i have this guy who i am in love with so much.. and we went out.. but then my parents found out and they threatend me with military school if i didnt break up with him.. so i broke up with him then we went back out.... my parents havent found out yet but today i told him that we couldnt because teachers were catching on.. and they would tell my parents... how can i tell him that i love him without going out, getting caught and getting sent away???
2007-03-19 07:51:56 · 13 answers · asked by Maddz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to question yourself, do you like him because of being rebellious to your parents or do you really like him?
2007-03-19 07:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently there is a reason your parents do not want you around this person. I know some parents are over protective, but if the Teachers are involved, with watching over you then it must be a bad situation for you to be with this person. I would find someone a bit more suited toward you. I do not know the other person, or you, but with the information you give, it seams there are too many people watching out for your well-being to dismiss it as overbearing parents.
2007-03-19 15:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way out is up. u quite simpoly, and very rellovently, have 2 dig urselfs out. btw, u mite b wundrin' if thear is differnt derections 2 dig. well i am very exttrEMOLY sorry 2 b da 1 2 b da barer of bad newz, but teh anser is thear most serttonly is NOT!!! U MUST DIHG UP!!!! UP I SAY, UP UP IN2 DA LITE!!!!
sorry i got side trccked. 2 properrly anser ur questchin cculd take a book. MABEY EVEN 2 BOOKX!!!! GEEEEEEEEEET IT!!!! LOOOOOOOOOOL!!!! LMAAAAAAAAAO!!!! ROOOOOOFL!!!!!!
sorry i got side trreacked aggen. u must tell ur parents ur name is Slootcratt. they will instontaneeusly undorstand that u r a BRITTANY. once this is takin care of evarything will b in order. uwill b sighing a LOT, 2 b sure. but that is ok, that is the prise u pay.
Source(s):
i hope dis helpz, if it doesnt please email me at [ NO ADDRESS BCUZ I DONT HAVE A EMAKLE ADDRESS SORRY THEAR IS NO WAY 2 CONTACKT ME ]. i do actually have an emale adress and i have no idea why i neded 2 incluude that tag. it was pritty pointeles 2 do that.
2007-03-19 14:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forbidden love is always more fun than anything else. If he's any sort of a gentleman, he will respect that you cannot go out with him. You both are too young to be messing with each other. Find someone your parents approve of. They aren't being mean. They know good guys from bad guys. Tell this guy you cannot see him and leave him alone.
2007-03-19 14:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really depends on age. If your at or over the age of 18 you legally are an adult so this whole thing doesnt mater. If your are younger then 18 it gets more complicated. If you love this guy talk to your parents and find out why they don't want you dating and express your feelings for him. Try to get thier perspective while sharing yours. Show that you are mature.
2007-03-19 14:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by ninja_reqiem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must either not be telling us something or else you have psychotic parents and go to a psychotic school (what kind of teachers tattle on students when they are having relationships?). I think that you need to address those problems first before the boyfriend thing
2007-03-19 14:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one...
maybe you two should set desinated times and places to meet outside of school.
come up with a routine alaby for you parents.
pick times and places that would be easy for you parents to understand.
if you have a problem talking to him on the phone, maybe you should consider getting a cell phone (like Cingular's GoPhone) that will allow you to have free nights and weekends with no bill so your parents can't check who you're talking to.
Save his number in your phone as a school, business, or something like that so if they see it, they wont be tempted to call or anything.
2007-03-19 14:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by pooh_bloody_fem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you either have to keep him in your life but suffer the consequences or do what you're told. Have your parents explained why it is so bad that you are with him. Is it possible that you and your parents can come to some sort of compromise?
2007-03-19 14:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by ljoc421 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Tell him you love him. He is probably already aware of the situation, right? If not, then begin by filling him in on everything you have been going through in order to be with him. (Can't this be done on the phone? That would eliminate the need to sneak around...)
2007-03-19 14:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you need to find out why your parents are trying so hard for you not to see this guy... it might be for your own safety or something like that.. and you need to let the guy know whats up.. you should try to take things slow at first and talk to your parents.. let them get to know him better.. and show them that you are responsible enough to date him..
2007-03-19 14:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur young. it will pass. dont worryabout this one. the important thing is not getting sent off to military school. just wait til ur parents allow u to date and then go from there
2007-03-19 14:56:15 · answer #11 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋