theres this girl where i work who cannot bear any of the guys talking to any of the girls part from her. She seems to have all the guys running after her and no one else gets chance to talk to the guys of the office. Its like she puts them under a spell. None of the girls like her as all she talks bout is how guys says shes so beautiful and how shes asked out loads. The thing is ive got a works do coming up and im worried shes going to spoil everything
2007-03-16 03:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh she is one of those is she, I worked with one like that, hence my total breakdown. I dont suppose this one has done a phsycology course has she! Problem is the chaps all love the attention from her don't they. Not realising she is on a self esteem boost for herself, and also cause as much trouble for others as she can. Thing is, she is likely to get fed up, or cause so much trouble she will be put in position she can only leave. If you look in to her history, you will probably find that everywhere she has worked, she has caused trouble. Although, is totally innocent, and just so 'oh dear please help me, I cant do this or that'. Probably will never be successful in any relationship. So cant bear anyone to get on or be happy!. Just so jealous! So has to be centre of attention!! Try not to let her ruin your life. Good luck
2007-03-18 10:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you and the other girls in the office should talk to her about the fact that ye feel she could be making a bad reputation or name for herself within the work place - obviously you guys are goingto be a little bit jealous of the fact that shes getting all the guys attention - but she does sound rather full of herself as well..... I think the best thing is to try and not let it play on your mind... she genuinely may not realise how silly she appears to others - maybe a chat from you and the rest of the girls will help calm her a bit!
xx
2007-03-16 03:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well firstly you need to get hold of some kind of drug that will knock her on her **** the day of the works party,
something like well you know search it out, slip it in her drink at lunch 'bang' she's out like a light,prob sorted
she must be very vain some people need the attention all the time once they get it they want more and more like an addiction i guess,i can imagine it being very intoxicating to have people constantly trying to gain your attention an favour.
she has no idea, or just talk to her about it listen to what she says maybe she will get the message,then maybe you an the other girls can get your self some action too
or if all else fails revert to plan A
good luck
2007-03-16 03:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by bty10271499 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who resort to self-flattery and heavy flirtation usually have low self esteem, and need to feel validated by others. I've been in your position, and the best way to get through this situation is to just understand why she is the way she is, and realize that you are much more well adjusted than her. Once you adopt this mentality it'll be so much easier to just let her comments roll off your shoulders. Eventually the guys will see this too, and everything in the office will go back to normal.
2007-03-16 03:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sunflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a tough one but avoid as much drama as possible. i recomend not worring about inter-office relations cause that just makes it messy if anything goes bad so just focus on work and the second anything starts getting in the way tell the person to leave you alone and explain the work thing then if it continues to get in the way go to your superviser.
2007-03-16 03:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by frank b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my buddy its very undesirable... if ur gf extremely loves and cares u none different than in this international its no longer a brilliant concern to deal ur love at her mom and father i'm hoping so. talk along with her 1ce lower back and make beneficial this so this you could bypass a step a head and you bypass directly to her mom and father and talk with that... be brave guy, in case you do like this you could imm reaction quite than feeling discomfort, crying interior ur heart... in any different case make ur mom and father to talk along with her mom and father... all the main suitable
2016-12-14 20:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's pretty funny im so beautiful and i take loads a excuse me i mean i get asked out loads. talk to whom ever you want.you no everybody at the speak easy knows her name.
2007-03-16 03:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her when she talks to you and she will soon get the message that she bores you. whats stopping you from talking to the guys? it may be jelousy? get right in there and dont be shy
2007-03-16 03:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by tra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you wonder about people like that. Have a word with your boss about it?
2007-03-16 03:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋