ok im on yahoo answers all the time and i see this ^ question
all the time and i thought they were stupid,until i was in a pasision myself
so im sorry,anyway,,im 15 and hes 18 my mom is fine with that and he's cute he can sing like an angel um he's charmimg and he has a hot body and so funny out of this world everything i could want but ....he has a baby girl she just turnd one,but thats not the point i dont like him like that i just dont ewhhhhhhhh,and yesterday he came over to see me and he's like can i have a kiss and im think in my head umm NOOOOOOOOO!!!
help me please 10 points!!!!
2007-03-16 03:29:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey, listen, guys are like that. We aren't very smart when it comes to what women are thinking. If you're being nice just to placate him, he's thinking, "hey, she likes me"...we're stupid. You have to get to the point.
2007-03-16 03:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the only thing you can do is be honest with him... there are ways that you can say thing that will not seem like your being mean. You can just tell all the nice things that you just mentioned in your question... and then let him know that you just don't see him as a boyfriend.... But by the way he sounds, he should have no problem finding someone else that will like him just as much as he is capable of liking her... and you should tell him that also... he might feel a little sad, maybe even rejected... but he will respect you for being open and straight up with him.... Good Luck....
2007-03-16 10:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just talk to him .... a great line that always gets guys and works for me is " listen i just want to be friends with you. nothing more and nothing less". if he can't handle that then that'll show you that he wasn't in it for the right reasons. you're 15 and he already has a baby. find a guy who has no kids ... just be straight up
2007-03-16 10:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..just give him a chance...he's a nice guy. Don't you want to have a nice boyfriend who loves you for you and respects you? If you really don't think that can happen then just say that it would be better off as friends or...something
2007-03-16 10:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him that doesnt have to stop you from being friends you rather tell him now than later i believe if people be up front with there feelings in the end nobody will get hurt
2007-03-16 10:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him like it is. Tell him that you really like him because he is charming etc.......but, you only like him as a friend and do not have any romantic feelings about him. Tell him that you like his friendship but if he finds it difficult to be friends because of his romantic feelings than you can just break apart your friendship. That simple! If your friendship is meaningful to him he will remain a friend and respect you as such.
2007-03-16 10:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you need to bring it out in the open but you dont want to hurt his feelings but it is the only way to get to the people like that. i know from friend exoerience. dont browny it up . he needs to here from your mouth. i wish you all the luck with this so later
2007-03-16 10:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is what to do.
tell him - i think that we are really good friends , but just friends. we have a good time together but not like that. we are better being just friends.
if he takes it bad say to him - oh im so sorry i just dont like you like that.
things should be ok after you say that!
good luck!
2007-03-16 10:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to tell him that you really don't like him but don't said in rude voice,tell him that there still some other nice girl that perfect than you
2007-03-16 10:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by carmen h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u given him a chance it takes a guy a while to feel comfortable around u. i know people are gonna tell u to dump him but that would really hurt him. idk my gf told me that she wanted to just be friends but that was worse i actually woulda rather had her cheat on me so i could dump her
2007-03-16 10:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by greg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋