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Question

Hi, I am 22 yrs Male. I don’t want to get Married !!

It doesn't mean I am GAY !!

Coz I feel Why always Women needs to take Pain just lying below one, why they always suffers, to make cook, to clean up house, to work, to take pain of nine months, bear pain while giving Birth to the Child...

Then to feed them, to teach them, to take them school, to take care of them, to grow up in good manner...

They walk equal to us now even than still they facing many problems like...

Take care of their personal parts, face problem of Menstrual Cycle and many more...

When there is already so much of problem in...

Women’s life than...

Why should I get Marry ??

Answer 1

With this kind of rant, I would think you MIGHT be gay homie. A dude who doesn't want to get married, just doesn't get married, they don't rant on like this! It looks like your trying to convince yourself your not gay more than anyone else.

Answer 2

Not sure where you're living at the moment, but it doesn't sound like where I live.
Women don't take pain lying below a man if he's being gentle. The first few times might hurt or be uncomfortable, but if the man is considerate it gets more pleasurable with each time.
If the man is helpful in the home a woman won't suffer with cooking cleaning and raising children.
Pregnancy isn't always troublesome, many women enjoy their pregnancy. Yes, childbirth is probably the worst agony a woman will ever have to endure, but the pain can be controlled if the doctors and midwives have the technology available (I really wish I'd had an epidural). Most women will forget the pain and have more children (I never will, but mine was a difficult birth).
Womens things are natural, many women have problems with menstruation, this can be eased by the pill - it's not only a form of contraception, it can also help balance hormones and make the menstrual cycle shorter, less painful, less heavy. Anti-inflammatory medication also helps.
BUT
If you don't want to get married, no-one should force you.
Live your life and be happy, and if you happen to fall in love and find yourself wanting to marry, be a considerate and helpful husband.

Answer 3

There is no law that says you have to get married. If you decide that marriage is not for you, then you also need to decide on not having children. Children are better raised in a home where there are two loving parents who are committed in a marriage union so as to form a family. You can't have it both ways. Women are being more independant now and this seems to upset you. Don't worry, from the way you sound, there is a good chance most women would not consider marrying you anyway. If you do not have the attitude that can appreciate and benefit being married, then don't get married. You are not wrong in doing what works best for you. Best of luck!

Answer 4

You don't have to get married. But I think marriage is a beautiful thing, and i think that going through nine months of pregnancy and pain sucks, but it's worth it in the end, especially when you have a husband that's great to share a beautiful thing with. i think your being very considerate actually seeing what a woman goes through, and being a woman it's tough, but I wouldn't change the things I go through, because then i couldn't make a man happy, and I couldn't see the joy a child brings to your life, It sounds bad but it isn't really all that bad you know. But I do see where your coming from.

Answer 5

When you marry you really shouldn't but that much thought to it... Some men now in days do some of that house work so that hard working women can go on in life with less stress... It would be just the way men take the issues into actions.

Answer 6

Yeah, you shouldn't get married. It's not for you. I wouldn't marry you, have your rotten, whiny kid. You'd probably cheat on me with the baby sitter or have one of those online affairs (ick). I'd have to deal with you not making as much money as me and staying home, being lazy on the couch. You'd probably die before me anyway, which I guess could be a good thing. The insurance money will pay for a well overdue vacation! Get a grip! It might be the only way you'll get some with you're attitude towards women for a while. Think about it....

Answer 7

You don't have to get if you don't want to. Did you see your mother go through a lot in her marriage? You seem very sensitive to women and it's like you equate marriage to women suffering. Some women are suffering in their marriages but some are happy and marriage is not always easy but some problems can be worked out.
Is child bearing and labor painful yes it is. But most moms are so happy to have their babies that we overlook labor and just love being moms. Yes we have a lot on our shoulders but having a good man to help us makes it better. I can't tell you what that is like b/c I don't have a good man for my son but I have a good family and that help us so much.
The things you said that women have to deal with is just part of being a woman and that is what makes us so special and strong.
Hopefully one day you will find a special woman who cam help you see that loving a man and raising a family is not suffering but a blessing.

Answer 8

there is nothing wrong with you not wanting to get married but there are people that is there life mission me i love being a mother thats the best thing in the world to me but the pain of giving birth will not always be there people suffer thru thing to make bettter ways so i wouldnt think you were gay because you dont wanna get married just dont lead nobody on to let them think you are going to marry them and in your heart you are not going to and there are alot of men i know that have your same opinion i have 11 brothers and i have seen alot marry a person when you want to not because any one else

Answer 9

Hey you don't have to get married. Besides you are only 22, that is pretty young. I wouldn't worry about it. If you meet the right woman then you will probably want to get married. Or heck maybe you never will and that is OK. Some people just aren't cut out for marriage.

Answer 10

Wow! You have a LOT to learn about women, don't you? You don't want to get married because of what WOMEN go through? That really makes no sense to me, but I will say this. I LOVED being pregnant, having babies, breat feeding, taking care of them, rocking them, singing to them, playing with them. It's not a burden, it's pleasure. I love to clean also, cause it helps me relieve stress. I turn the music up loud and clean away!

Taking care of personal parts? Hell, that's what showers and baths are for, don't you do that?

Answer 11

Dude! Wasup? You should meet a woman who can kick you butt. Lord knows you need it.

I've been married for 6 yrs. My wife does some cleaning and cooking, but so do I. It's called doing life together as equal partners in a (hopefully) loving relationship.

I don't suggest you try meeting anyone now . . . you need mental help, but I do suggest you get up to date with the idea of who a woman is in marraige . . . there are some who would hurt you for what you said.