My friend jsut got a new boyfreind. Before she got him she always walked with me to classes and sat by me at lunch. Now since she has gotten together with him she dosent walk with me and at lucnh if i sit by her she ignores me mostly. I tired talknig to her about it but it didnt work. Wat should I do?
2007-03-15 17:18:06 · 15 answers · asked by ~CarterRose~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow...these ppl are harsh!....i know you probably want to get back at her but I think you can get more pleasure out of the situation by being the bigger person, and don't ignore her just be nice. if she is truly your friend things will work out...i mean friends are forever...true friends are atleast, If she's not a true friend then get a new one but don't rubb it in her face just because you both have changed. Goodluck and Be happy i know your probably going through a tuff time. I think we have all experinced this terrible feeling. Life goes on we find ppl who love us!
2007-03-15 17:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Adddison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i know how you feel. It seems like your friend wont spend as much time with you like she used to because she wants to spend it with her bf. Dont worry, later on she will arrange time to spend with you as well. Right now she's new with her bf so she needs more time with him to get to know him and stuff. I dont know why she is ignoring you though...maybe you should just hang out with other friends instead of sticking with her all the time. Or find something to do so you dont feel lonely if she was your only friend. Try to talk to her when you can and tell her that you and your friend needs to have time for you guys to hangout. If she keeps ignoring you, just forget her because she wont know how important friends are.
2007-03-16 00:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes happy .. shouldnt you be happy for her ! .. if i hade a best friend that fallowed me around when i hade a bf i would get kinda annoyed !.. but sometimes its normal because ur attached to her but i think your getin a lil jealous of her haven found somethen elss.. your still her best friend and shes gunna talk to you about your gurl things ! but she has a bf and needs to spend some time with him alone ! . maybe u should go out adn find someone too ! u can always double date that way your with your best friend and your boyfriend at the same time ! =) .. its juss gunna need some getin yust to but its normal and try not to spoil things for her ! .. dunt put her in any siutation were she needs to chose !.. so be a good friend and make the best of the situation !.. maybe its a hint sayin for you to find a man too ! =)
2007-03-16 00:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend that has done the same thing. before she got a boyfriend she used to hang out with me and my other friends, after that all she has done is hang out with him and doesnt hang out with us unless hes is absent at school. and even then she doesnt really talk to us she talks to him on the phone all the time.i guess that people change and shes still my friend even though she spends like 24/7 with him if that makes her happy i guess thats cool, but im sure shell come around eventually.
2007-03-16 00:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by introverted 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She thinks that having a bf is quite cool 'cause you hang out with someone you "love" now. Honestly,hanging with your bf is just so much butterfllies in your tummy!
But, I don't know why she's dissing you.I think you should try being in her shoes one day and see if you would like to hang out with both at same time..,honey, she wants privacy.
2007-03-16 00:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by love me for me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is going to do that then she isn't a true friend when it comes to someone she's affection about and can't juggle two powerful commitments. Ok that's kinda confusing, but what I'm trying to say is, if she can't learn to be your friend and have her b/f then don't be her friend, because u can't count on her anymore, so it's worthless.
-Me360-
2007-03-16 01:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by Me360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the relationship to break up and she will be back to her old self in no time. If it doesn't she is probably just looking for a way to balance her relationships right now. Give her time either way.
2007-03-16 00:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by joez12901 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she breaks up with him, ignore her. Then when she asks why you are ignoring her tell her that you are showing her how it feels. If she doesn't care that you are ignoring, maybe y'all shouldn't be friends. In the meanwhile, hang out with someone else.
2007-03-16 00:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by k_carthran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she does have a boyfriend and she wants to spend a lot of time with him but if she knew how you felt she wouldn't like that. so i dint think that she really means to ignore you she just wants to be with her boyfriend and spend time with him so he thinks that she cares about him. but i also think that she is being a very bad friend by ignoring you and not talking to you.
2007-03-16 00:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by hawaiiangrl12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a bf and do the same to her OR just ignore her and start chatting to your other friends and before you know it she will be "why are you ignoring me"
2007-03-16 00:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋