Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

dont believe that men would love stout women, am i close minded or shallow?
Am i shallow or just realistic about life, or really close minded?
i dont believe that men would want to marry fat women
i dont believe that men truly appreciate a womans worth if she does not have a beautiful body
and that i dont believe that men could stay true in marriage and that they would always find a way to cheat
and that i dont believe that good looking men fall for stout women
i just dont think so, i just think that all men ever care about is the body of the woman, not the brain, but the body
so i dont like to get involved with men

2007-03-15 17:20:27 · 2 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has a close female friend who is not fawned of me. She dont even know me. She always tries to find a way to bad mouth me to him, telling him that I'm no good for him; that he desevers better. My bf tells me this only when we have an arguement. I think she has a huge crush on him, and trying to sabatoge our relationship. How do i get her out of our lifes, without my bf thinking that I dont allow him to have any female friends?

2007-03-15 17:19:44 · 6 answers · asked by trophygf 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 17:19:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. I have been diggin' this guy where I work at for a year. Well I gave him a V-day card with my number to him and he is just now opening it up! He called me today at 840am and left a vm saying how wonderful the card was and asked me to call him back. I called back and we talked for about 35 mins. In the course of our conversation I mentioned that I needed some "me" time and decided to take off for today. Well, after we hung up, I called him right back to see if he wanted to join me today to feed some birds at 2pm. This is relaxing to me. He said he would and to call him when I am leaving. Well, I had an emergency and forgot to call him to tell him. Didnt realize it till 3pm. I called and got his vm and left a message stating what happened and if he still wanted to join me. I recvd no call yet. Does anybody think that I should call back to see if he got the message? I think its a desperate move. Does anyone think I blew it with this gorgeous guy?

2007-03-15 17:19:14 · 15 answers · asked by juicygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend jsut got a new boyfreind. Before she got him she always walked with me to classes and sat by me at lunch. Now since she has gotten together with him she dosent walk with me and at lucnh if i sit by her she ignores me mostly. I tired talknig to her about it but it didnt work. Wat should I do?

2007-03-15 17:18:06 · 15 answers · asked by ~CarterRose~ 1 in Friends

I would really like to start out and say that I am quite akward socially. Most people all my life have told me I am weird. I grow tired of hearing this. I havent had a friend in ages. I am just slightly slow should I hang out with just mentally retarded people like myself? I cant hold a conversation well.

2007-03-15 17:17:58 · 15 answers · asked by raymanfranks 1 in Friends

i like this guy right. but he likes another girl. but he doesn't know I like him but we are real best friends. so how do I tell him if he asked the other girl out, but she said no?

2007-03-15 17:17:57 · 4 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 17:16:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do you like aholes? or sweeties?

2007-03-15 17:16:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy.
we're kinda talking.
i haven't really called him texted him or nothing.
met him saturday.
he called for the first time last night and wants me to call him friday after i get off work.
what can i do to keep him interested and get a relationship going?

2007-03-15 17:16:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First, the details. Me and my boyfriend clicked the moment we met. We were both taken at the time but we always recognized that there was something about us that seemed more than just teen puppy love. We finally started going out right before he moved to the other side of the states. But it hasn't changed out relationship. We're still firmly in love. It isn't sexual or based on appearances. We're both similar in nearly every way and we both think differently from other teenagers. We have deep spiritual conversations, intellectual talks, it's more than just a "I love you" "I love you too thing".

Lately he's talked about coming back to California and he's serious about possibly proposing. I'm thrilled at the idea but at the same time worried. I'm 16 and he's 18. We both want to attend college and we've already determined we're destined for marriage and can wait until we feel ready for kids. I'm just curious as to how others would react to this.

2007-03-15 17:15:55 · 15 answers · asked by This Little Apple 2 in Weddings

she have mistake , u have mistake , both of you, she ask sorry , of coures you forgive , but will u still work with her?

2007-03-15 17:15:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 17:14:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you feel about darker colors for summer weddings? Even if was at the end of summer? Do you think it is okay and completely up to the ones getting married? or would it actually look dumb inside of the church to have darker colors than the "norm"?

2007-03-15 17:13:22 · 16 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Weddings

2007-03-15 17:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 17:11:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know my bf loves me, or he SAYS he does. He's sweet, and holds my hands and we kiss and hug and what not... but...
i know i'm jsut being insecure, i'm sorry. But he recently had a serious relationship with another girl.... and i kinda feel jealous.... i wonder.... if he still loves her in a way.... cuz when he was going out with her, and she broke up with him, he said that he still loved her...
and i keep seeing her stare at me... as if.. interrogating me...
and ppl keep saying how perfect they were together
and how friends used to give him romantic lines to smooth talk to her...
evn i gave him lines!
and... well... i just feel insecure. Any advice?

2007-03-15 17:11:19 · 8 answers · asked by Juliette 2 in Singles & Dating

He thinks we are meant to be. I don't. So I ended it. He showed up completly drunk and telling me how much he loves me and misses me. He kept calling me sweetie and baby and all that. I told him to leave and he wouldn't. He kept trying to hold me. He got so frustrated at one point he was actually banging his head into the wall. Quite hard. I just don't know what to do. He knows how I feel and where I stand. I don't know what else I can do besides file a restraining order and I am not sure that is really the right thing to do. Should I be more aggressive and tell him to leave me alone. Sould I ignore him. File a police report? I am just looking for some advice or something of that sort.

2007-03-15 17:10:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 17:10:45 · 21 answers · asked by khenichi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a wife cheat, the husband has to wonder if the child is his. But if a husband cheat, the wife don't have to worry about that.

2007-03-15 17:10:37 · 59 answers · asked by Joe Guy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have inlaws and friends starting this work at home businesses you know selling stuff, getting investors. I think there just scams.... how can i just say "NO" i love this guys I'm just little more afraid than them.

2007-03-15 17:09:42 · 4 answers · asked by sandy.d 2 in Friends

I don't have a good relationship with one of my managers from work. You know when you get negative unspoken vibes from a person sometimes? It's like that. He's happy go lucky around the other workers, but when it comes to me, he doesn't laugh or joke around even when i'm attempting to have a lively conversation. Not to mention he has really high expectations, and even when I make an unimportant mistake, i'm instantly under his spotlight about it. I really don't get it, and even though I know I shouldn't take my job to heart, it's something that's been bothering me lately. I haven't said anything out of line, I try my best to follow what I need to do, but he still gives me crap. I'm fine with everyone else at my job except him, and it's getting to the point where i'm dreading to come into work everyday. Any solutions? I like my job, and I like the other people I work with, and I want to try to keep things good between everyone, but it's not working with my manager for some reason =(

2007-03-15 17:09:09 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♫BlondeRoCKeR♥♪ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Am i shallow or just realistic about life, or really close minded?
i dont believe that men would want to marry fat women
i dont believe that men truly appreciate a womans worth if she does not have a beautiful body
and that i dont believe that men could stay true in marriage and that they would always find a way to cheat
and that i dont believe that good looking men fall for stout women
i just dont think so, i just think that all men ever care about is the body of the woman, not the brain, but the body
so i dont like to get involved with men

2007-03-15 17:09:04 · 1 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

I took her and her 15 year old sis ter to the skating rink to a skate and dance party,when i went back to pick them up my 13 year old was standing in front of this boys with her butt up to his front as if he was hugging her from the back, they was just standing there with there friends, so when i called her on her phone and asked her who was the boy she was standing in front of she told me she wasn't standing in front of anybody, she didn't know i was looking right in her face. I got on her for lying but should i get on her for being all up on a boy, or is this cool for a 13 year old, she will be 14 on the 24th of this month. Am i being old fashioned, or what?

2007-03-15 17:08:34 · 13 answers · asked by jatir 1 in Friends

I have noticed as I check back on my watch list that a lot of the answers have 2-6 thumbs down and it's not on just a couple of people it's on the majority of the people who answer! A lot of these people's answers are good (including mine of course!)

Who is doing this?

2007-03-15 17:08:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so to start off my bf and i have been dating for about 4 months now and have worked together for about 9 months. and now he's one of my managers. well there's this lady prolly about in her 30's that started in jan. and lately my bf has been going on break the same time as her and sitting in her car smoking cigs. with her. the first time i didnt really make too big a deal about it cuz we drove together to work and he didnt want to ask for my keys to sit in my car. usually he sits in his truck. well tonite he just disappeared and he wasnt in his truck so right away i knew he was with her and i got really upset b/c he drove tonite, so why did he have to sit in her car?? am i over reacting? oh and there was another lady that used to work with us that used to sit in his truck with him. she was atleast 40. he's 20!!! what the hell is going on? i know i have trust problems b/c of my past but i just wish i knew how to get over them. please HELP!!!!

2007-03-15 17:08:17 · 7 answers · asked by Blondie 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 17:07:36 · 5 answers · asked by cris 1 in Friends

Seven years ago I started dating a married man. (any critics, myob) we were together about four years when I dumped him for someone else. I didn't see him for three years and recently started seeing him again. He always tried to talk to me about him leaving his wife, but I wouldn't have the conversation with him because I was too scared to I guess? He spends the night with me 3-4 nights a week, she has to know! Anyway, lately he has started talking about how bad it is at home, and again, I have not really engaged in a converstaion about it with him, and I think he is not really sure if I want more than what we have now...however, I think if he knew how I felt about him, he might actually leave her for me, but if he didn't, I couldn't see him any more. So, should I take his baite and have the talk, do I stand a chance? Did you ask him to leave her for you or did he do it on his own.

2007-03-15 17:07:32 · 30 answers · asked by parkeni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what to do. I really want a great life with my husband, and we have a wonderful son together. We've been married 3 years, together for 4.5. He has always had an anger problem and would get violent by throwing things agaist walls etc. He never hit me, but has done a lot of harm to me by calling me names and yelling at me. He's calmed down in the sense that he doesn't throw things that much, about once a month or so, but he still yells and curses if something goes wrong. I hate living this way but I'm so scared of raising my son on my own and giving up on my marriage. My marriage was a commitment to God too, that I'd stay for better or worse, but i don't think God would want me going through all this. I love my husband but I really have started to hate myself for putting up with it. I have no backbone anymore and pretty much back down every time. I confided in him about my eating disorder after having it for 2 years. I waited so long because I didn't want him to hurt me with it. After I told him he made fun of me for it during an argument. It hurt so bad. I felt so ashamed and betrayed that he'd say that to me. I hate who I've become. I've gotten counseling, and 3 out of 4 of the different counselors told me to leave. I know I should, even if only for my son's sake, but I'm terrified I can't do it on my own, and my son will end up living like I did as a child, poor, abused and even homeless at one point because of my mother. Please don't call me stupid or ignorant for staying. I know I am. I can't help but want a life with the person I love, but I don't want this kind of life. I've tried getting him to go to counseling but he says he'll go and then never follows through as soon as he sees that I'm not going to leave. I feel like I'm smothering in some tiny little box when I think of him. I'm so scared.

2007-03-15 17:07:26 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know whats making out but what exactly is a french kiss??

2007-03-15 17:07:09 · 15 answers · asked by evee 1 in Singles & Dating