Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

My friend is mad @ me because this boy that she likes alot doenst like her but me and him are friends. Close friends. And she think i like him but she wont believe me when i say i dont have feelings for the boy. He and I have talked about it and he knos i dont like him but she refueses to listen to both of us. So im ready to give up on mine and hers friendship becase wat is a friend if you cant trust. Ive known her for a year now. She's meet my family. Ive meet hers. We've lived together. I love this gurl like a sister but i wont stand for her calling me a lier...what should i do?

2007-03-19 07:58:47 · 11 answers · asked by Ronnie 1 in Friends

Wondering what kinds of things are apporaite for our gift registry..

2007-03-19 07:58:31 · 20 answers · asked by heyyou 1 in Weddings

Its really fun to do romantic stuff (i personally like it), what have been the most romantic? the mos dumb things? the cutest? the best? the funniest? and the lamest things you have done?

2007-03-19 07:58:06 · 2 answers · asked by Teti 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a man see's you in a club, bar, etc and asks for sex, all polite like, would you be flattered by his interest or insulted by his forthrightness?

2007-03-19 07:57:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend is also my ex fiance... he can tell me anything and i answer it unbiased... even about his recent ex's.

i know he's a really jealous guy and i have a bf and he knows that and has even spoke with him a few times and they get along.

when my bf and i are having hard times i want to tell my ex because we can talk about anything but sometimes i'm afraid to because i don't want him to become jealous and get set off like he has before.

should i trust that he can talk to me unbiasedly about my bf without getting jealous or should i avoid current bf talk with him??

2007-03-19 07:57:33 · 5 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Friends

My best friend is in high school and she has a bf in college.they have been dating,off and on,for 3.5 years now. and she claims they used to have a really good realtionship.but now he emotionally abuses her and it kills me.and hes not afraid to grab her.he tells her who she can hang out with and stuff.she claims shes in love with him but I dont think she is.she just trys to avoid the subject. shes not a fool like this story makes her sound, shes well known, sweet,pretty and gets really good grades.when i talked to her today she showed me that she is engaged.shes probubly going to end up saying yes.maybe its all she knows but i no of so many guys who would date her and be good to her.she deserves a lot better. I tell her that and she just sticks with him.i dont want her to get mad at me. please i dont know how to help her.i love her to death.i dont know if i should just be there for her.or stop her.. real advice.

2007-03-19 07:57:13 · 24 answers · asked by ryanssdfisufd 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are mad at me for the stupidest thing - taking a bus. They say I've 'spiraled out of control and that they need to reign me in before I get really bad'. I don't understand this response, because I've never done anything bad before in my life! I'm so confused.... so please, parents, tell me what I did wrong, and tell me how to make things better.

2007-03-19 07:56:56 · 6 answers · asked by shanabanana922 2 in Family

Women call me an egg-head,Mr. Wizard, etc. What is your advice to change my luck? (I Don't seem to relate to the average woman..........this is frustrating!) HELP!!!!!

2007-03-19 07:56:49 · 22 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Singles & Dating

what should she do but when he was out he did not pay any child support at all he only write her when he is in jail what she should she do and he also dont believe in god another chance or what.

2007-03-19 07:56:39 · 5 answers · asked by thunder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl who is 18 and is from England. She is there now. We became pretty good friends. I will see her in the summer in Italy. What do I do to allow us to talk after the summer because I dont think I will see her for a long time after the summer. Can you tell me some things that I should know about England and its people, especiallly the 18 year old girls. I am not saying that English people are different it is just I that I want to know whats popular there, what you guys do for fun. Things like that. Someone said people are different in different areas. I think she lives close to London I think I remember the name Ashbury or something like that was near her. I am just rying to get an idea of life there so I can understand things a little more.

2007-03-19 07:56:30 · 4 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

My exes liked this.

2007-03-19 07:55:40 · 10 answers · asked by lavender 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been slowly getting involved with a guy I've known for a while. I'm not sure if things will get serious or not, so I'm just going along with whatever happens.
Things seem pretty good because we've both seen the best and worst sides of each other before now, and have similar problems. He seems seriously interested in me, but I've had relationship problems before and now have trouble trusting people.
I'd like to just forget the past and enjoy wherever things take us as we go along, but am unsure of his intentions. Am I worrying needlessly?

2007-03-19 07:55:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Power and what?

2007-03-19 07:54:40 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie K 1 in Singles & Dating

i was sleeping with this guy for a while.. but ended it cuz i saw no prospects of a serious relationship... but he and i still talked an he was still flirting with me and making suggestions, but i wouldn't give in... so finally he laid off the flirting! any way, it was my birthday and he bought me a cake and gave me a huge kiss.... does this mean he may be interested in me???

2007-03-19 07:54:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My my how the time flies. I'm 27 and will be 28 in late November. Basically the biggest thing that is about to happen to me is that I'll be turning 30. Uggh. I feel that 30 is so old and that when people think of me I'll be considered as that older lady. Is 30 as old as I feel. It seems that in the entertainment business that once you're past thirty you are not seen as beautiful anymore and your careers over. I'm not in entertainment but that industry does set the standard for how we think, right? So basically Am I old?

2007-03-19 07:53:58 · 9 answers · asked by veronica r 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for about three and a half years. we have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. we have talked about marriage many times, then all of a sudden he says no more of it. he has told me that he has put a down payment on a ring and looked and did all of this. this was 7 months ago. now when i bring it up he kind of shys away from it. when he brings it up however, he says that he wants to and what not. why am i getting mixed signals? is he just leading me on? will we ever actually tie the knot? please help me!

2007-03-19 07:53:46 · 23 answers · asked by glitterglam369 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 07:53:26 · 10 answers · asked by Clive O 1 in Singles & Dating

we are having our wedding outside this summer. i would like to have some kind of music to walk down the aisle to. I don't have any ideas since the d.j. will be at another location for the reception. there is also no sound system close by. if you have any suggestions please send them my way.

2007-03-19 07:52:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

if u read my posts, i have a girl that id like to date. shes 34 with a kid. if the air gets cleared up and we go back to being friends, how can i tell my parents if something is there.

2007-03-19 07:52:52 · 3 answers · asked by Angry Dragon! 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know where to get the cheapest ENVELOPES to mail out save-the-date magents (3.5" by 2")? I think I need either 3.5" x 5" envelopes or 3 5/8" x 5 1/8" sized envelopes and wanted to know where I can buy them real cheap. Thanks.

2007-03-19 07:52:42 · 5 answers · asked by Princess K 2 in Weddings

A few years ago I met a nice guy, Sam, while dating another. Sam has been anxiously waiting for me to break up with "other" guy. I finally have, and Sam wants us to be a couple. I love hanging around Sam and going out with him, but I do not feel that "zing" of romance when I'm with him. I like him, think he's smart and capable of being a great boyfriend, but I just don't feel anything romantic for him. I'm trying, but it isn't happening. He gets mad when I try to date other guys because he feels I ought to be his. He feels that God brought us together.

I'm not sure whether to trust my feelings or not. I've been wrong in the past. Should I continue with Sam, hoping that those romantic feelings grow? Right now, I cannot even think about holding his hand, let alone anything more. We are both middle aged. I ought to grab this chance at romance, but the thought of being intimate with him just makes me cringe. Help!

2007-03-19 07:52:29 · 4 answers · asked by Kitten Hood 5 in Singles & Dating

My my how the time flies. I'm 27 and will be 28 in late November. Basically the biggest thing that is about to happen to me is that I'll be turning 30. Uggh. I feel that 30 is so old and that when people think of me I'll be considered as that older lady. Is 30 as old as I feel. It seems that in the entertainment business that once you're past thirty you are not seen as beautiful anymore and your careers older. I'm not in entertainment but that industry does set the standard for how we think, right? So basically Am I old.

2007-03-19 07:52:29 · 12 answers · asked by veronica r 3 in Singles & Dating

i have this guy who i am in love with so much.. and we went out.. but then my parents found out and they threatend me with military school if i didnt break up with him.. so i broke up with him then we went back out.... my parents havent found out yet but today i told him that we couldnt because teachers were catching on.. and they would tell my parents... how can i tell him that i love him without going out, getting caught and getting sent away???

2007-03-19 07:51:56 · 13 answers · asked by Maddz 1 in Singles & Dating

my sorta friend(not rlly close friend) suddenly gets all these new clothes and hair styles and i notice that shes looking me upp and down i can see her out of the corner of my eye... shes looking at me thighs and then to hers then mine....shes judgeing me and stuffs

2007-03-19 07:51:43 · 12 answers · asked by Kristen M 1 in Friends

anything is helpful. i can't ask him out yet because i need him to want ME first. how do i get him to fall for me?

2007-03-19 07:51:38 · 13 answers · asked by geniveve 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 07:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by trackstar 2 in Singles & Dating

i am close to dating this girl. but i think my bro has feelings for her. i talked to her and asked, she said she doesnt really have feelings for him like she has for me. should i go on despite his feelings?

2007-03-19 07:51:03 · 6 answers · asked by Angry Dragon! 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my BF have been toghether on and off for almost 9 years since High school...he blew it once in 05 and I forgave him, and well he did it again now...he lost it...insulted me, was drunk, upset and I begged him to wait till he was sober. He's repeatedly accused me of cheating...
I just don't think love is enough anymore...
Anybody with this experience? I just can't deal with this again...
He says he's sorry...it's just not good enough anymore...

2007-03-19 07:50:22 · 19 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Singles & Dating

And NO ladies by needs I'm not refereeing to coitus. I'm talking about my need for curry. She hates it, says it smells like body odor and athlete's foot. How can my wife be my soulmate if she hates curry so much?

There is this woman at work that loves curry, I think she would be the perfect match for me. We have good chemistry and we smell the same too.

2007-03-19 07:49:56 · 19 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for a long time. Here lately we are fighting allot and I feel that he puts everyone else in front of me. I work 2 jobs due to him having an accident. I am tired allot and when I am home he tends to be on the computer. I feel like we are growing apart and reading and answering some of these questions has made me realize that I have some serous issues to deal with at home. He asks me what he can do to get me out of my funk but what he does'nt seem to care about is that he is the cause of my funk. I want to work it out but it seems that it only lasts for a little bit and then back to the same ol same ol. I love him and I know that he loves me could it be that we are both comfortable after 10 years or what. Just want some outside opinions. Thanks...

2007-03-19 07:49:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating