i'm in love with my best friend! but i don't think he loves me and i have broken up with alot of guys because i am waiting for him! i know their are so many guys that would like to be with me, but i want him! i swear we r gonna be married! but i don't really know should i just wait for him or should i just forget about having a romantic relationship? i need help!
2007-03-16 03:08:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should trust that whatever happens is for the best. If I were you, I wouldn't forget but I still would try to live my life and go out with different people. Maybe, when he sees you going out, your best friend will realize that he cares for you more than he thought. If he doesn't, then you haven't wasted energy and time on some ideal relationship that will never exist.
2007-03-16 03:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To the first question love is complicated because other wise it wouldn't be worth it. Second have you told your friend how you felt, and do you know know his feelings aren't returned?
If you feel you can't tell him then maybe you already have your answer and just stick to being Friends. Get it out and meet new people and actually give it your full attention you may find that your not quite as attached to your Friend as you think. Most important think is to listen to your heart but don't forget to use your head. Just because you love someone doesn't mean it'll work out between you.It takes a lot more than love to make a relationship last. If I were you I'd take some time to consider whether its worth the RISK of losing my best friend over if it didn't work. Good Luck!
2007-03-16 03:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by bubbas_bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's complicated because men and women have totally different ideas about it. Girls take it to some weird obsession based on fairy tales and chick flick themes. Guys can't measure up to those fake standards. We are basically realists when it comes to "relationships". We do romantic things to get women off our backs and on her's, so to speak.
It's totally unrealistic for women to believe that a man will be "full time romantic". We just can't do it.
If you've been "friends" with him for so long, it may never happen that he'll *Fall In Love* the way you need him too. I think he's too comfortable with your friendship as is.
2007-03-16 03:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ... love is never easy and I know how it feels to love someone and not have the same response back from him. BUT you said that you "think" that he doesnt like you so I think that you should just be straight up forward with him and tell him how you feel and if you guys are best friends he most likely feels the same about you ... and if he doesnt than try to move on cuz as you said, there are plenty more guys that would like to go out with you.
2007-03-16 03:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Alex M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be, then eventually it will happen. Don't put your life on hold waiting for him though. Also consider, if a relationship with him ends badly, would it have been worth losing him as a friend?
2007-03-16 03:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Yoda_Yodel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be patient, if its gonna happen,it will.In the mean time, be yourself and be a great friend, thats what great relationships all start out with.Have some fun hanhing out and maybe with luck, there will be something else, good luck!!!
2007-03-16 03:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by bowsgirl1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"in love"
attraction
obsession
attachment
infatuation
but people use in love as a catch all for these things
i am not sure
you know you
but i suspect you are some one of these above and not in love.
love is "accceptance" - that is all it is as far as how I like to think about it.
2007-03-16 05:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by lowroad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to hang out alot it will work but you guys need 2 be alone
2007-03-16 03:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by aj_p7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it when its confusing thats how you know its real
2007-03-16 03:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋