i don't want to hurt his feelings but i don't want to spend the rest of my life with him!1 (he wanna get married) and i'm only 15!! he tries to make me cut cuz he doesn't care about school but i do.....i feel nothing for him and if i have to kiss him it's like kissing a frog. not because of his loooks but because i just don't feel anything for him.
2007-03-16 03:09:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to be honest with this guy and tell him (gently) that he is a very nice guy, but you don't want anything more than friendship with him. It is not fair for you to string him along just because you are finding it hard to break up with him. Also, I am really glad that you recognize that school is important. Don't let this guy bring you down by talking you into cutting school. You sound like a smart girl, and it is obvious to me that you have goals for your future. High school is important as these grades go on your permanent record and it is what determines whether or not you will get college scholarships and what schools will be open to you. Please break up with this guy today and then find yourself a guy who also has goals and ambition. You need someone who will encourage you to be all that you can be, and not someone like this dude who will encourage you to be a failure in life. Good luck with this!
2007-03-16 03:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, here is what you should do: Tell him that you do not feel for him the way he feels for you and that simply put, marriage is just not something on a 15yrs old mind! Of course he will be hurt, there's always someone hurt when relationships end. Don't let that stop you from breaking up with him. Your young and should explore the world and be free. Stay in school and ditch this one...you'll be happy you did. Good luck!
2007-03-16 10:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, your 15, your thinking right. If you don't want to be with him leave him. He will get over it, trust me, he will have the rest of his teenage life to get over it. If he's already talking about marriage you better run! Trust me. I was 17 and engaged to a 27 year old. I missed a lot of my high school life. But I learned from it.
If you don't feel for him, you don't have to be with him. So what if you hurt his feelings he will get over it, I promise you that. You both will move on and eventually may be friends again.
Good Luck!
2007-03-16 10:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like him its easy get rid of him there is nothing more misserable being with someone you dont like or care about,and you said he wanted to get married how old is this guy anyway?You also need to stay in school and do what is right for you he sounds like a looser to me
2007-03-16 10:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. 15 is way too early to talk about marriage. Chances are he doesn't even know what he's talking about. Get out of this relationship now.
2007-03-16 10:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 15 and he is thinking of commitment. Just break the news to him gently.
2007-03-16 10:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by maran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen.maybe he is 20 and over eh? maybe that's why. if youre not feeling well with him,dont care about his feelings,care about yours. im not telling you to be selfish. i know how you feeling,i felt like this before,but you should see what you want.
i hope you understood me
goodluck
2007-03-16 10:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by angele d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the big deal. Break up with him.
2007-03-16 10:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k -ur 15 -break up with him-that simple ur to young to even think marriage
2007-03-16 10:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez! Just break up with him. I promise you, it won't be the end of the world!
2007-03-16 10:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋