my sorta friend(not rlly close friend) suddenly gets all these new clothes and hair styles and i notice that shes looking me upp and down i can see her out of the corner of my eye... shes looking at me thighs and then to hers then mine....shes judgeing me and stuffs
2007-03-19 07:51:43 · 12 answers · asked by Kristen M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't let other people's insecurities about themselves bother you - obviously she cares a great deal about her appearance - which she can do - it's not wrong to want to look good, but it IS wrong to judge yourself and others by comparing - we all need to be ourselves - whatever and whomever that may be! In other words, don't let her lack of manners and tackiness get YOU all bothered - I would suggest you not consider her a friend in any sense of the word - she is on a "ME ME ME" trip.
2007-03-19 08:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here seems to be your friend's bad behavior. Simply ask her why does she look you up and down like that. But I should warn you, her answer will likely hurt your feelings. If I were you, I'd be a bit meaner and say "stop looking me up and down like you're better than me. it wasn't too long ago when you didn't have all that new stuff". In either case, remember, it's your friend with the problem, not you. And if this is how your friend behaves toward you, maybe she's not the friend you thought.
2007-03-19 14:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, good news, if she's not really close to you, blow her off and do your own thing. Who needs a friend who's going to judge you for something they have and you don't? That's grade school stuff. She'll find out later that "she's not all that and a bag of chips" someone will end up pointing that out to her. I honestly would ignore her and if you can't; keep her at arm's length. Good luck!
2007-03-19 14:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's in competition with you which might explain the new clothes and hair styles. You might have to just ignore what she's doing. If it really bothers you that much, you can try and say something to her.
2007-03-19 14:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by ljoc421 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're the kind of girl who gets alot of attention, i would think that she's just trying to be better and steal your spotlight. By comparing herself to you, she's just trying to evaluate what the next step she needs to do in order to outlook you. She's jealous.
2007-03-19 14:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by browneyesoxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She PRoBAblY LIke yOu. If u fe3l Uncomfortable Just gO Up To HEr And JUst TEll her aBouT It.
2007-03-19 14:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by chilingurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it unless she says something or just give her a look that says: WHat are you looking at?
2007-03-19 14:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by puffalump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a friend to me. close are not friends don't do that.
2007-03-19 14:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to her! That's the only way to know for sure.
2007-03-19 14:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A question would be nice. .. I fail to see the problem.
2007-03-19 14:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by ninja_reqiem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋