I love him and last night he told me that he doesn't know because he has alot of people living with him. Yes, they are girls but they are not dating each other but anyway, he said he doesn't know because he has alot of people living there now that don't do anything but sleep all day and then he said alot of other things and then he said that if I really got help with the problem, he was talking about my anger problem, we might try again and you are getting better and he will help keep the house clean and help me around the house then maybe you are better so he will think about things and then he told me not to hold my breath then he said that he is going to take a while that maybe after his 2 weeks of work is up then maybe.
2007-03-16 03:13:09 · 9 answers · asked by BEE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or is he just trying to get my hopes up again , he want me only 4 sex, or he want my money that im now gettting but he has money so I dont think that it, or he want me just to clean his house, he want a realtionship with me again 4 unborn son, do u think he might try and take my son from me , what do u all think ??
2007-03-16 03:16:05 · update #1
I think you must talk clearly with him, what he wants you for.
2007-03-23 21:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by Punjabi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have an anger problem? It sounds like he has a responsibility problem. He called it off with you and you are pregnant? Shame on him for being such a total jerk - he actually told you 'not to hold your breath' about his return to your life? Lose this loser. I'm sorry to say that about your baby's father but it sounds like he enjoys your begging for his love. He should be only thinking about marrying you and making life easier for his family (you and your son). Instead, you suspect he might want to sponge money off of you and possibly move in with you when he gets tired of the gang of people he's living with. You are probably right about that - he does use people and he has used you.
Think now of making life secure for you and your child but please, also try to have more respect for yourself. Set the standard higher for what you want from a relationship. This guy sounds like he will never be anything but disappointment.
2007-03-24 02:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kimberly, Did you say you are having this mans child? If this is true, you need to concentrate on yourself and unborn baby ONLY!!!!! You need to take care of yourself, and make sure you get the prenatal medical care you need to have a healthy baby. You are going to be a mother soon, that should be your only priority now. This man knows you are having his child and is lacking all the qualities that a GOOD man or father to be would posses. This man has no compassion, is self-centered, lacks integrity, and basically cares nothing for you, or the baby. Personally, I would not want a man like him in my life, not to mention, a man like him in my CHILDS life.. All he wants, is to get what he can from you. Get away from this poor excuse of a man, and do not look back! I hope you and your baby are ok, God Bless.
2007-03-23 14:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems though he has responsiblity issues. Leave him alone, and strengthen your life. Perhaps you should re-read what you wrote for confirmation. You need to focus on your well being and that of your unborn child. Get ready, because it sounds like you will have to be both mother AND father.
2007-03-24 10:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mocha Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE THE JERK!!!! If people living with him and them sleeping all day is the reason he does'nt want to be with you, then hes not worth fooling with. RESPECT YOURSELF and move on.
2007-03-24 09:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by keith g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he knows what he really wants and is just playing with your mind. Move on
2007-03-16 10:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. Leave that kind of guy alone...
2007-03-16 10:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you settling for less than you deserve?
Why be with someone who does not want you or appreaciate you?
Be strong.
2007-03-24 03:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by It's about the Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go! Move on! He sounds like a jerk!
2007-03-16 10:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋