if a man see's you in a club, bar, etc and asks for sex, all polite like, would you be flattered by his interest or insulted by his forthrightness?
2007-03-19 07:57:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither. I would say no because I am not looking for sex, but if that's what he's looking for, I suppose I would APPRECIATE him for being honest but I would in no way be flattered by it.
2007-03-19 08:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is all well and good. In fact it is to be admired. But in this case all he is honestly saying is that he views women as an object to fulfill a desire, he has no interest in cultivating a relationship, and could care less of her interests or for that matter anything about her. Honesty is good. What you are honest about can be either good or bad. So I wouldn't be flattered by his interest (aka. lack of interest in me as a person) or insulted by his forthrightness. I would be insulted about what he was being forthright about.
2007-03-19 08:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by stormclouds18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the guy.
If he is 'not my type' then I would just laugh.
But if he was 'my type' then I would appreciate his forthrightness but would suggest he sit down and try talking to me before I absolutely made up my mind to accept his offer.
Research shows women make up their mind in a percentage of second whether they fancy you or not so why not just be honest?
2007-03-19 08:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be flattered for their honesty and interest, however, I'd have to decline. There ARE some people out there who believe in casual sex- not me tho!
2007-03-19 08:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by kellilicious5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always good...but I wouldn't be flattered by such a question.
2007-03-19 08:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would depend on who the guy is and how he said it to me. I think I would be flattered more than insulted, however I'm not into casual sex.
2007-03-19 08:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insulted!
2007-03-19 08:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind the fact that he was forthright. I would mind the fact that he expected me to say yes to a question like that. I would just throw my drink on his pants and walk away.
2007-03-19 08:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flattered, as I am a wife and mum of 3 kids. I'd have to let him down of course!
Also, in my case, he'd probably be asking me to win a bet!
2007-03-19 08:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr M you should know by now the Lady is a rule unto herself, I say you would get a slap in the face nine out of ten times. Hope your face can take it
2007-03-19 08:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋