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When if ever is it okay for a man to seek the company of a prostitute? If safe sex is practiced? I'm not asking about the legality of it, more the societal perception.

I'm single and have not had a sexual relationship for over 3 yrs. I recently met a lady who is in her mid 30s and has three kids. Somehow we got on the subject of sex and she is way, way out there sexually. She said she works on the side with a select few men doing dates. She claims she loves sex and does not consider it work at all and actually enjoys it very much. She stated she only picks guys she is attracted to and has sexual compatibility with. Anyhow, she offered and I'm tempted. But technically this is prostitution, something I've never done or even thought of. I am tempted, I admit. Is this completely wrong, is it ever okay to do this?

2007-03-19 07:49:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

Um. I think it is only considered prostitution if you pay her. If the whore is giving it up for free then what the hell. Go for it. 3 years is a long time.

2007-03-19 07:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 0 0

Cramer, prostitution comes in many forms. The majority of us prostitute ourselves all the time. What is the intrinsic difference between outright paying for the sexual services of an expert and the gradual sexual lay-away plan we practice by paying for dinners, movies, flowers or candy until 'they' give it up? Don't feel remorse, guilt or any other negative emotion for paying for sex. The services these women (and men) provide are essential to the well-being of people, who for one reason or another cannot get sex on a regular basis and in a more socially conventional way!
Got Money? Need Kitty? Go for it!!!

2007-03-19 15:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

A random sexual encounter is not prostitution. It is relatively common depending upon who you speak to. Prostitution involves paying for the sexual encounter, which has an entirely different societal connotation. What you seem to be describing may be looked down upon by some, but in the end, it is up to you, not society, to decide the best course of action for you.

2007-03-19 14:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by wedantil 2 · 0 0

So I only assume you are paying her right? Well you are single, I think you have the right to do really whatever you wish, I personally don't like the idea of paying for sex because I really think there are a lot of people out there willing to give it up for free. However, I wouldn't judge someone if they really want to do so. I don't think society views it as wrong, but I would say some people might think it's really taboo or dirty. Just make sure if you do end up doing it...that it's safe sex, and make sure you won't regret your decision.

2007-03-19 15:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 0 0

I dont know if it is OK or not.Who am I to judge.I personally would not pay for it.At all.But I think if it is something that you feel is worth it.Then go for it,and who cares what other people think.

2007-03-19 15:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 0 0

your bedroom your business. socially prostitution will never be considered ok because of the psyco christians and right wing idiots who think your life is their business. do what makes you happy, thats in the consitution, "pursuit of hapiness" be happy bro.

2007-03-19 14:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 0 0

In God's word declare that
'"You shall not commit adultery" Matthew 5:27
God loves you.

2007-03-19 14:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Hom 1 · 0 0

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