She is really cute and fine also.
I had agreed to meet her at her place but then I changed my
mind because I have a girlfriend. Somehow my girlfriend
found out that I agree to meet this woman and she broke up with me. It makes no sense to me that I should be in trouble
since I didn't actually meet with the woman. I didn't get the
sex. Shouldn't it matter that I didn't actually do
anything?
2007-03-16 03:32:25 · 14 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're not mature enough to understand why your girlfriend is upset, then you're not mature enough to be in a relationship.
Let your girlfriend go and have a chance with a man who will treat her with respect.
You had the intention to cheat on her, thats enough reason to end any relationship.
So no it doesn't matter that you didn't get 'the sex' it mattered that you intended to get 'the sex' and had sex with another woman on your mind, which is ok, guys will be guys and have imaginations same as girls do, but you went further and tried to act on it.
Any self respecting girl like your gf would have the red flag going at that point and leave.
Good for her.
2007-03-16 03:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Chyme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it shouldn't matter. The point is that you were willing to have sex with another woman. You may not have gone through with it, but you didn't just think about it--you actually arranged a meeting. I'm glad your girlfriend got out. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.
2007-03-16 10:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes because you thought with the wrong head at first and then your right head gave you the right answer. you had already planned to go over there, that should of not even been a though because you have a girl. if you did think of it, you still should of said no and not planned anything. how would you feel if youre women planned to go sleep with another man and then changed her mind? you would be made because she didnt think of you first, she thought of that sexy man that was going to give it to her good. do what you dont do, so it does matter. but now you can do what you want and it wont matter!!!
2007-03-16 10:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter whether you went to meet her or not. You had it in mind and that constitute a break up coz you seem didnt care of your relationship on the first place.
2007-03-16 11:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because it your intention that got you in trouble...Now that you are broken up with your girlfriend, now you can have all the sex you want from this other woman..
2007-03-16 10:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeap
2007-03-16 10:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you made plans to screw around is all that matters here. Your girlfriend had every right to dump your sorry butt!
2007-03-16 10:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by puckbunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because if your thinking about do it, then there was nothing really there iwth your girl. So in that sence she did the best judgement by leaving now, because one day you just might slip and since she knows your though process now...well she can save the heartache
2007-03-16 10:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by MAMA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is just sad, you have a GIRLFRIEND. if you did had sex with some other woman, i'm sure it would hurt your girlfriend.
2007-03-16 10:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was right to dump you. The fact that you even considered it says alot about your character.
2007-03-16 10:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by TD R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋