we got married 22yrs ago,but i love sex so much,what am i to do?
2007-03-16 03:15:57 · 9 answers · asked by travelboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing after 22 years together she's not going to change. You will have to decide if you can live in a marriage without sex or leave .
Unfortunatley you knew that she never liked sex before you married her so you will have to deal with the choice you made
2007-03-16 03:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know this is probably not the answer you want to hear, but really the best thing you could do would be to go to a sex therapist with her. This will help you find out why she isn't interested and work on techniques for getting both of you in the mood. It'll be money wisely spent.
2007-03-16 10:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the poster that said you and your wife should go to a sex therapist. That would likely help. If not however you could always buy one of those very realistic blow up dolls.
2007-03-16 10:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by The OTHER Boelyn Chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like most men who treat their wives like sex machines, You've been successful in turning your wife completely off from sex, so you're on your own now.
2007-03-16 10:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude you have been in a sexless marriage for 22 yrs. The problem is not your WIFE it's YOU.
2007-03-16 10:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have put up with it for 22 years and you have and want to be faithful maybe you should go to your local sex toy shop and get you one of them pocket kitty's and take care of yourself. good luck
2007-03-16 10:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is not having sex with you because you are no longer attractive to her and/or your performance is lousy. Or maybe she is getting it on the side and does not need you. These are my guesses.
2007-03-16 10:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Momma K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an twenty/thirtysomething Asian girl, get to work. You have some catching up to do.
2007-03-16 10:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by Kermit renversant de corporation 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
romance her before you get to the bedroom and maybe something will happen. Flowers, soft music, etc....
2007-03-16 11:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by country girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋