I have been with my bf for longer than 3 months now. and we r perfect together but when we r in the hall and he passes me, sometimes he tends to not talk to me.like not look at me or tap me on the shoulder sometimes. but im thinking maybe hes just nervous cuz he DOES like me alot, and sometimes he is busy talking w/ his friends.and we will b walkin to the buses and sometimes he just gets on his bus w/o saying bye but...im just wondering,, why do guys do that??
2007-03-19 07:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like you 2 are young.
He's probably changing his mind about this relationship.
He's probably too shy.
He's probably embarrassed to be seen with you?
Man, it can honestly be a number of things...
Just let him know how you feel... that it hurts when he doesn't acknowledge your existence.
2007-03-19 07:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several possible reasons, all of them are him and not you. It could be that he doesn't want to advertise in school that he is dating you. He might be afraid of being teased or have insecurities that you aren't aware of. He might be uncomfortable with public displays of affection. If he has any inclination of the first reason, he would be even more averse to public displays of affection. Men also have the ability to compartmentalize their mind. Some of them can do so to a great degree. By that I mean when they are occupied with one thing, they are able to not focus on something else. For example, when relationship is on the mind, it will be thing foremost in our mind. Thoughts and feelings relate back to it. Men can sometimes set it aside entirely and divide their train of thought so it is totally outside of what occupies their mind at the moment. So it may be that when he's in school, he's in the "school" mode and not "relationship" mode. Although it may sound and feel hurtful, his "school" mode doesn't include you in it, yet. Some guys really have different modes and it reflects their compartmentalized thinking. All this is supposition, though. There's only one person that can tell you what you want to know.
You should talk to him in a private moment when he's relaxed and comfortable with talking. Tell him that you've noticed how he behaves and ask him why he's that way. Do it without accusations or making him feel guilty. Just let him explore his own behavior without your judgments or prejudices. Listen to what he says first and try to understand him.
2007-03-19 14:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys do it because they are just scared! If he's not been in a real relationship before, he's not going to know what to do, So just let him get used to the idea of having a g/f. Don't worry all guys do it. We will never understand the properly and they will never understand us! Just the way of life!! Hope this helps.
2007-03-19 14:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by xStacex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he trying to keep it low profile and nt attract too much attention, to save up the embrassment of been tease or comments. But you need to see if he is normal and not like that when you guys are alone together or not.
2007-03-19 14:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes we give guys too much credit in the thought process department. They don't think the same way we do, no hidden agenda there so don't worry so much. He's just lost in his own little world. zoom zoom
2007-03-19 14:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometmes i think that guys might be embarressed of there girlfriends. maybe thats the issue.idk sry i dont think im much of a help
2007-03-19 14:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by basketball24/7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha maybe he's a lil bit shy...and some guys do this kind of avoiding thing even if they love you truly...that's their style...dont worry...u can start sayin hi n bye...then he'll start responding back..good luck
2007-03-19 14:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by >>>♥<<< 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋