Most of the time I meet a woman, I get rejected. I think it's because of my high I.Q.?

Question

Women call me an egg-head,Mr. Wizard, etc. What is your advice to change my luck? (I Don't seem to relate to the average woman..........this is frustrating!) HELP!!!!!

Answer 1

i really don't think that your brain capacity has anything to do with it!

Answer 2

It's not because you are smart, it's because you perceive yourself as being smarter than average and it shows in how you talk to people. Intelligence is a good thing, but nobody wants to be around someone that thinks you are an idiot. Tone it down a bit. No need to answer every question and use the biggest words in the dictionary. Plenty of people have high IQ's and they get along in society just fine because they know life isn't a competition to prove you are the smartest. They just enjoy being around people. Life isn't about knowing everything all the time. You sound a bit full of yourself. Sit back and think about what you are doing when they call you Mr. Wizard and egg head stop doing that.
When you say you don't relate to the average woman, that sounds very demeaning to me. If that's how you really feel, then that's probably what you are projecting to us average women. Maybe we're not all geniuses, but that doesn't make us stupid either.

Answer 3

How long do they know you before they call you Mr. Wizard? In addition, how far into the conversation before IQ comes up? You could be torpedoing yourself by saying something like, "I have a genius IQ!" Women don't want to hear that, even if you meet them at Mensa.

Okay, here's what to do. Think about the typical opening conversation you have with women you have just met. Better yet, write it down just in case you distract yourself with tangents. This might help you figure out what you are saying to turn them off. Do you use esoteric quotes from ancient philosophers no one has heard of? Do you treat your opinion as fact, and belittle those who disagree as "moronic twits" and the like? If so, then do NOT do this.

Take yourself down a notch. Don't try and dazzle them with your supposed brilliance as you'll just alienate them. Try being humble. Add a little self-deprecation. Try and include HER in the conversation.

I have been blessed with an IQ over the 99.93rd percentile. I knew this from age 14 onward, and it made me an arrogant little snot until I figured out that this was turning people off. I had a high IQ, but not a lot of common sense. You may have figured out that some of the examples I cited above (about what NOT to do) were gleaned from my own experiences 25-odd years ago. They still hold true.

To be blunt, try not to be so full of yourself when you meet new people. Wind it down a notch. You don't need to impress them, as most people look for the "content of your character", not your IQ. Think of this... how many of your friends think, "Y'know, I hang out with him because he's just brilliant!" on any kind of basis? Probably very few.

Answer 4

Well, do you want to attract the average woman, or find someone who's going to like you the way you are.
This is how you find out: Do you like yourself? If you do, then be patient, but persistent. Be confident and the rest will fall into place.
If you think you're a slouch, start working out, get contacts, get a new haircut, a new job, a new wardrobe (have any female besides ones you're related too take you shopping). Get up to date.

Most of all, be yourself, but that doesn't mean that your actual self doesn't need a little style update every once in a while.

Go get'em tiger.

Answer 5

Surround yourself with more intellectual people. From friends comes lovers, etc. And today being an Egg-headed-Mr. Wizard type takes the cake. I can't think of one woman out there who wants a mentally impaired ditch digger. In 20 years egg-heads will completely rule the world (like they don't today, yeah right).. (Even the bible says so-the meek shall inherit the earth...) We are meek yet we are wealthy...

Answer 6

I wouldn't call you Mr. Wizard, I would call you conceited. Change your attitude; it's not all about you. You'll find the right woman at the right time. Don't rush into things. I hope this helps.

nicole

Answer 7

Trust me when I say real women like smart guys. It's totally okay to be an egg-head or Mr. Wizard...... just try not to look like one and you should be okay.

Answer 8

Seriously, all of my friends in high school were like you and they are were short, had bad acne, and dressed like 11-year-old. You might need to alter your style a bit to be taken more seriously. Also, find girls that are as smart and intellectual as you are. They do exist, but they usually aren't out there flashing their boobs and prancing around with their fottball player boyfriends. Keep looking and good luck

Answer 9

Probably not yoour IQ but the way you use your IQ can be a turn off real quick. If your that smart then you ought to know when to shut your mouth and just go with the flow and see what happens.

Answer 10

Being smart in an of itself is never a turn-off. showing off, being conceited etc is. When you meet a woman, obviously you want her to know you are at least of average intelligence, but you also want to know about her. Take your time. And as the relationship grows, allow more of your natural genius to be revealed and she, in turn, will reveal more of her qualities to you.
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Answer 11

Well, look for the above average girl. Not all girls appreciate high IQ's, just like all men don't appreciate girls with high IQ's. Remember, there is a lot of diversity in the world. Just because some girls don't like you, doesn't mean all girls don't like you. Also, remember that you're ultimately trying to attract one girl, that's it.