Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

So I have this classmate, and she tells me she trusts me and even goes as far as to call me her best friend. BUT, I do NOT see her as a best or even a close friend.

Now, she's asking me why I am feeling down, which I am, and I don't want to tell her because it's personal. I haven't told anyone why, although lots of people are asking... She threatens me- if I do not tell her, she won't talk to me ever again. I say that I'll tell her someday. (I DON'T PROMISE)

The problem-- she has been threatening to end our friendship from the start so that she can force me to do everything her way. I don't like it because it seems as if she's using me. Is it wrong that I don't want to trust her?

*I've had a past experience like this, but even though I did, I still can't help but be kind to everyone (and I ALWAYS end up being betrayed by those I once trusted).

2007-03-16 03:22:24 · 4 answers · asked by jul_mich 2 in Friends

2007-03-16 03:21:46 · 14 answers · asked by peaches 1 in Singles & Dating

Well 2 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. We dated for about 1 year. and off and on another year. It was a bad break up all of a sudden He doesn't want nothing to do with me and was treating me super mean and i don't even no what happend. but 2 months later Well all of a sudden shows up at my door and wants to spend time with me and he says that he misses me...Keep in mind this is someone i really love. So we spend time together well he ends up telling me I hope you don't think we're back together..he wants to still see other women plus be with me..He tells me that he's still single...but Me on the other hand i want to be with him and only him...I don't want to hurt myself by being with him and cuddling with him occassionally...Should i cut him off..or what his doing..why does he want to be super nice and lead me on but doesn't want to commit to me...am i being dumb....What's going on

2007-03-16 03:21:43 · 13 answers · asked by mcswain_jamie 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl where i work who cannot bear any of the guys talking to any of the girls part from her. She seems to have all the guys running after her and no one else gets chance to talk to the guys of the office. Its like she puts them under a spell. None of the girls like her as all she talks bout is how guys says shes so beautiful and how shes asked out loads. The thing is ive got a works do coming up and im worried shes going to spoil everything

2007-03-16 03:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife was in a pretty bad accident a last year (she was not the driver), but now it seems like she doesnt trust anybody's driving, including mine. We drove long distance from Jersey to Georgia and all I heard was her complaining and telling me how to drive. I mean i feel for her, but you shouldnt tell a man how to drive. what do i do?

2007-03-16 03:21:03 · 22 answers · asked by Kingston 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Need some serious answers!

2007-03-16 03:20:58 · 1 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 03:20:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-16 03:19:53 · 39 answers · asked by Peter E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love all women, fat ,skinny, tall (that can be exciting), short. I dont think they are ugly, they dont need makeup or fancy clothes. hell you dont even need perfume. all women have a natural scent.

2007-03-16 03:18:44 · 23 answers · asked by Kingston 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy im crazy about. we talk and i flirt. alot. but i think about him all the time. but he doesnt seem interested in me. he flirts back but i dont no if he likes me. and i think about him constantly. should i keep liking him or get over him?

2007-03-16 03:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by Cowgirl_up_ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 03:17:28 · 17 answers · asked by jan-na~♥~ and im luvin it 6 in Singles & Dating

how do you keep the spark in your marriage, im a newly married and it has been great. been married for a month but been in a relationship for a year. known her for a long time. it is good and beautiful. want advice to keep it that way and keep the spark. love being married!!!

2007-03-16 03:16:15 · 23 answers · asked by soto_a81 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we got married 22yrs ago,but i love sex so much,what am i to do?

2007-03-16 03:15:57 · 9 answers · asked by travelboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a 17 year old boy who has to wear a diaper during the night because i cant hold my bladder when im sleeping. My mother is angry about this now so she is starting to make me dress as a baby girl around the house and when i am sleeping. She says as soon as i stop wetting the bed ill be dressed back to normal. Sometimes she puts me in frilly petticoats/or party dresses for little girls. She doesnt understand how hard it'll be to stop. I dont know what to do anymore

2007-03-16 03:14:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I told her I liked her six times, and after months of allowing my feelings to build and not saying anything, she said she never liked me. I know for a fact that she is lying and did at one time. Anyway, she wants to be friends and for our friendship to grow. I am very hurt, and I told her our friendship is over. The other night we were at a meeting, and I was talking to another girl. She kept looking over at me according to my friends. Later after the meeting, she kept trying to maneuver so we could talk. I do not want to talk to her because she blames me for everything even though she flirted. Why is she trying to talk to me? Can't she take a hint??

2007-03-16 03:13:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and Married and some people still treat me like a kid and i'm just as much as an adult as they are. What do i do?
Pink20

2007-03-16 03:13:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are there any benefits of having premarital sex?
The argument is usually "would you buy a car without test driving it first". I think this is very shallow to compare buying a car to having premarital sex.

Just like it would be shallow to say..."Even a brand new Mercedes-Benz comes with a spare tire" and so it is ok to have another person "on the side" when you are in a relationship.

My point is-- if one is going to oversimplify their sexuality by making their sexuality analogous with buying a car, don't be suprised if the partner YOU choose decides to embrace the second analogy and decide to cheat on you. And then YOU try to throw out words like trust, committment, vows, morals and values. Cars don't have those things. Remember.

Do you agree that we oversimply the concept of premarital sex?

2007-03-16 03:13:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love him and last night he told me that he doesn't know because he has alot of people living with him. Yes, they are girls but they are not dating each other but anyway, he said he doesn't know because he has alot of people living there now that don't do anything but sleep all day and then he said alot of other things and then he said that if I really got help with the problem, he was talking about my anger problem, we might try again and you are getting better and he will help keep the house clean and help me around the house then maybe you are better so he will think about things and then he told me not to hold my breath then he said that he is going to take a while that maybe after his 2 weeks of work is up then maybe.

2007-03-16 03:13:09 · 9 answers · asked by BEE 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend in my math course. his name is edward, but we usually called him "es batu" or....yaaa....like the "ICE MAN" in english. he is very quiet in my class, and i never talk to him because i think that he is weird, not like the other boys. well, he hardly ever talk in my class and his voice is just too....soft, maybe ? But,...I started to think that he is cute ? And...i think that i'm in love with him. what should i do ? i never talk to him before

2007-03-16 03:13:09 · 2 answers · asked by Piyo 1 in Singles & Dating

This kid at school told me that I could have sex over the internet. He said I needed to stick my pnis into the disk drive and close it then open the drive on my comp and rag it to the internet...is this possible?

2007-03-16 03:13:05 · 3 answers · asked by fdhdf s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my hubby is a great guy ,, a good son a great guy at work..he is brilliant ... but it has always been that we dont click .. the way lovers..or sposes do ???
i have two boys ...and this is the 7th year of our marriage..i had an arranged marriage.
I feel that we are together just cos we are married ... i dont think i can get seperate cos culture wise it will be unacceptable besides i do not earn ..!!
My emotional life is at a setback . i stay with my in laws . my mil is cute but more than half the times im unable to set my kids on routine(1.5 years old) and systmise them because of her interference .... i just have no clue how to go about things.
? if it matters ....i had developed stronmg feelings for another guy who now is married ,,, i did have emotions for him... now physicals .!!!!
the Q is what do i do?? how can i make my life on the "move"

2007-03-16 03:11:16 · 14 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't wanna ask this but i really need to know what to do.

this boy had a crush on me and i tould him i liked him. now he's obsessed with me and i'm more then annoyed...what's a good way to let him down? omg, he's a cry baby.

2007-03-16 03:10:59 · 6 answers · asked by Yuffie-chan 2 in Singles & Dating

in our work, today she ask sorry for what she had done , i do forgive her but can i still stay and work with her , even still have pain in heart

2007-03-16 03:10:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You really like this girl. At the same time you don't feel confident around her. This of course leads to insecurity / neediness etc. Question is, do you hang in there or do you leave? If u hang in there, how do u deal with urself?

Anyone wanna share their experiences on this?

2007-03-16 03:10:54 · 5 answers · asked by FlyerGuy 2 in Singles & Dating

Is the general thinking "I know I'm not the best looking and so my boyfriend won't be good looking, so he might as well be hung"

2007-03-16 03:10:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Back in grade school this girl and I had attempted to date. Didn't really work out, a maturity issue mostly. We lost contact for 6 years until meeting again online last year. We have since become the best of friends, however I feel something more for her. She has stated that she really values the friendship and wouldn't risk losing it, while we casually talked about our previous attempts at relationships. I however have felt almost miserable not saying how I truly feel about her. I really value the friendship too, and it's the last thing in the world I'd want to lose, but I can't shake the feelings for her. Should I tell her how I feel? Last thing I want is to hurt her, and confessing has the chance to do that. On the flip side if I don't tell her, I'll likely keep feeling miserable. Not sure what to do.

2007-03-16 03:10:06 · 4 answers · asked by Antoine 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm not a big sex freak or anything like that, but the "polly purebread" type girls just don't seem to do it for me....what is wrong with me?

2007-03-16 03:09:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were talking last night, and he is just as nervous as me...

If he has told them a lot about me... Does that mean part of the reason he invited me tomorrow is to show me off to them???
(I don't have much against that... But is that the reason a guy would introduce me to his town's whole basketball team)

2007-03-16 03:09:08 · 8 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't want to hurt his feelings but i don't want to spend the rest of my life with him!1 (he wanna get married) and i'm only 15!! he tries to make me cut cuz he doesn't care about school but i do.....i feel nothing for him and if i have to kiss him it's like kissing a frog. not because of his loooks but because i just don't feel anything for him.

2007-03-16 03:09:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm in love with my best friend! but i don't think he loves me and i have broken up with alot of guys because i am waiting for him! i know their are so many guys that would like to be with me, but i want him! i swear we r gonna be married! but i don't really know should i just wait for him or should i just forget about having a romantic relationship? i need help!

2007-03-16 03:08:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating