband, am i wrong for not letting my bf not watch sertin vidies and going into some chatrooms and looking at magazeies?

2007-03-19 07:41:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating