Well 2 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. We dated for about 1 year. and off and on another year. It was a bad break up all of a sudden He doesn't want nothing to do with me and was treating me super mean and i don't even no what happend. but 2 months later Well all of a sudden shows up at my door and wants to spend time with me and he says that he misses me...Keep in mind this is someone i really love. So we spend time together well he ends up telling me I hope you don't think we're back together..he wants to still see other women plus be with me..He tells me that he's still single...but Me on the other hand i want to be with him and only him...I don't want to hurt myself by being with him and cuddling with him occassionally...Should i cut him off..or what his doing..why does he want to be super nice and lead me on but doesn't want to commit to me...am i being dumb....What's going on
2007-03-16 03:21:43 · 13 answers · asked by mcswain_jamie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cut him off. He started being mean to you suddenly two months ago because he wanted to get out of your exclusive relationship and start scr**ing other women. And now he wants to add you to the rotation.
Given your feelings for him, you will be terribly hurt later on down the line. Don't open the door to him, don't answer his calls or his e-mails. You need a clean break from him.
Good luck.
2007-03-16 03:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave. He's bad news, and he's being nice cos he misses the sex. Read what he said, he wants to be with OTHER women too. It isn't love, it's called getting whatever he can out of all the women he can. You are punishing yourself if you stay with him and he is also punishing you too.
2007-03-16 10:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know what he is after ??? he can't get what he wants from other women, so its back to you. With open arms and open ,,,,,,,,, (keeping a "g" rating here) Cut him off, plenty of other very good guys around. Remember good guys are in good places, bad guys are in bad places.
2007-03-16 10:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz he is out there whoring around... cmon girl! Be smart.. let him go do whatever he wants.. what a typical man who wants more than one woman. I don't understand why men or women need more than one partner.
You are being dumb! Sorry. Go find someone that will love you and want to committ to you. Trust me they are out there.
2007-03-16 10:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy comes back he either really loves u or just wants sex. u decide hopefully he is a good guy and realizes u were everything to him but he doesnt want to tell u because he doesnt want to feel stupid if u reject him. just tell him that he's all u want if he wants u he will say he's srry and come back like a dog with its tail between its legs
2007-03-16 10:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by greg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find out what happened between the time you and him were broke up if hes done nothing between anyone he really misses you but he seems that he got dumped by someone and then he came back to you. as a back up find out first.
2007-03-16 10:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him off. if he cared about you he wouldnt even suggest any bullshit like that. he would have just tried to cheat on you on the low. he is showin you that he doesnt respect you nor does he ever plan to be commited to you. he basically just asked to be your ***** buddy and believe me he is gonna be pissed if you tryto hook up with someone while he running around hittin everything
2007-03-16 10:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him no matter how hard it is to do because to spare yourself from getting hurt never do you wanna run into him with another woman that will hurt like hell so leave him alone and find some one else
2007-03-16 10:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hadn't gotten any action lately and knew he could get it from you. He'll do it as long as he can. Cut him off!
2007-03-16 10:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by sandg94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be dumb if you let him play you like this. Kick his butt to the curb and tell him when he grows up and knows what he wants he should let you know.
2007-03-16 10:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋