I have been with my boyfriend for a long time. Here lately we are fighting allot and I feel that he puts everyone else in front of me. I work 2 jobs due to him having an accident. I am tired allot and when I am home he tends to be on the computer. I feel like we are growing apart and reading and answering some of these questions has made me realize that I have some serous issues to deal with at home. He asks me what he can do to get me out of my funk but what he does'nt seem to care about is that he is the cause of my funk. I want to work it out but it seems that it only lasts for a little bit and then back to the same ol same ol. I love him and I know that he loves me could it be that we are both comfortable after 10 years or what. Just want some outside opinions. Thanks...
2007-03-19 07:49:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should talk to him about having one night a week that is just for the two of you. I think after 10 years both people get comfortable. Just let him know that you love him, but you need some effort from him to help keep things interesting.
2007-03-19 07:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by cutie322434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes we just get too comfortable with each other. Tell him that he is part of the funk you are in and that you both need to get back to quality time together. Instead of being on the computer when you get home, why not have a nice dinner ready, or a movie all set up for you two to watch together. It takes two to keep things going and not get stagnant. Good Luck
2007-03-19 14:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY love him, you better sit him down & have a talk now before you resent him too much to want to work it out. (does that make sense??) If you guys really love each other, then being honest with him isn't going to hurt anything. Tell him how you feel!!! Even people in the best of relationships go through "slumps". But you gotta work through it and fix it. If working 2 jobs & getting no attention is driving you crazy (and it would me), then draw the line. Make it clear that you cannot & will not do it anymore. Just talk to him. Maybe he doesn't really know that he's the cause.
Good luck.
2007-03-19 15:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sam F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋