He thinks we are meant to be. I don't. So I ended it. He showed up completly drunk and telling me how much he loves me and misses me. He kept calling me sweetie and baby and all that. I told him to leave and he wouldn't. He kept trying to hold me. He got so frustrated at one point he was actually banging his head into the wall. Quite hard. I just don't know what to do. He knows how I feel and where I stand. I don't know what else I can do besides file a restraining order and I am not sure that is really the right thing to do. Should I be more aggressive and tell him to leave me alone. Sould I ignore him. File a police report? I am just looking for some advice or something of that sort.
2007-03-15 17:10:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy is obviously derranged...yes definatly tell him off...but dont be a jerk about it...sit him down and say, "look i know we were dating, and it was good while it lasted, but lets be realistic, not every person we date is meant to be our spouse, i need you to understand that we are not going out any more...i appreciate how much you care but i just dont feel the same way....this is what was meant to be, im sorry about how you feel but dont worry you will find some1 your a great guy."
he will appreciate that u told him instead of **** off or leave me alone...you need to get him to understand the situation....hope i could help
2007-03-15 17:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by JMac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that Honey. You need to get tough on him because he's obviously not getting it. Threaten him with a restraining order, and if he keeps doing this, then get one! I know you don't want to have to take it that far, but you might have to. Under no circumstances shall you see him or take his calls. Simply tell him to stop or your getting that order, and thats the last thing you say to him. Any response from you will only make him keep going, Good luck!!
2007-03-15 17:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by s w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 12:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, sounds like you have a serious situation there. If I was you, I would have one last talk with him. You don't want to have anything on your conscious about get a restraining order on him. However, if it comes to that--then do it. Some people change their phone numbers and avoid places that are frequent by said ex, but you have to live too. Also, you might try to get him some help because it this situation sounds like it could turn serious. I hope it all works out for you and please protect yourself and be safe.
2007-03-15 17:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to file a police report immediately. i had the same problem and he wouldn't stop until i got the police involved good luck and stay safe
2007-03-15 17:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel alarmed then you have every right to take it to the next step. Safety first. Make sure he is all right to if you are good with his parents talk to them about it. Talk to your family too.
2007-03-15 17:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by themoodyspacecadet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hah.
Hang out with him as friends.
Or you should leave him alone
and stay away from him for a while.
Let him get over you.
It's NOT easy to let go of a love.
2007-03-15 17:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him back off or youll file that police report
2007-03-15 17:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people can not accept NO.If you decided to go out of it,go out!Be careful!
2007-03-15 17:24:51 · answer #9 · answered by de2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
threaten him with a restraining order.
if it doesn't work, go ahead and get the restraining order.
2007-03-15 17:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by bookworm8346 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋