Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

As I write this, a woman is getting domestically abused for the first time in a relationship, the man in anger hits her or says something vicious. After showing this side of himself, he will apologize, maybe even cry and say, "I promise it won't happen again." He makes excuses: he had a bad day at work, etc. What percentage of women believe these crocodile tears and give them another chance. I think at least 95% of women stay.

2007-03-16 03:32:29 · 15 answers · asked by zees world 1 in Singles & Dating

She is really cute and fine also.
I had agreed to meet her at her place but then I changed my
mind because I have a girlfriend. Somehow my girlfriend
found out that I agree to meet this woman and she broke up with me. It makes no sense to me that I should be in trouble
since I didn't actually meet with the woman. I didn't get the
sex. Shouldn't it matter that I didn't actually do
anything?

2007-03-16 03:32:25 · 14 answers · asked by David 1 in Singles & Dating

We are going with all real flowers for the bride and her matrons, Any suggestions on how to preserve the flowers after the occassion.

2007-03-16 03:30:51 · 9 answers · asked by Marilyn S 1 in Weddings

I have been with my bf for 2 months(im 20,hes24)I am his first gf in 2 yrs.In the beginning i could tell he REALLY liked me he would do anything to see me i met all his friends and his parents.now hes started acting distant,i see him once a week which is REDICULOUS!.He is very affectionate and attentive when we're together,which makes this so hard.we live 30min away from each other and only i drive(i dont mind driving out there all the time)he tells me how much he cares about me,but hes actions arent telling me that he just goes out and gets drunk everynight.Its hard for me to just dump him b/c i have really strong feelings for him i am remembering the person I met and the person he is when we see each other and NO we aren't sleeping togetherHe told me on Tues that he wanted to come stay at my house tonight and watch a movie but last night he said he cant now b/c he has to help a friend!he been hurt bad in the past.WHY DO U THINK HES ACTING LIKE THIS?SHOULD I GIVE HIM TIME/SPACE?

2007-03-16 03:30:12 · 19 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am 22 yrs Male. I don’t want to get Married !!

It doesn't mean I am GAY !!

Coz I feel Why always Women needs to take Pain just lying below one, why they always suffers, to make cook, to clean up house, to work, to take pain of nine months, bear pain while giving Birth to the Child...

Then to feed them, to teach them, to take them school, to take care of them, to grow up in good manner...

They walk equal to us now even than still they facing many problems like...

Take care of their personal parts, face problem of Menstrual Cycle and many more...

When there is already so much of problem in...

Women’s life than...

Why should I get Marry ??

2007-03-16 03:29:15 · 29 answers · asked by hitz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok im on yahoo answers all the time and i see this ^ question
all the time and i thought they were stupid,until i was in a pasision myself
so im sorry,anyway,,im 15 and hes 18 my mom is fine with that and he's cute he can sing like an angel um he's charmimg and he has a hot body and so funny out of this world everything i could want but ....he has a baby girl she just turnd one,but thats not the point i dont like him like that i just dont ewhhhhhhhh,and yesterday he came over to see me and he's like can i have a kiss and im think in my head umm NOOOOOOOOO!!!
help me please 10 points!!!!

2007-03-16 03:29:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont want o hear "Oh he should want to do those things anyway"......But, Im wondering if theres anything I can do to make my man want to be romantic more often...he has, but probably about 10 times in 2 years!!! I want him to want to pamper me and rub me and slow dance with me and caress my skin!! How can I do that....he loves me and I could make him...but why doesnt he just want to and do it on his own without me makin him!!??? Any suggestions? Maybe act uninterested and play a lil game like when we first started dating?? I dunno...any ideas?

2007-03-16 03:28:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 03:28:23 · 11 answers · asked by enitsirhc21 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex broke up with me and seems fine about it while im not. i want to get fit and look good and seem happy for myself but also a bit to make her jealous. i got no probs gettin other chicks but i think this would be a good confidence booster. will it work and is it a stupid thing to do?

2007-03-16 03:28:01 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it feels like every other person i know r leaving this contry to have a better life my friend says this contry has nothing to offer anymore and she wants to give her children a better start in life i have a young family and it has got me wondering is the grass really greener on the other side

2007-03-16 03:27:28 · 2 answers · asked by kazzieloulou 1 in Friends

seen daughter after 19 yrs so happy seen her three times but she's in the high life and a fly away could be moving miles away
and feel she's just slipping away i feel heart broken
could any of you good people tell me some hope
or what to do
i much appreciate it

2007-03-16 03:27:16 · 12 answers · asked by DEAN R 1 in Family

2007-03-16 03:26:44 · 18 answers · asked by MG 1 in Singles & Dating

my x boyfriend last night really wants to see. but he hasn't broke things off with his girlfriend.and i asked him if he cheated on her with me (which is not going to happened) would he feel bad. he said no because it was with me but if it was any other girl he would. t he he told me he loved me and that he is scared of breaking things off with her because i might not want him back.

2007-03-16 03:26:13 · 5 answers · asked by jennifer 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 03:25:59 · 12 answers · asked by steph 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-16 03:25:36 · 12 answers · asked by xxxxxxxxxx 2 in Singles & Dating

im 16 and my boyfriend keeps asking when we are gonna do it but i dont no how it all works and i dont wanna look like a retard when we do, do it what should i do?

2007-03-16 03:25:08 · 16 answers · asked by Katie H 1 in Singles & Dating

So, I dated Ben for 2 years, fell in love, which wasn’t hard considering I was getting over a horrible guy. This guy seemed perfect. A year in and we were still together, never fought, never seems to bicker about anything. A year and a half in.. I realized we hadn’t talked about a future together.. or a future at all. We are both old enough to begin to at least think about this, and yet.. we hadn’t. Around 2 years, Ben breaks it to me that he doesn’t know if this is it, he doesn’t know if this is “true love.” Ben had never been in a relationship before me, other than a few dates here and there, and I, well lets just say I’ve had my share of emotional connections. Ben was my 2-3 long term boyfriend and I felt with him what I felt with no other(and still, but we’ll get to that in a minute). I remember with Ben I never thought anything about another person, I never felt the need to think about another person, I was just.. as I like to put it: where I wanted to be. So the break-up happened and I made myself take a second look around. Maybe what I’d felt wasn’t love, maybe it was just what I could get at the time, maybe I could find more than “where I wanted to be.”
James and Ben were roommates for about a year. James was one of the sweetest guys I’d ever met(still to this day is). We’d always been friendly, yet I saw him in a different light, maybe it was a feeling, or maybe it was anger running though my veins to my ex. I felt as though it was a strong suggestion to at least try. James and I began dating soon after, he even asked his roommate(my ex) if this was okay. My roommate replied “I’ve seen how you to get along, it’s obvious it could be a good thing.. sure.” We’ve been dating for 3 months, and it has been a rocky time between our friends and my ex. James and I seem to not hang around them as much anymore, in fear that we might disturb peace between the “group.”
1-2 months into the relationship with James.. my ex discovers what happened was not what he wants now. He questions his decision to break up with me and starts a quick plan to win me back, I push away and take this as a “you’re an ex for a reason” type deal. I stop talking to him and tell myself this new relationship is everything I’ve wanted from Ben, only with someone else. Well, now, 3 months in.. I miss Ben. I think about him, and I pray he doesn’t move on.. because I feel like I haven’t fully recovered, nor that I may not. I love my new boyfriend, I feel things for him I can describe, but I love Ben, I feel things for him I CAN’T describe. Maybe it was my quick rebound relationship, or maybe… just maybe there was a reason for all this and the reason was to make it work with Ben. …I don’t know what my question is, I just need advice

2007-03-16 03:25:04 · 2 answers · asked by Missy B. 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are marrying this summer.
We want a small wedding coz we don't want to spend too much.

I was wondering, should I invite my cousins(first cousins) or not?
Although we were close when we were kids, I haven't seen them for 10 years because we are now in different towns.

2007-03-16 03:24:55 · 24 answers · asked by shells 1 in Weddings

My friend has just got a job that he has wanted for ages I want to make a big fuss but Im low on money. Ive so far just text him saying congratualtions.

2007-03-16 03:24:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She led me on for months by flirting and listening to me admit I like her, but she never told me she did not like me. She just was happy with our friendship and wanted it to grow. We had been friends for years, and I am hurt that she never told me the truth. I told her our friendship is over, but she continues to try to maneuver herself to positions where we can talk. When I talk to a girl, friends of mine find her looking over at us. I want her to forget about me. What does she want??

2007-03-16 03:24:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-16 03:24:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

culturally or otherwise

2007-03-16 03:24:28 · 1 answers · asked by Sunflower 1 in Singles & Dating

This could be anything. A first date, your prom dates name, an embarrassing moment, something special that happened at a loved one’s funeral, or even something as simple as always having a spare car key from that one time you got locked out of your car and had to wait like 3 hours for a tow truck. Ha Ha! <:o)

I will go first, one of the many things that I will never forget is the time when my family and I went bowling and it was my Dad’s turn to bowl. He went to roll the ball, and apparently, his fingers had been stuck, because he went sliding down the aisle half way. He was all right – despite being a little embarrassed since everyone was gawking at him in shock. My mom cried laughing that day. OMG! I will never forget that and how fun that summer day was for us. That is just one of the many things I will always remember, but what about you? What is your memory, and why will you always remember it?

2007-03-16 03:24:15 · 1 answers · asked by Answer-Me-This 5 in Family

I had a quite a traumatic first relationship and it ended about a mth ago. My ex was an angry person and would abuse me verbally and leave me crying each time. I'm so tired now that I can't seem to trust any guys around me and my heart seems so dead now.

How can I open up again and forget about him?

2007-03-16 03:24:12 · 4 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

how to get talking to hot chicks in a bar?

2007-03-16 03:23:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You've had a row with your other half.

2007-03-16 03:23:45 · 24 answers · asked by tanny 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has some phone numbers of some women that he has met at various job sites as he works out of town. He swears that they are only friends and that it is no big deal. (He has never tried to hide this from me.) I had a Myspace account and was chatting with men and I told him about it. He became VERY jealous, so for the sake of argument I deleted the account. Now I wonder how often he calls or sees these women. I had numbers of several men but I threw them all away and now I wish I hadn't, if he can have a womans number shouldn't I be able to carry around a mans? By the way we have been married for 24 years and the sex is great. So what do you think?

2007-03-16 03:23:40 · 30 answers · asked by youstillcantsee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-16 03:22:42 · 15 answers · asked by Little_Lilth 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, long story short. i like i guy, i have his sn. would it be really stupid to get a different sn and talk to him. i wouldnt tell him my name, and remain kind of annonymous. the only thing he would probably know is that we go to the same school. would the end results be bad?? would this not work out? is this a really stupid idea??? thanks a bunch sexyies!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-16 03:22:36 · 2 answers · asked by book worm 5 in Singles & Dating

The type of wedding will be from a filipino-chinese background.

2007-03-16 03:22:24 · 8 answers · asked by c_351073_l 1 in Weddings